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What is REALLY Happening?

by Yochonon Dovid

An accident at the intersection. Two cars have collided and are stuck. Thank G-d there are no casualties, though some of the passengers were slightly injured and are being treated. The cars were extensively damaged, however; they are deeply dented and there is glass all over the asphalt. The police are busy measuring and taking down the testimony of eyewitnesses. Passersby stop to view the cars, to hear exactly what happened and to express an opinion. Here are some of the reactions:

A mother with child: "Terrible! It's dreadful to think that inside these smashed cars there sat live people! Poor people! I sure hope they'll be alright!"

A driver: "What a traffic jam! What a mess! Why isn't there a policeman to redirect the traffic to other streets? Every bottleneck like this has its price in money and time, besides taking a dreadful toll on people's nerves!"

Someone, probably with some medical know-how, explains to a bystander that even at a slow speed, a sudden stop of a car as a result of a collision can throw a passenger forward and, if he is sitting up front, his head is liable to crash into the windshield. A seat belt can prevent a blow to his head, even though it causes tremendous pressure upon the chest. The driver, he explains, is very liable to sustain an injury in the chest; the steering wheel can damage his inner organs.

Another person offers his estimate: "Look, I'm an economist. I can tell you the financial damage here. The damage to the car alone can cost the insurance company tens of thousands. Damages paid to the injured passengers, medical expenses and so on can skyrocket to huge sums. Accidents cause the stocks of insurance companies to fall and will eventually bring about higher insurance fees in the coming year."

Another bystander, apparently a physicist, explains at length to a young man at his side why one car changed its direction and swerved at the moment of impact so that it appears that it came from a different side altogether. His words are peppered with scientific terms that make his comments sound like a physics lecture.

Someone in a garage mechanic's clothing chuckles and muses aloud: "Now you can see what cars are made of today. It isn't even metal; it's like the aluminum foil that they wrap chocolate bars with. That's what they make cars from today. You can't even cough near them." And he chuckles again, out loud.

A Jew with a gemora under his arm surveys the wreck and with deep pain, says, "Oy, vey! Look at what happens because of a fractional second of pride. One of the drivers was supposed to slow down and allow the other one the right of way. Had he done so, there would have been no accident, no victims, no damages, and no tumult. But he decided: No! I'm first! He wanted to gain five seconds. And look — these are the results! Had he only thought for a minute, all this could have been avoided, but he didn't use his brains. All accidents come because of people's faulty character traits."

Someone else carrying a luxurious leather briefcase, which revealed him to be a lawyer, commented: "The driver who came from the left should have given the oncoming driver the right of way. But the other one was also at fault, because at the end of the street from which he came there was no open field of vision and he should have slowed down. Had he slowed down, the impact would have been much slighter and the cars would not have been damaged to such an extent. So, he's guilty as well, and without a good lawyer, he will have his license suspended for a few months."

Let us summarize the divergence of opinions and reactions regarding this incident that took place at the intersection: One person thinks that what happened had medical implications. The other sees it as the impact of two bodies governed by the laws of physics. A third sees here mainly an economic development of financial implications and monetary results while the lawyer views the legal aspects of the occurrence. A man of mussar sees the drivers and their behavior as the central focus of the event and all the rest as merely the background and setting.

We have heard how people of various walks of life think differently. It is natural for each of them to view everything through the one-way spectacles which they wear, each according to his personal occupation, profession and personality. Each of them judge the event accordingly.

Our question is: What REALLY happened here? Who, of all those who expressed their view, of those who showed how they look at that event, is the one to properly and accurately size up the situation according to its true nature? What constitutes the central point of the event that renders all the other opinions as subsidiary and auxiliary? In short, what is the true inner structure and essence of the event that took place here?

Many will say that this is a meaningless philosophical analysis and a pity to waste time on it. Others will argue that everyone was right, and what happened was a complex combination of all that the different people saw from their various points of vantage, and that there is no contradiction between them.

So what is the real truth?

This resembles a situation where different people are wearing eyeglasses that screen out certain colors, and each one is different. It is only natural for one to declare that the color of the opposite wall is blue, or green, or brown and so on, according to the special tint of his lenses. It is very easy to answer the question: What is the real color of the wall? One need only remove his glasses and look at it, and the true color will be apparent.

But as for the way one sees things, it is almost impossible for a person to remove the mental eyeglasses which are affixed in his mind by his personal way of thinking. These glasses are him and there is no way that he can change his own self.

In order to answer this question, in any case, let us attempt to see it more clearly through a parable.

A person visits a factory during peak hours and is duly impressed by the noise that fills the hall from the machinery. The general hubbub is comprised of hammering, striking of metal on metal, whistles, loud humming of machinery, jangling and all kinds of different noises that blend into one another. Rising above this hullabaloo is the sound of a marvelous symphony of a large orchestra. Even though one cannot help but be impressed by the beautiful sound, no one thinks that the factory was established for a musical purpose. This is easy to prove by simply asking the owner of the plant why he established it to begin with.

In a similar manner, let us remind ourselves of the purpose for which Hashem created the world. We know from the Torah and from Nevi'im that the world was created to test man, to place him into various situations whereby he can overcome obstacles, pass tests, and grow accordingly. The world includes within it everything needed to serve him as suitable background and props to ensure that the purpose of the world be realized in the best possible way.

Let us then postulate that man is the central axis of all events. We can reveal the true significance of every event by gauging the role he plays in that event. What challenge is any man faced with when he is placed in the setting of a particular event or circumstance?

Possibly, the focus of the situation before the accident involved the chief actor and how he values human life, how cautious he is, how much he is willing to sacrifice his time by allowing the right-of-way on the road, his personal pride, his regard for the sanctity of life and the commandment of `Thou shalt not steal' and being careful in one's own self preservation.

The whole enactment of his car arriving at the intersection at the very moment when another car was approaching, and the request of the baby-sitter at home to please not come home late, and his estimation that his engine was powerful enough to produce that spurt of speed to succeed in crossing before the other car, and all other kinds of lesser factors like, for example, the fact that he didn't see a policeman in the vicinity — all these are the background upon which the test was set up for that driver.

If so, our philosophic question is not floating around idly in the air, dependent upon personal aspects of vision, but is standing firmly on the ground of reality. And the real answer to this question is critical. The definition of the true essence of the events which we experience throughout our lives is very important, because this will enable us to see what is happening to us through the eyes of truth. Then we will be able to stand up to the tests which confront us, and to achieve their purpose in the world in the best possible manner.


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