Dei'ah veDibur - Information & Insight
  

A Window into the Chareidi World

25 Sivan 5760 - June 28, 2000 | Mordecai Plaut, director Published Weekly
NEWS

OPINION
& COMMENT

HOME
& FAMILY

IN-DEPTH
FEATURES

VAAD HORABBONIM HAOLAMI LEINYONEI GIYUR

TOPICS IN THE NEWS

HOMEPAGE

 

Sponsored by
Shema Yisrael Torah Network
Shema Yisrael Torah Network

Produced and housed by
Jencom

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Home and Family
No Simple Sucking Candy
by Malka Adler

It was such a relatively minor incident, but upon reflection, quite significant. The last time I was in Geula, I had put on some extra walking mileage in order to purchase a particular brand of sugarless sucking candy.

Anyone who has had the zchus to step out into Jerusalem's sizzling summer sunshine knows how suddenly parched and dry one can feel. Drinks aren't always available, portable fans not too practical, and so, succulent sucking candies seem to suffice. Therefore, whenever I was nearby, I generally replenished my supply. It is only recently that I discovered the same brand, with the same hechsher, well represented in my own neighborhood grocery.

Once in the candy shop, I directed my roving eyes to the low calorie department. As I automatically reached for the familiar red package, for some reason, my hand shifted, as if of its own volition, and picked up a green package instead. Even as I paid for my purchase, I was perplexed. What had possessed me to take the mint, when it was the strawberry I desired?

As the pace increased and the temperature climbed, it wasn't long before I started discreetly struggling with the hermetically sealed peackage. By the time I managed to liberate one solitary candy, I felt well on the way to dehydration. At the first taste, I was overwhelmed by the shockingly sharp flavor. It had the very distinct tang and aroma of the cough drops of my childhood. The smarting eyes, the stinging throat, I vividly recalled, but it did silence the cough. Now, rather than quenching my thirst, it had filled me with nostalgia for that innocent, pre-antibiotic era. The small paper packages of sulphur mixed into a cup of water was the common cure-all. If one could survive, with Hashem's kindness, a glassful of that terrible tasting medicine, then it was most likely that one could conquer the illness.

Memories flooded me regarding the daily unofficial `war' between parent and child. The battle centered around the imperative consumption of a spoon of super-oily cod liver oil. This was America's great equalizer. Small matter one's religious beliefs, financial standing, social background -- one had to swallow a spoonful of cod liver oil. No excuses accepted! Whether the ultimate goal was reached through bribery, coaxing, threats, treats, reason or force was immaterial.

Uneblievable how on that crowded Geula street, the entire range of medical memories was evoked by one simple mint candy! Deciding that it didn't fill the purpose for which it was purchased, I pushed the whole bag down to the bottom of my fathomless purse.

One week later, I found myself on an intercity bus, traveling towards Rishon LeZion to visit my son and his family. Having left home for work on Sunday at 6:30 a.m., as usual, and been confounded by the computer, as usual, I was a bit weary. However, closing my eyes wasn't an option on these weekly trips. What a shame to miss even a moment of our beautiful country! A variety of lush, leafy trees, a flash of flowering gardens, handsome homes huddled along the highway -- even after almost three decades -- it never ceased to fascinate and fulfill.

Then, as if through a fuzzy fog, I became aware of someone coughing persistenly two rows down. The older woman brought a bottle of water to her lips, in between spasms, but to no avail. The hacking cough continued for long minutes. Sympathetic eyes turned towards her -- there was yet a long ride ahead. Suddenly, a thought occurred to me and I began actively excavating in the depths of my purse, no mean feat. At last I managed to extract two neatly wrapped candies.

At first she shook her grey head vehemently. But I persisted, urging them on her. Apparently, in spite of her relentless cough, she was reluctant to take them. A Russian language newspaper rested on her lap and she obviously wasn't used to encountering caring gestures from strangers. Finally, she put one into her mouth. Several passengers in the immediate area nodded their approval. Within two minutes, a serene silence reigned, maintained for the rest of the ride. As we left the bus, I pressed yet another few into her hand. This time she responded with a grateful smile.

No longer did I wonder why I had purchased the green package.

Editor's Note: Although she did not say so, we assume that the author asked the woman to make a brocho.

 

All material on this site is copyrighted and its use is restricted.
Click here for conditions of use.