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HOME & FAMILY Song of Ascent"I myself feel very good. Like I very much belong here; an Israeli in every way. I can't change the view of whoever thinks of me as a chutznik, a kind of `defect' which they pin on me. But I don't mind living with it till one hundred and twenty," laughs Dassi, a `new' immigrant, only twenty-odd years in the country. Many years ago, the FAMILY section inaugurated a column of occasional stories depicting the positive, upbeat, inspirational side of life in Yerushalayim, which was -- and still is -- called "Urei Betuv Yerusholayim." We would like to extend this idea to include another aspect of seeing the good -- seeing the good in the so-called simple folk, those proverbial `pomegranate seeds' with which our people's Family Tree is filled.
Lucky Break I'm clumsy.
This may be due to a lack of natural grace and agility, but
is more a combination of impatience and lack of perfectionism
in certain areas. Domesticity (read: housekeeping) is one of
those imperfect areas in my life. This means that dishes and
the like are not stacked neatly in piles in my kitchen
cupboards but are rather haphazardly hanging over the dish
rack or are at precarious spots on the kitchen counter.
COMMUNICATIONS After eliciting [recognizing and pinpointing] your values or someone else's values, you will notice that they will either be moving towards or moving away from their values -- or both.
Back to the Shidduch season. I'd like to throw out an
idea:
Chazal teach that whoever builds a bayis ne'eman and
helps establish a Jewish home, is considered to have rebuilt
one of the ruins of Yerusholayim and brought the Redemption
that much closer.
NOSTALGIA It was Thursday, and I had had a very busy day; my feet were
hurting terribly. I was expecting guests for Shabbos and in
my little kitchen, it seemed harder than ever to cook, and
clean up the mess afterwards. In my eyes, any small dish made
the place look more cluttered. I reached a point where I had
to take a break.
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