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TALES OF YESTERYEAR
What a Joyful Wedding!

by Yisca Shimony

The entire Jewish population of Brisk attended the wedding, each family bringing along some special dish to serve. They knew that the father of the bride, who was still known as the gvir, was no longer a wealthy man. He had lost his entire fortune in the big fire. But he showed no sign of sadness at the wedding; he danced with the eminent rabbi, R' Chaim Soloveitchik, and all the townspeople, young and old, joined in the circle of dancers. And in the middle danced the chosson and his father. Somehow, this wedding seemed so much gayer than had been anticipated . . .

The exact same sentiments were felt on the other side, by the women. A heightened sense of joy filled the air. The grandmother voiced everyone's sentiments when she exclaimed, "What a beautiful, joyful wedding! May the couple live long and happily!"

*

The gvir of Brisk sat behind the desk in his store, counting the remaining money. It was a skimpy bundle, after what he had paid out for the new merchandise, but his face was radiant. "I must rush home and tell my wife what a good deal I just transacted. Hopefully, the profits from this will help cover the wedding expenses of our dear daughter and leave plenty over . . . "

He stood up, put on his coat and hat, and was about to close the light when he stopped. He heard strange noises. He listened, but could not put his finger on the source of the sounds. "It is nothing, only the wind," he concluded, locking the door and going out.

The wind shrieked and he lifted his collar to cover his ears. As he turned the corner, a fierce gust of wind blew his hat off. He rushed after it, but had to run faster and faster. When he finally intercepted it, he clutched his hat to his head, shrugged his shoulders and exclaimed, "What a strange wind . . . " He rushed home, still fighting the wind, eager to tell his wife about the good merchandise he had just bought.

He entered his luxurious home and sat down for a cup of tea. "I think that the transaction will double our fortune," he told his wife. "By the time of the wedding, we will be very rich indeed."

"We will need the money," she noted. "The seamstress has just completed the wedding gown."

"Oh, and where is Tochterel?" he asked.

"In her room, making lists for the other things that must still be sewn."

Suddenly, strange screams could be heard. "Fire! Fire!" the young bride-to-be shouted from her room.

Cries of "Fire! Fire!" echoed from all directions. The gvir and his wife rushed to window and saw flames lighting up the street below. "Take the cart and wheel it outside," he called to the frightened maid. Soon the street was filled with similar emergency carts as people fled from their flammable wooden homes with the few precious items they were able to salvage. In these European towns, people always lived in the shadow of such fires which swept through, devastating huge sections at a time before they could be arrested. The wind blew fiercely now, spreading flames and sparks in all directions.

"Run up the hill! Faster!" called the gvir, helping to push the cart.

"Let go of the cart," his wife shouted at him above the noise of people and flames. "Shall we be burned to death for the sake of a few possessions? Tochterel, come faster. Let's run up the hill, where it's safe, now. The wind is blowing in the opposite direction."

They left the cart behind and rushed up the hill at the edge of town. There, by the blazing light of the huge flames, the people stood, crowded together, watching the houses of Brisk being consumed by the fire.

"Why don't they extinguish the flames?" screamed one woman.

"A little water wouldn't do any good in this case," noted her husband. "What we need now is a miracle!" And there came a miracle. Suddenly, it began to rain. A strong, storming rain poured down from heaven and doused the flames. The wind gradually subsided and when daylight broke, the people could see that all that remained of Brisk was smoldering ashes.

*

The eminent Rabbi of Brisk, R' Chaim Soloveitchik, acted quickly. He gathered the young men of the town and divided them into groups. Some went to nearby towns to collect food and clothing for the destitute people. Others began building makeshift shelters and cabins for the homeless townspeople. The hard work kept everyone busy, but busiest of all was the beloved rabbi, who traveled to solicit funds for reconstruction.

When things had calmed down, the Rov returned from his fundraising trip to see how everyone, including his family, was faring. He went to the beis din and found the dayanim sitting upon a strange case. Two sets of parents were arguing, while a young girl and a young man sat by the side, looking downcast and embarrassed. The kalla was doing her utmost not to cry.

In a flash, the Rov quickly assessed the situation. The father of the bride, having lost all his wealth in the fire, was unable to fulfill his part of the wedding agreement and felt he had to break off the engagement . . .

Before the dayanim could say a word, the Rov exclaimed, "What is going on here? If this is the case, no one in Brisk is going to get married! We are all paupers, now! But that is not going to stop us."

He turned to the young people and declared exuberantly, "Chosson! Kalla! Mazel Tov!" He shook the hands of the two fathers, while the women cried with joy.

*

"What a beautiful wedding!" exclaimed the former gvir.

"What a lovely couple! A match made in Heaven!"

But the music drowned out all the voices and the dancing carried on more energetically than ever . . .

 

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