To The Editor:
I was concerned to see on your front page of the 28th Shevat
edition an article describing in entirely positive terms the
opening of a hi-tech center for chareidi women in Bnei Brak.
While it is certainly good that additional sources of
parnassa become available, I have serious doubts how
"Glatt Kosher" this particular option is. Please could you
explain to me how it fits in with the Tehillim
extolling the glory of the Jewish woman at home running
her family, and not going out to sit 9 or 10 hours in front
of a computer terminal? Also, I think we should consider what
becomes of the children of these mothers sent to work in the
hi-tech sweat shops? Have we forgotten the importance of the
influence of a mother at home? What comparison can you make
between the lives of children dumped in a day care center and
children who come home to a warm, loving home? Which of these
children do you feel are more likely to continue along the
"right derech?"
Yours sincerely,
A Jewish Mother
Ramat Beit Shemesh
The Editor Replies:
The Jewish Mother is certainly raising valid points that
cannot be dismissed. However, as we noted, the project is
being done in coordination with leading educational figures
in Bnei Brak. At press time we did not have authorization to
identify them, but in our opinion they are reliable, and we
assume that when the project is operative this vital
information will be publicized.
We would assume that these educational authorities will
ensure that women have flexible hours and probably an option
for fewer hours. The writer and our readers should also
remember that not all capable women have small children and
generally the need for money is greater when the children get
older.
Finally, it is important to realize that life is complex
and there is no one right way and there are even many
praiseworthy ways. It is important to provide opportunities
for those who want to avail themselves, with the appropriate
guidance and consultation. Not everyone should or can choose
the ultimate approach.
