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Telolei Oros: Parents and Children, Day and Night — A Selection of Thoughts for the Seder Table

Each Son Has Potential

In the Torah, the questions and answers of the four sons do not appear in the same order as they do in the Haggodoh. In response to the question of the rosho (Shemos 12:26), the posuk gives an answer that is suited to the chochom. The she'eino yodei'a lish'ol receives the answer that is given in the Haggodoh to the rosho, (Shemos 13:8), while the question of the chochom, (Devorim 6:20) gets an answer that is suited for the tam.

The following is a possible explanation. The mitzvoh of recounting the story of yetzias Mitzrayim has to take a different form for each of the four types of sons, in response to the way each of them phrases his question. However, the Torah doesn't present the responses according to the questions, because even if a child is endowed with the gifts necessary to become a chochom, it is not certain that he will follow this path all his life. He must battle his yetzer hora and who can guarantee that he will be victorious?

And on the other hand, though a child may be born with tendencies that can lead him to become a rosho R'l, one must never give up hope. He is still obligated to serve Hashem and if he merits it, he can yet become a tam or even a chochom.

According to this, we understand the relevance of the phrase that precedes the discussion of the Four Sons in the Haggodoh" "Blessed is [He] who gave Torah to His people Yisroel. The Torah speaks about four sons . . . " The Torah does not only address itself to the wise son but to the wicked son as well. A person can be born with a difficult, perverse nature, which in a gentile environment or in the natural course of life, would lead him to no good and offer no possibility of changing for the better. We however, bless Hashem "who gave us the Torah," through which a person can refine and elevate his nature and rectify his character faults, to the point where it is within everybody's power to become as righteous as Moshe Rabbenu, as the Rambam writes (Hilchos Teshuvoh 5:2).

This is therefore the right place to offer thanks for our receiving the Torah, wherein everybody can find the remedy to rectify his shortcomings.

(Tziyunei Derech)

Starting with Shame and Ending with Worthiness

[It seems hard to understand the opinion that the "shame" referred to is the Egyptian slavery, which we mention in avodim hoyinu.] What shame is there in having servitude forced upon us? The explanation could be, however, that a person who believes in Hashem and His direct Providence will not attribute any misfortune or suffering that befalls him to a human or worldly cause. He knows that Hashem yisborach "spoke and it came about" (Tehillim 33:9). He knows that whoever is immediately responsible for his suffering is no more than a stick being wielded by the real Deliverer of the blows. It has no independent power to do harm; all of its strength comes from the one holding it.

Even if such a person is forced to be a servant, he will not regard the one who controls him as a master and will thus never lose his inner freedom. In his soul, he never becomes a slave because he recognizes that "this came from Hashem" (Tehillim 118:23). He regards his situation as something temporary, whose purpose is to refine him and atone for his sins.

This was not the case with Klal Yisroel in Egypt. Their faith in Hashem and His direct Providence was deficient. They thus lost their sense of inner freedom, because they viewed themselves as servants of Pharaoh: "We were servants to Pharaoh in Egypt . . . " [This then, is the shame, for] there is no greater disgrace than there being a flaw in the core of one's faith.

(HaRav Yosef Nechemia Kornitzer Zt'l of Cracow)

Servants to Pharaoh

When Hakodosh Boruch Hu instructed Moshe to go to Pharaoh, He told him to say, "So says Hashem, `My firstborn son Yisroel,' " (Shemos 4:22). Why is this particular term used here when Moshe approached Pharaoh for the first time?

The author of She'eris Yaakov explains that Pharaoh thought that bnei Yisroel were [only] servants of Hashem and that he was therefore justified in enslaving them, since Hashem was displeased with them (as we find in the parable which the wicked Turnusrufus put to Rabbi Akiva). However, the posuk (Devorim 14:1) tells bnei Yisroel that, "You are sons to Hashem . . . " on which Chazal comment (Kiddushin 36), "When you behave in the manner of sons, you are called "sons" (as Rabbi Akiva in fact replied). The suffering which Pharaoh inflicted upon bnei Yisroel was therefore unjustified and he and his people deserved to be punished for it.

There is a well known question that is posed by the early commentators: How could Hakodosh Boruch Hu, who is referred to as a Cohen, enter the land of Egypt which was full of idols and impurity? Even a Cohen though, is allowed to become impure for his son — and we are called Hashem's sons.

