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Chairlady

by Cheryl Brody

I work in the office of an organization which was established over fifty years ago in downtown Jerusalem. We have dozens of wooden chairs in good condition which are not in use any more and we're offering them free to anyone interested in taking them.

A few weeks ago, a notice was put in a local newspaper and so far, several people have come by. Yesterday, a young married religious woman appeared whom I recognized as having taken some chairs the previous week, asking if she could take some more.

"I live in an area where there are lots of poor people and I would like to bring some chairs to my neighbors," she explained.

"Of course," I agreed. "Do you remember where they are stored?"

She nodded, then mentioned that her car was parked in our parking lot behind the building and that her baby was asleep in the car. She asked if I would mind keeping an eye on him while she brought the chairs. I suggested she bring the baby to my office so I could watch him while continuing my work.

A few minutes later, she returned with a baby inside a baby carrier (sal-kal) which she placed on the floor in front of my desk. I suggested she put it facing away from me as he might be frightened of a stranger.

She said that the baby had just woken up but that I shouldn't worry because he was a very placid baby who wasn't afraid of strangers and wouldn't cry.

"What a blessing it is to have a baby like that," I said. His mother went upstairs to finish with the chairs. I heard him gurgling, playing and talking to his toys, and decided to go over to him and `introduce' myself.

You can imagine my surprise in discovering that he was a Downs Syndrome baby, about a year old . . . And I had just said to his mother how lucky she was and what a blessing it must be to have a baby like hers. I felt terrible. I hoped that I hadn't hurt her feelings. It must be difficult to raise a child with Downs Syndrome.

The baby continued to play happily until his mother returned. She gave him a drink and thanked me profusely for the chairs and for my services.

Then, as she picked up her baby, ready to go, she turned to me and said with a sweet smile, "You know, you're right. It really IS a blessing to have a baby like this." And then she left.

P.S. Anyone interested in chairs — the offer is still good. Please call between 1-3, 0545-665-245.

Milk of Jewish Innocence

by S. Weinbach

My five-year-old grandson received, along with the others of his age group in the family, five shekels for Chanukah gelt. Seeing how happy everyone else was with their varying sums, he treasured his big round silvery coin and would take it out to look at every once in a while.

One morning in mid-Teves, in the heat of the pre-school frenzy, he casually asked his mother what five shekel can buy.

"Hmmm," she replied without giving it much thought, "a bag of milk, for example," and proceeded with her other busy duties.

That afternoon, this rosy-faced cherub (a grandmother aside - - he has blond hair, blue eyes and he radiates with pink happy cheeks and an almost mischievous twinkle in his eye), who is altogether `with it' in cheder, comes home proudly with — a bag of milk!

It was his first time alone in the grocery and he wanted to see if his coin would truly produce a bag of milk. And ever since then, he has become the family milkman, duly and daily buying all of the family's milk requirements.

Of course, he got his Chanuka gelt back and still has to decide what to do with it. But he has gotten his first lesson in economics.

I, personally, was beside myself. To think that a five-year- old was that innocent as not to desire anything, was not lacking anything in his pure life, that he had not pestered someone to take him to a store to purchase something with his wealth!

I imagine that very few are those five-year-olds anywhere in the Jewish world who would not know what to do with money. I was instantly reminded of the stories I have read about gedolim, especially those in Eretz Yisroel, who did not know tzuras hamatbeia, who could not differentiate between a coin of value or a simple penny, because they were totally absorbed in the world of Torah. I used to think it was an exaggeration . . .

May their like not fade away from this so-material world!

 

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