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IN-DEPTH FEATURES
"More than you are helping the patients — you are
helping their families"
He was, apparently, a pioneer. Boston was one of the most
significant and foremost medical centers in the world to
which, in fact, many patients from Israel were flown for
complex treatment. It was an alien, foreign city. But it had
a house whose doors were wide open, like its heart. "Beis
Pinchos" it was called. The Bostoner Rebbe, HaRav Levi
Yitzchok Horowitz, was the overseer, the commander-in-chief
of an empire of medicine and chessed. Maran the Chazon
Ish was the first who referred a patient to him.
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Several years ago, someone required medical treatment in
Boston. When he had completed it satisfactorily and was
healed, his family came to express their thanks to the hostel
which extends such generous hospitality to the families of
patients being treated in the Boston Medical Center.
At that time, huge demonstrations were being help to protest
the desecration of Shabbos in Jerusalem along the Bar Ilan
thoroughfare. It was most surprising to hear the patient's
wife, a secular Jewess, declare, "Having been in Boston and
seen what goes on there [in the chareidi community], my
husband will never again harm a Shabbos demonstrator."
His family had found accommodations in Beis Pinchos and
experienced chessed in action. "After such exposure,
he will never be capable of touching someone who honors the
Shabbos."
The name Boston, thank G-d, does not say much to most of us.
But to people in medical circles, it means a lot. People who
have had to undergo surgery in the famous Boston medical
centers know the address: Beis Pinchos. Over five decades,
many thousands of people have enjoyed the hospitality of this
amazing house of chessed, of this empire of good
deeds, under the active direction of HaRav Levi Yitzchok, the
Bostoner Rebbe.
We asked for an interview within the precinct of this famous
house in order to hear and see what goes on there steadily.
The Admor was kind enough to concede to the request of
Yated's Musaf Shabbos Kodesh [translated for the
English Yated] and set aside his precious time to tell
the readers about his life's project. The warmth and
cordiality that permeated the room which we occupied added to
our understanding of what was being accomplished in greater
Boston. We listened, we were impressed, we recorded our
impressions.
When did this chessed activity in Boston begin?
The first one to send us a patient was Maran the Chazon Ish
ztvk'l. His referral was a Jew from Haifa by the name
of Avigdor Bernstein z'l who needed to undergo heart
surgery. This type of surgery, in those years, was not
available in Eretz Yisroel, and was even very limited
in scope in the rest of the world. The Boston Medical Center
boasted a top cardiac surgeon — although I hadn't heard
of him, which was not surprising, since over fifty years ago
I had no connection to the world of medicine besides helping
out individuals.
When R' Avigdor Bernstein came to me, I went with him to meet
the doctor. I told the latter about the patient's condition
and he concurred that according to the diagnosis, the patient
would have to undergo heart surgery. R' Avigdor was very
fearful since this was a pioneer field in surgery and he was
one of the very first ones to agree to undergo open heart
surgery. He also needed a go-between to communicate with the
doctor, as well as kosher food. I made every effort to see
that he was at ease and not frightened, and he truly needed
every bit of encouragement and support which I provided in
order to be fit for this risky procedure.
The surgeon scheduled the operation for the seventh of Av. R'
Avigdor was apprehensive about this unpropitious date. How
could an operation in the Nine Days be successful? I told him
that the halochoh tells us not to go to court during
this period with a gentile. "But you are going to court with
Hashem," I said.
In any case, I spoke with the gentile doctor and asked if he
could possibly postpone the surgery. He said that he had
nothing against it but that the pressure for the operating
theater was so great that it would be impossible. "I
understand your reservations, but I believe that G-d will be
with the patient on Monday, the same as on Thursday."
"If G-d is with you, I am serene," I said.
It was an amazing thing, but on the night preceding the
surgery, we were unable to make any contact with Eretz
Yisroel. They did not know any details about the
operation or about my negotiations; all they knew was that it
had been scheduled for Monday. And then, suddenly, we
received a telegram from the Chazon Ish saying, "May the
operation be successful."
That was the first patient with whom the Rebbe became
involved. Afterwards, there were thousands more who enjoyed
his generous hospitality.
How does an Admor who leads a chassidic community, come to
be involved in medicine?