This is what we mean when we say, "We were slaves to Pharaoh in Egypt." In Pharaoh's eyes, we were slaves and he felt that this gave him license to enslave us. Hakodosh Boruch Hu's coming Himself and taking us out however, showed us that we are in fact His "sons."

"Yisroel are cherished, for they are called Hashem's sons", (Ovos 3:14).

(HaRav Chaim Falagi)

And It Was Halfway Through the Night

The holy Zohar tells us that halfway through the night that Klal Yisroel left Egypt, it became light as day. Tosafos (Brochos 9, beginning Rabbi Elozor), raises a difficulty in the opinion of Rabbi Elozor ben Azarya (who holds that the Torah only allows the korbon Pesach to be eaten during the first half of the night), from the posuk (Shemos 12:10) which commands us not to leave over any of the korbon "until morning." This implies that the korbon may be eaten until then. According to the Zohar the problem disappears, because this command was addressed to the Jews who were about to leave Egypt and on that night, it actually became light at midnight.

This also explains why Moshe Rabbenu told Pharaoh that the plague would take place at "around midnight" (kachatzos) and not "at midnight" (bachatzos) — because that night, there was no midnight. That night ended at the time that was midnight every other night. Thus, it was accurate to say that the plague would take place at an hour that was "like midnight" (kachatzos) of every other night.

The Zohar can also be used to explain a puzzling Mechilta which, on the posuk (Shemos 12:34), "mish'arosom — their kneading troughs — tied up in their clothes," comments that, "some say [that the word comes from the root she'eir, remnant, and refers to] the remains of the [korbon] Pesach, as it says, `And do not leave any over until morning.' "

This opinion is extremely hard to understand. Having specifically been commanded not to leave over any of the korbon, how did the people have leftovers?

The people however, thought that even though it had already grown light, since the usual time for daybreak had not yet arrived they were allowed to leave some of the korbon to be consumed until the normal hour of daybreak.

(Rav Yehoshua of Kutno zt'l)

Like Another Midnight

When Avrohom Ovinu and his companions gave chase to the four kings, the posuk (Bereishis 14:15) tells us that, "the night was divided for them." Chazal tell us that that night was Pesach night. Besides the extraordinary victory, with one man and the members of his household defeating four powerful kings the news of which spread to all the nations, Chazal tell us that with the demise of the four kings, their idolatrous faiths also lapsed into oblivion.

This was what Moshe Rabbenu meant when he told Pharaoh, "So says Hashem, `Like midnight . . . ' " `Like that well-known midnight, when Avrohom was saved and was victorious, so is this one going to be.'

(Or HaChaim)

A Rapid Change

The process of leaving Egypt — both the exodus from the land's spiritual impurity and the actual departure from the country — was wholly and entirely miraculous. The sharp swing from being at the forty-ninth level of impurity, rising to the heights of witnessing Hashem's revelation whereby, "a maidservant at the sea saw more than [the novi] Yechezkel ben Buzi [in his view of the Merkovoh]" was opposed to the natural laws that usually operate in creation.

When a person makes his way in darkness and is suddenly brightly illuminated, it can damage his eyes. In His kindness, Hashem therefore arranged that the light of day would increase gradually, as the posuk (Mishlei 4:18) says, "growing [gradually] lighter until midday." It is certainly the same in the spiritual realm and in the human soul. [True change only comes gradually.]

Here though [in an instant], we were brought "from darkness to light" — from the deepest darkness into a very powerful light.

(HaRav Sho'ul Broch of Keschau)

On That Day

Why does the posuk (Shemos 13:8) specifically mention that the time for fulfilling the mitzvoh of "Vehigadeto levincho, and you shall tell your son," is bayom hahu, "on that day" i.e. the anniversary of yetzias Mitzrayim? Chazal deduce from the very next words, "ba'avur zeh, because of this," that the recounting of yetzias Mitzrayim should take place only "while matzoh and morror are set down in front of you," apparently rendering bayom hahu superfluous.

With the sweet mode of expression of the righteous, the posuk is telling us that this night is called day, not night. This is the meaning of the posuk, "And night shall be bright like day" (Tehillim 139:12). The Torah is not concerned with us making the mistake of thinking that the time for the mitzvoh is during the actual day, because of the continuation, "baavur zeh . . . when matzoh and morror are set down in front of you."

