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"And Its Memory Shall Be for You a Revival of the Soul" — This is the Month of Elul
A talk in the home of HaRav Chaim Walkin

by B. Re'eim

Part II

"In the days gone by which I knew, every person would be seized with dread at the sound of the holy cry of `Elul!' This fear bore fruit by intensifying a person's service to Hashem, each one according to his level . . . In these days of awe, we must prepare ourselves for the upcoming judgment of Rosh Hashonoh, by establishing a study schedule in works conducive to G-d-fear," writes Maran HaGaon R' Yisroel Salanter ztvk'l in his letter. We wanted to know if, in these contemporary years, one still experiences that `dread' which R' Yisroel mentioned. What is the impact of the study in sifrei yereim throughout the year, and especially, during the days of rachamim and selichos? Does the school of the Mussar of Kelm, Slobodka, Telz and other yeshivos still exist?

In order to ascertain this, we initiated a meeting for a Torah-Mussar discussion with the mashgiach of Yeshivas Ateres Yisroel, HaRav Chaim Walkin. This is a record of that discussion, approved by the Mashgiach, that first appeared in the in Musaf Shabbos Kodesh, and were translated for the English-reading public.

In the first part, HaRav Walkin recalled how his mother had said that in Radin even the fish trembled in Elul, and he explained in the name of HaRav Mordechai Mann zt"l that the idea was that the idea of Elul pervaded the people's consciousness so deeply that even when they looked at the fish they thought of Elul. He also explained the exhortations of the halochoh seforim to take upon oneself extra chumros that one does not do the entire year not as a desire to "fool Hashem," as it were, but as a push to put us at the better end of our natural range of behavior. He also said, in the name of the Alter of Kelm ztvk'l, that Mussar is the search for truth in the very depths of one's heart. Also, that Mussar is the "sword" that defines the limits of what we must do.

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I am accustomed to saying and remembering the words in Mesillas Yeshorim (perek III) which presents a parable of a maze of tall shrubbery planted in a garden for amusement's sake. Its paths are convoluted and seem to be all alike, but only one leads to the inner chamber which is the goal. They are there to fool a person. But once he has reached the center, he can look back, or look from above, and see which paths were true and which were deceptive. And he can guide those who are floundering around and tell them: `This is the path you must follow.'

Ostensibly, it appears that the lesson does not quite follow from the example. In the garden maze, the one in the center can offer very explicit directions to those wandering about. Those who are in control of their evil inclination also know the exact way to follow. The explanation can be found in the words of the Gra in Mishlei on the verse, "One who walks in his uprightness fears Hashem" (14:2).

Uprightness is a relative thing. Something that appears to be straight to one, is not necessarily so to another. Every person must know that he has obligations, that he has his own trials and tests, his own yetzer hora, and he must plan his tactics accordingly.

When a person studies Mussar and makes his personal accounting, he is able to discern precisely which path to pursue, no less than in the garden maze.

This is the definition of Mussar, as we said in the beginning: to discover the truth of one's essence which is buried in the depths of one's heart, and then to face it frontally.

Q. Mussar, itself, also had different schools of thought. The Mussar of Kelm is certainly not the same as that of Novardok and so on.

Each yeshiva most certainly forged its own unique line and direction. But this is Mussar, be it in Mir, Telz, Slobodka or Novardok. The main goal is to extract the best in a person, to speak to him in the context of his environment. The direction and guidance provided in yeshivos was to have a person reach his ultimate perfection.

Today, too, we see differing approaches in the study of Mussar, but the end purpose is surely common — to attain shleimus.

Q. Still, we do not see the same Mussar avodoh that existed in Kelm or Slobodka. Would this not also be applicable to our own generation?

In his final years, Maran R' Eliyohu Dessler liked to discuss the story told in the gemora of Choni Hame'agel who slept for seventy years. When he subsequently came to the beis medrash, he was told that Choni died and his grandson was now in his place. When Choni saw that his opinion was not being honored, he asked that he be removed from the world.

R' Dessler asked: What did Choni actually want? Honor? Public opinion? The answer is that each generation has its own measure of Divine revelation. "Generation by generation shall praise Your works." The trials that existed fifty years ago are not our tests of today, so that Choni really belonged in the world of the previous generations. His avodoh was outmoded, archaic. This is why he felt he had to depart from the world.

I heard from the gabbai of the previous Admor of Ger ztvk'l that before the war, he possessed manuscripts of chiddushei Torah which he buried in Ger before fleeing to Eretz Yisroel. He later sent several delegations to unearth them, but they could not find anything. Resigned to the fact that they could not be retrieved, he said, "Apparently, the words of Torah which I said then were directed only for that generation. And just as that generation went up in fire, so must those Torah messages be relegated to the fire of oblivion."