The Rebbe smiles warmly. "A specialist once asked me that
very question: How does a chassidic rabbi, who is concerned
with matters of the soul and spirit, come to the subject of
medicine? I replied that when we pray for a sick man, we ask
for `Healing of the spirit and healing of the body.' A sound
soul must repose in a sound body and actually, it is one
entity."
Today it is very common that when a person requires medical
attention, he consults with a rabbinical authority; he seeks
daas Torah regarding the treatment he requires and the
doctor who should administer it. But decades ago, this was
unheard of. If one had an audience with a rebbe or a rabbi,
it was concerning spiritual matters.
But a spiritual leader is also there to give advice on day-to-
day matters. And this is exactly what has evolved; people
come and tell him everything and if the Rebbe feels that
someone needs medical attention, he advises him to whom to
go. The Rebbe hears the doctor's opinion and then may seek
the services of a specialist in the field and tell him to
which hospital to go for his specific problem. In this
manner, a Rebbe acquires expertise and experience in medical
matters.
The diagnosis is one step, followed when necessary by
surgery. When patients reach Boston or Houston, they need
accommodations for the family member who accompanies the sick
person. And this is no simple matter. Some medical centers
are in cities that have no Jews at all . . .
Do the non-Jewish doctors cooperate?
We have connections with the biggest doctors, Jewish and non-
Jewish. It is not easy to make contact with the big doctors;
the lines are very long. But whenever a doctor hears that the
Bostoner Rebbe is calling, he immediately makes room on his
waiting list for the patient in question. The door is almost
instantly opened with a call from the Rebbe.
Sometimes there are differences of opinion between doctors.
We must tell the patient whom to choose and help him make
important decisions. It is no simple matter but over the many
years, we have accumulated a great deal of experience.
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The Rebbe goes from one subject to another and now tells
about the Beis Pinchos hostel:
When a family comes to us, they have a choice of seven
luxurious apartments at their disposal. Each includes
everything one needs. We see to it that at least during the
time that the family member is not by the bedside of the
patient, that he will be able to relax and not have to worry
about technical matters — or to worry unnecessarily for
any reason, for that matter. They have enough dealing with
the patient and all that involves.
I would like to tell about the time I visited the Steipler
Rov ztvk'l. He used to send many patients to Boston.
When I introduced myself, he immediately knew who I was and
said, "You should know that more than you are doing for the
patient, you are doing for his family!"
At first, I didn't grasp what he meant. Wasn't the family
accompanying the patient for his sake, not theirs? I asked
him to explain and he said with brilliant insight, "What you
are accomplishing for the patient is indefinite. Hopefully,
be'ezras Hashem, he will be healed and cured. But who
knows? Regarding what you are doing for the family, no matter
what the outcome — that is a definite, concrete act of
chessed!"
Were there other Gedolim who sent patients to you?
Certainly! But not only did they send patients, sometimes
they even had to come themselves for treatment. HaRav Schneur
Kotler zt'l was by us. Even his father, Maran HaRav
Aharon Kotler ztvk'l was treated by a physician sent
to him from Boston. HaRav Moshe Feinstein and HaRav Yaakov
Kamenetsky ztvk'l were here, as was the Klausenberger
Rebbe and many, many more, including gedolim of this
generation.
I recall a major conference of the top specialists that took
place in Miami Beach. HaRav Yaakov Kamenetsky addressed them
and quoted the gemora in Megilloh: "Why was the
blessing of refo'einu established as the eighth one in
Shemoneh Esrei? Because circumcision takes place on
the eighth day and that is a form of medical procedure. Just
imagine," R' Yaakov said, "that a person stands in prayer in
one corner of the world, and in a distant place there is an
eight-day-old infant who has just been circumcised and who
needs healing. The man must bear this child in mind as he
prays. How important is the role of one who is instrumental
in healing and curing the sick." He gave them something to
ponder upon, to be attuned to the needs of those who need a
refuah!
How, in real terms, did Beis Pinchos become a permanent
fixture, an ongoing hostel accommodating the needs of the
sick?
Theoretically, the relatives of the patient could have gone
to a hotel. Aside from funding, this would have posed many
problems, including kosher food and a shul
conveniently located. Who could provide a solution? The need
itself brought about the establishment of Beis Pinchos where
every Torah-observant Jew would find all of his needs
addressed.
