1. EYE CONTACT -- Remember to look at the face of your
beautiful children both when they speak to you and when you
speak to them!
2. SMILES -- They warm the heart! Practice smiling as much as
you can when you are with your children (or almost anyone
else!).
3. TONE OF VOICE -- Make a conscious effort to soften your
voice and make it sound a little musical and friendly as you
speak.
4. DAYDREAMING -- As you go about your daily routine,
daydream about your children and their good qualities. Later
on, tell them: "Today I was thinking about how you..." and
then describe the admirable quality or deed you thought
of.
5. PRAY -- Our success as parents depends a lot on prayer.
Pray for your own good character and your children's. You
will see results and feel more connected to your goals.
6. SHARE -- If you want your children to share their
thoughts with you, it's a good idea to share your thoughts
with them. Tell them about your day and how you dealt with
its challenges.
7. LAUGH TOGETHER -- Allow yourself to be a little silly and
appreciate your children's sense of humor. Laugh, instead of
cry, over life's little puddles of split milk. Read a funny
poem or story, or make one up together. Healthy laughter (not
sarcastic or denigrating) releases stress and creates a warm
bond between people.
8. HUGS AND KISSES -- These are the best ways to convey love,
and love is what children thrive on. Make sure everyone gets
some every day.
9. CHORES AND ERRANDS -- Doing these is part of life. Doing
them together with someone you love can be very satisfying.
Children gain knowledge, self esteem and precious time with
parents.
10. COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS -- There are rough times as a
family. It's part of family life. Be happy that you are a
parent. Many people would trade with you in a second!
