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Home and Family
Of Houses and Treasure Boxes
by Shira Shatzberg

The following was submitted by a 13-year-old girl. Perceptive, sensitive, mature, her message strikes a chord in any heart.

Just a few short years ago, my family moved to Israel from the USA.

Being that all of us kids knew quite a bit of Hebrew, the move was not a disaster, but rather, Boruch Hashem, quite the opposite. Even so, I must admit that there were some things that we just had to get used to, such as going from a big house to a comparatively small apartment, which happens to be something that I'm still not too happy about, but never mind that now.

Anyways, for the past three years, we hadn't sold our old house. Now, recently, my parents decided that the time had come. Secretly, I feel that I don't want them to sell it, even though I know that for the next million years we will not go back to live there, anyway. If you believe that my reason is because I plan to live in it in a million and one years, then you should know that I'm not the type of kid who plans things that long in advance.

If so, you might ask, what do I really care about that house being sold? I mean, after all, everyone knows that a house is only a structure of bricks, wood or some other building material, while the home is the place where you feel loved and welcome no matter what. It is the place that has an atmosphere of warmth, where you spend your time and experience a lot of what really matters.

Well, after trying to figure out an answer to that very question, I think I've come to a conclusion.

I think that a house is like a treasure box. I mean, the house stood there and watched all that went on in it, all that was quietly deposited in it. It's a treasure box that only I can open. I can walk into that house and remember all that happened in every little corner; and these memories are all- and-only mine. The house keeps all my secrets, that if I were to tell you, would no longer be secrets. That old treasure box remembers things that are important to me and to nobody else. I want to be sure that I can always go back and open up my private treasure box and remember...

But things don't always work exactly the way people want them to. Time does its job and makes changes. Our job is to accept them and make the best of them. In this case, I suppose that although I have no choice but to give up my old treasure box, I have a new treasure box that must yet be filled.

It may be a smaller treasure box, but who says it isn't more valuable? As a matter of fact, I'm sure it is. And I think I'll start filling it as soon as possible...

 

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