When we provide a private apartment, it is not only the four
walls. It is a certain reality, a setting, a circumstance. It
is a completely different experience than being stationed
anywhere else. A person accompanying a patient cannot have
his mind on this problem all the time. It is vital that he be
among other people and receive encouragement and moral
support from them. This uplifts his spirit and provides him
with a measure of peace-of-mind, which is vital for his
situation. A roof and shelter is not sufficient; he needs
that spiritual sustenance, that empathy.
We generally allow a stay of two weeks to a month but when it
is necessary, we provide more. We have had talmidei
chachomim staying by us for close to two years!
What kind of a feeling does the Rebbe experience when a
family leaves Boston after successful treatment of their
loved one?
There is no greater or deeper sense of satisfaction than
knowing that you have done all you could while they were
under your roof, and that the difficulty with which they came
has been reduced or eliminated.
I must note that whoever stayed in Boston will remember the
experience forever after. People feel at home in Boston.
Chazal urge us to "have the poor become like members of the
family." This means that they must come to feel as if they
were the baalebatim of those homes. And truly, in Beis
Pinchos they feel as heimish as if they were at
home!
How can you keep such a major enterprise going?
It is truly very difficult, but we have even introduced a new
feature in our hospitality. It concerns donors of bone
marrow. They first give a specimen for testing and once these
are found to be good matches, they must be kept in prime
health since if they harbor any bacteria, they cannot donate
the bone marrow.
We have prepared lodgings that are completely sterile. This
involved elaborate and costly preparation but it has been
made possible. Boruch Hashem, we have seen great
Providence in the financial upkeep of our endeavor. To be
sure, when we first began, we never dreamed that the hostel
would reach such proportions, but we have been very fortunate
in maintaining it to date.
Can the Rebbe recall any particularly moving
incident?
I remember the case of an infant who needed open heart
surgery. It was a mere 63 hours after his birth and they
wanted to perform the surgery in the Boston Children's
Hospital, which is the very best in the entire world. One top
surgeon was supposed to do the operation. When I called him,
he was in the middle of a very urgent meeting.
Notwithstanding, his secretary notified him that the Bostoner
Rebbe was on the phone, if he could take the call. And he
did.
I spoke with him and he agreed to operate immediately. This
was a rare situation — operating on an infant right
after birth! It is a very complicated and delicate operation,
and risky as well, requiring great skill and a great measure
of siyata deShmaya. Thank G-d, it was successful! You
cannot imagine to what extent lives can be saved through the
right connections to the right doctors at the right time.
The Rebbe volunteers another story:
Two mothers came with their child for treatment, also for
open heart surgery. The first in line received great
encouragement from the mother whose operation was scheduled
afterwards.
Suddenly I received a call from the hospital. The nurse was
on the line, her voice quavering. One of the children had
died. She added that the mother wanted the child buried in
Eretz Yisroel. We were faced with the twofold task of
comforting the bereaved mother and encouraging the mother
whose child was scheduled to undergo surgery in a few
days.
Then there came a call that the first mother was on her way
to me, to take leave before she returned to Eretz Yisroel.
I was very confused; what could I say to this broken
woman? She had come to Boston with such high hopes that her
young son would be healed and now she had to return home with
his coffin . . . How could I comfort her and relieve her
pain? What could I say to her?
Before I even had time to arrange my thoughts, I was informed
that she was waiting outside the door. She was shown in, but
before I could say anything, she began to speak. "I want to
thank you for all you did for me and for making it possible
for me to bring my child here for heart surgery. We thought
our stay here would end differently but we have,
nevertheless, been fortunate to receive the best care from
the best doctors in the field, thanks to your help and
guidance. We did not merit to have our child cured; this is
what Hashem decreed. But we know that we received the best
treatment possible, in the best hospital and with the best
doctors."
These were her words and I will never forget them. I will
never forget that moment. The trust of a Jewish mother, the
sublimely noble character of a Jewish mother.
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We would have loved to continue this fascinating interview
but the hands of the clock were moving inexorably forward and
would not allow it. The Admor of Boston shlita parted
from us most warmly and cordially. We were reminded of the
gemora in Kesuvos: "Our brethren who do
chessed, sons of gomlei chassodim who carry on
the covenant of Avrohom Ovinu, our brother: May Hashem repay
you in kind."
An empire of chessed for many decades, maintained and
operated on a high standard through extreme modesty and
reticence, with warmth and devotion, by the Admor
shlita and his dedicated family.
How can we bless them? That ultimately, in the area of
accommodating the Jewish sick and their families — they
be put out of business!
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