Perhaps the fact that the words bayom hahu directly follow vehigadeto levincho, teaches us that this miracle too, should be included in the mitzvoh of Haggodoh.

(Or HaChaim)

And You Shall Tell Your Son

In the sefer, Minhagei HaChasam Sofer we find that on the seder night, "He only spoke at length to the young boys and girls. He translated every word in the Haggodoh for them and explained the topic's [simple] meaning without discoursing at length at all."

A Wondrous Allusion

After the Torah commands us "Vehigadeto, and you shall tell," why add the word "leimor, saying?"

We might have thought that the mitzvoh only applies to someone who has a son, but that someone who does not have a child is exempt. The Torah therefore adds leimor, to indicate that everybody must engage in this telling, even a person who is on his own.

Since everyone is obligated to fulfill the mitzvoh whatever their circumstances, why specify "to your son"? The words vehigadeto levincho could be an allusion, telling us that if a person engages in recounting the Haggodoh that the Torah commands, Hashem will merit him with a son to whom he will tell it [i.e. if vehigadeto, then levincho].

(Or HaChaim)

Become Holy and Cleanse Yourself

Many of the earlier authorities explain the mnemonic for the order of the seder, Kadeish uRechatz . . ., as an allusion to the individual's path in serving Hashem.

In this context, the Noda Biyehudoh points out that the first stage on the list, Kadeish, implies sanctifying oneself — kedushoh being defined as separating oneself even from what is permitted, as a means of heightening one's holiness (see the comments of the Ramban on the words "kedoshim tiheyu" [Vayikra 19:2] ).

Why then, does Kadeish come before uRechatz, which implies an apparently more fundamental need to cleanse oneself from one's sins? The correct order would be first to distance oneself from doing anything that halochoh forbids and only then to work on increasing one's kedushoh by separating oneself from what is permitted.

Chazal tell us however, that when a person sins and then repeats the sin a second time, he starts to view the deed as one that is permitted (Kiddushin 20). This happens because the material influence of his yetzer hora prevails over the spiritual influence of his mind. When a person feels a pure inspiration to repent from his bad ways and return to Hashem, this is akin to a voluntary act of special piety, since through repeated sinning he has come to view his conduct as permissible. In his eyes, he is separating himself from what is allowed.

Once his heart begins to open and he breaks with his evil ways, the influence of his mind upon him becomes stronger and his eyes once again become opened to the true wretchedness of his state, mired and soiled in the filth of sin. Only then can he be told "uRechatz, truly cleanse yourself."

(Chiddushei HaTzlach)

The Kingdom Is Yours, Hashem!

An Explanation of the Refrain: Lecho uLecho

The three pairs of double expressions — Lecho uLecho, Lecho ki Lecho, Lecho af Lecho — need to be understood. The posuk (Tehillim 115:16) says, "The heavens are the heavens for Hashem, while He has given the earth to people." This means that while Hashem possesses limitless spiritual worlds which are His alone, the earth is still "entirely filled with His glory." However Hashem has given the world to people as well. Thus, the earth belongs both to Hashem and to His creatures.

The refrain of this song can therefore be explained as follows:

Lecho uLecho, Yours and Yours — there are two things that are Yours Hashem, and they differ in their nature;

Lecho ki Lecho, Yours and only Yours — the upper worlds, which are for Hashem alone;

Lecho af Lecho, Yours and even Yours — this world, which is both for Hashem and for His creations. In His kindness and goodness, Hashem contained the revelation of His glory in this world, so that the lower, physical beings would also be able to exist. Yet even so, there is no division, no true diminishing of His glory, for there are two sides of looking at things, from our viewpoint and from His yisborach, (as the Nefesh HaChaim writes in 5:3), and the truth is that still, "The world is entirely filled with His glory."

Lecho Hashem Hamamelochoh! The kingdom, Hashem, is Yours!

This idea is alluded to by mentioning the first six times that the word lecho is mentioned, corresponding to the six directions in the physical world, while the seventh — lecho Hashem hamamelochoh — alludes to the seventh, spiritual dimension, which upholds and sustains all existence.

(HaRav Isaac Chover zt'l, in the name of his father, HaRav Yaakov Chover zt'l)


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