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The Train Journey
by Gita Gordon

The train was nearing its final destination of Netanya, with just one stop, Beit Yehoshua, to go. I sat watching the familiar sights flit past me and felt a sense of satisfaction that there was now a train to Beit Shemesh. I had been to see my family and train travel does away with so many uncertainties. There is no traffic problem, so the times of departure and arrival are known. At Netanya, there is always a bus waiting for the arrival of the latest train, so there is no speculation about waiting or taking a cab. Besides, the seats are comfortable and the scenery is so stunning that while I always take something to read, I seldom get past more than a paragraph or two.

There is some discussion over whether it is necessary to say tefilas haderech on this journey because of the habitation we pass on the way. However, we were told to say it each time.

I was just thinking about this very question when the words, "Next stop Beit Yehoshua" entered my consciousness. Two minutes later, the station came in sight and three minutes later, the station was behind us. There was a moment of silence and I thought to myself, "Did I imagine that announcement?" I turned to look at the exits and there were people standing in a group, ready to disembark, amazed expressions on their faces. Soon the silence was overtaken by a steadily increasing swirl of meshed voices and sounds of amazement, anger, worry and wonder.

One man said, "The train will have to reverse." Another said, "Trains don't have a reverse."

The train drew to a halt and there we sat, in the middle of two stations with dusk overtaking us. "We will be stopping here for four minutes," came the voice over the loudspeaker.

The cell phones were whipped out. "We were nearly at the station and now we have passed it and stopped. Don't set out to collect me until I call you again." Similar messages were heard on all sides, some despairing, some worried and some angry. Since no one was collecting me, I took out my train timetable and saw that the next train to Netanya was due quite soon. At this stage, I wasn't all that happy. I kept reminding myself, "I said tefilas haderech at the beginning of the journey."

Then there was a mumbled announcement and the train slowly began to reverse. We came to a stop at Beit Yehoshua and a number of passengers hurriedly disembarked. The train began to crawl forward. It was now dark. Could a train coming from the opposite direction and using these same tracks see us, I wondered. How had the delay been dealt with? Had signals gone up to warn that we had been delayed? Was this a standard railway procedure, with everything under control, or was there reason to worry?

The train inched its way forwards. It felt to me that the engineer was none too confident that the line ahead was clear. After what seemed an eternity, but was probably no more than ten minutes, we arrived without incident, with a sense of relief and thankfulness, at the Netanya station. The solid cement platform beneath my feet was very reassuring.

Naturally, since we had arrived late, there was no bus waiting. However, there is also a minivan service and there the van was, with two disgruntled passengers sitting inside. As we got in, they prodded the driver together, "Now will you go?" The minivan was half empty so we waited. I used the time to ask the driver if this new service ran according to a specific timetable. Pleased with a diversion, he copied out the timetable for me.

There was anger in the van. Having been delayed on the train, everyone was now in a hurry to get home. I felt no anger. I felt tremendous relief that we had arrived safely. I felt pleased that I now knew the exact times of this service. However, since the other passengers were voicing their dissatisfaction, the driver set off.

We had not even left the station area when a call on his cell phone ordered him back to collect passengers from the train that had just arrived. We turned back and the voices around me were raised in protest, but to no avail, as we arrived back at the station and collected three more passengers, all looking angry at their short wait.

I reached home about half an hour later than I had anticipated. As I looked around the familiar surroundings, the events of the previous hour came rushing at me in a jumble. There was thankfulness that we had arrived without mishap. There was a sense of wonder that a train driver had actually made such a mistake. Was he new to the job? Was he tired at the end of a long day? Was he a dreamer, a person who should do some quite different job? Not every job is suitable for every person. Had such an event happened before? Would he be disciplined? Had the anger of the passengers helped? It certainly had not played a positive role in getting them home sooner, so what was the point of it?

Since I feel that every event should teach us something, I am trying to draw a lesson from this journey. However, all I can think about is that I am glad that the decision had been made that we say tefilas haderech -- on this journey in particular.

 

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