Prophecy that related to future generations was recorded, but each generation has its own arousal. In Novardok, under the threat of the Bolsheviks, one needed staunch mesirus nefesh of fearlessness and determination. Their school of Mussar was, therefore, one of forging boldly against the stream. Similarly, the Mussar of every generation is directed towards the specific needs of that particular generation.

If this is true, you will undoubtedly ask: What is the particular avodoh in Mussar of our generation?

Our generation is blessed with a plethora of talented minds, holy writings and gifted writers producing Torah works be'iyun and in bekiyus. Our task is to absorb and integrate all of this Torah so that the interior be no less than the exterior.

The relationship between man and fellow man should be pure and not superficial; the rich exterior should be matched by a rich interior. All the values of sanctity and modesty should be core values. We must strengthen our relationships, empathize with our fellow man in his joys, accord him the honor due him, but from a genuine vantage point, not just as words mouthed for appearance' sake.

Similarly, a ben Torah who assumes any public office should do so with full integrity; his Mussar toil should be to, "Know today and to direct to your heart . . . " that whatever he does be from the inner core of truth in his being.

Q. Is there any specific way to arouse avreichim and bnei Torah to study Mussar?

It appears to me that in the same manner that we succeeded in popularizing the approach of study characteristic of Maran HaRav Chaim of Brisk ztvk'l, with the sweetness of lomdus, in similar manner did Hashem enrich the world with the figure of R' Yisroel Salanter, his followers, and the followers of those followers, to show us how Mussar revives the soul and that it is a gateway to entering avodas Hashem, as a new way of approaching the teachings of Chazal.

To this must be added the words of R' Daniel Mowshovitz ztvk'l, Hy'd of Kelm, of whom Maran R' Elchonon Wasserman ztvk'l, Hy'd said that a third of the world exists in his merit. He expounded on the verse, "And your life will be suspended before you . . . " which, the gemora in Menochos 150b explains, refers to one who keeps grain from one year to the next. "And you shall fear night and day" — refers to one who stashes away grain from one week to the next. "You shall not believe in your life" — refers to one who relies on a baker [and has nothing in storage].

But do we not similarly fit this definition of having our lives "suspended before us"? Is, then, any person who goes to the grocery in the morning to buy bread considered to be living in fear and indecision?

Maran R' Chaim Shmulevitz explained that a person can be given something that is considered a blessing, whereas another person, who lacks faith, transforms this very blessing, this very Gan Eden, into a Gehennom on earth. He lives in proximity to the [benevolent] King, and still feels that his life is suspended in uncertainty and insecurity.

R' Doniel of Kelm explained that each person has his own spiritual range, with its upper and its lower limit. Chazal in Erchin 16b illustrated this, saying that suffering can even begin with a person's reaching into his pocket for three coins and coming up with only two.

One who believes in the holiness of Chazal and has in his possession grain to last a full year, enters the category of one whose life is suspended before his eyes. If, G-d forbid, he is sentenced to the [above] punishment of the Tochochoh, he discharges it by having to go to the grocer to buy bread, for this is also included in "and you shall not have any security in your life" even without suffering a fatal disease.

A person who is permeated with faith in the sayings of Chazal will not open a store of the same type as his neighbor's in close proximity, for he will bear in mind what they expounded on the verse, "And he did not defile his neighbor's wife — that he did not seek to compete with his neighbor's profession." He will refrain from that kind of business competition.

Similarly, if he is about to become angry, he will immediately remind himself of the teaching of Chazal, "Whoever is angry — is likened to one who practices idolatry." He will conjure before his mind's eye entering a pagan temple and bowing down to its deity. With this so vividly before him, he will surely not succumb to anger!

This is the purpose of the study of Mussar: to take the holy teachings of Chazal and imbue them with life. This way, one's entire life is transformed into pure spirituality. The study of Mussar will connect him to Torah and sanctity.

Let us study what Maran the Mashgiach of Ponovezh, R' Yechezkel Levenstein ztvk'l, wrote in a letter to a great person: "I wish to send you something in return for your gift, an aid which I have found to save my soul through the mercy of Hashem. Here, then, is my good advice and resolution: Know that precisely through the study of Mussar, one can fulfill the entire Torah, step by step" (Igros Ohr Yechezkel, Letter 120).

When a person studies Mussar every day as he should, he becomes aroused. This is all the more so in the month of Elul, when Hashem extends an open hand to us, presenting a spirit of holiness and purity. This is the labor of Elul: self-introspection, reckoning and calibrating one's deeds through intensive, serious thought.

The more one takes advantage of this opportunity, the greater is his Heavenly assistance to gain a kesivoh vachasimoh tovoh, to be inscribed in the books of the ultimate righteous.


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