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TRUE TALES OF YESTERYEAR
Look After the Poor!

by Yisca Shimony

Reb Nochumke was on his way to visit his mother. She resided in Baisegale, near Kovna, Lithuania. The distance was far and unfamiliar. He was bringing his mother a sizeable sum, but proceeded on foot since he did not want to spend money on renting a cart and a horse. Unfortunately, he made a wrong turn, and lost his way in the thick forest. He was hoping to find his way out before the nightfall, and spend the night in a safer place, when he heard some voices approaching and soon a group of riders appeared on a nearby hilltop. Excitedly, he called them to halt, and hurried towards them.

The closer he came, the more apprehensive he became, realizing that there was something evil in their look. He made a swift turn, and tried to hide and escape the group, but it was too late. Several riders came swiftly over, and seized him. He pleaded with them, "I am a poor Jew. What do you want of me? I did not want to harm you."

"Ha, Ha, Ha!" they laughed, "Did you hear of a Jew with good intentions?"

"I shall give you my purse. Just let me go!"

"Don't worry, we'll get your purse just the same!"

Reb Nochumke started praying and for a while the bandits looked on, doing nothing. As his prayers continued, he realized that they were preparing their swords and whips. He started saying the viduy, eyes closed, but as soon as the whips hit him, he fell to the ground, his blood oozing. Soon, he thought, everything will be over. Who will tell my wife? She will become an aguna.

Without a warning, more noises were heard, noises of bells. A wagon was nearing! The bandits fled in haste, leaving the wounded Reb Nochumke behind. Now, Reb Nochumke's prayers were those of thanks to Hashem for saving him so miraculously.

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A baby boy was born in a household filled with girls. The happy parent, Uziel and Mayda, celebrated the bris and named him Menachem Nochum. He grew to be a good, clever boy, but, alas, his poor parents could not afford to hire a teacher for him, and Uziel, the father, taught the boy the Aleph Beis and a little reading. Nochumke was eager to learn more but there was no way he could do it.

From time to time a wandering Jew would pass by, and Nochumke learned a bit more, but the travelers would go on their way and the studies would stop until the next wanderer came along.

Uziel was able to find better employment with a man who was also a learned Jew; he took a liking to Nochumke, and together they spent several hours learning daily. It was a wonderful experience for Nochumke, but for a short duration. The employer had to travel frequently to far-away places to purchase raw materials and sell his finished products.

Nochumke tried to learn in a nearby town, but he was not very successful, and though he tried as hard as he could, he soon found it was necessary to stop his schooling and go back home. The disappointed parents decided he must go to work, and avoid being idle, as idleness is a source of sin.

All along, he was determined to continue his learning, and eventually found a way to do so. He wandered from one town to another, and stayed in one place as long as he felt welcomed. He wandered to far places such as Vilna and then to Mir. His ability and diligence were noticed by all, and eventually, he was offered a fine shidduch, Etta, the daughter of the wealthy R' Yosef Eliezer Hacohen, from Nishviez, who undertook to support the new couple.

Unfortunately, Nochumke's widowed mother was unable to attend the wedding since the invitation was lost in the mail. Nochumke yearned to visit his mother, and requested his wife to allow him to travel. Both father and daughter refused to let him go. He pleaded so much, and eventually was allowed to go, after promising to come back without delay.

On his way, in the forest he encountered a band of robbers but Hashem saved him by miracle; he continued on, but he was lost. Reb Nochumke searched the ground to see if he could find the road leading out of the forest. While searching, he found a purse full of gold coins. Assuming that it had been dropped by the bandits, he took it and soon made his way to a nearby town which had a small Jewish community. He hired a wagon and continued on his way to Baisgale, where his mother resided.

He found his married sister, but not Mayda, his mother. He was told that upon learning that he was married, she had decided to go visit him. Since money was scarce, she had joined a group of beggars who wandered on foot from town to town, and while he was heading to her home, she had been going by foot to Nishviez, where she hoped to meet him and his family. Reb Nochumke entrusted his sister with the purse of money he had found so that when their mother returned, she could live in comfort for the rest of her days.

Both mother and son headed back to their homes without delay; their ways did not intercept and they missed seeing each other.

*

Shortly after, R' Yoseph Eliezer, the father-in-law, incurred some business losses and was forced to move out of town. The family moved to the town of Horodna, where Reb Nochumke was immediately welcomed. At first, the change of place was for the good, but soon R' Yoseph Eliezer realized that he was unable to continue to support his daughter's growing family and he moved back to Nishviez. Reb Nochumke and his family were now very poor.

The Horodna gaboim decided to create a special job for the eminent and humble Reb Nochumke. He was to be the shammosh of the community and see to the religious needs of the townspeople, but would be aided by a young man to do all the menial work that did not befit a man of such caliber. The salary given to him would help the destitute family survive. Reb Nochumke brought his mother to Horodna to live with them, and made sure she did not lack anything.

It was at that time, that a widow, a poor mother of young children, came crying bitterly to Reb Nochumke. She told him about the many debts she had; she had no way to repay them, nor any source of steady income, for that matter. Reb Nochumke started collecting money for her; people gave him willingly so that he was able to set the widow on her feet. She was followed by other poor people of Horodna who came seeking his help for their needs. Before long, he was helping everyone who turned to him, and they were many.

Reb Nochumke of Horodna became the address for all those in need; he provided the poor with food and firewood in winter, and listened to their woes with an understanding heart. To this day, his good name lingers in the memory of Klal Yisroel as a symbol of goodness and charity.

 

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