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Changing Our Filters
by Bayla Gimmel

Modern technology has created dimensions of environmental pollution that our forebears did not know. We have heavy metals in our air and our drinking water, and particles of foreign material all around us.

What do we do to counteract these pollutants? We use filters. We use charcoal to strain our water, various types of mesh to clean our air and cylindrical metal screens to filter out the impurities in our motor oil. People who are foolish enough to smoke use filters on the ends of their cigarettes to remove tar from the smoke. When the filter is full of the foreign matter that we are trapping, we change to a fresh filter.

We live in a world that is polluted by foreign influences that run counter to our Torah values. However, in order to insure our survival, our loving Father gave us a filter to screen out these elements. This wonderful filter is the forty day period between Rosh Chodesh Elul and Yom Kippur. During this time, we add the 27th chapter in Tehillim, in which Dovid Hamelech states his desire: to dwell in the House of Hashem.

Can we even imagine sitting in Hashem's House with all of the ridiculous baggage of the gentile world that we have carried around all year? Of course not. We have to use this time to jettison our personal environmental pollution, to throw it out and leave it far behind us.

At the height of the intifada, an article appeared in a prestigious magazine published in the U.S. for the Torah community. The writer commented that he was attending a dinner when news of a terror attack here in Jerusalem was announced.

He reported that the people at the dinner were initially shocked and saddened, and said a few chapters of Tehillim. However, within a few minutes, they went back to eating what he called their "filet mignon."

The point of the article was that world Jewry had become somewhat insensitive to the horrors that were being perpetrated against their brothers here in Israel. Of course, I was greatly bothered by that sad commentary.

But I was equally disturbed by the name he used to describe the meat that was being served at a banquet being held within the Torah community. Filet mignon is a cut of beef that comes from the hind part of the animal, and because of the difficulty in removing the forbidden part which incorporates the sciatic nerve and its surrounding fats, people who observe kashrus do not eat filet mignon even from a kosher, properly slaughtered animal.

I realize that what they serve at kosher banquets in the States is not actual filet mignon. It is a boneless cut of meat from the front part of the animal. My concern is, why on earth do they use a treife term to describe their roast? Only to be like the goyim!

We pick up a magazine for the Torah world and read an ad for clothes. How are the new garments described? "Latest European styles." Translation: you can dress like the goyim.

Finally, we buy our children music cassette tapes that are supposed to be educational because the lyrics are verses from our holy sources. But, and this is a big `but,' why do they set these very verses to tunes and rhythms derived from the `music' of the slums of America?

We eat like the goyim, dress like them and now we can fill our homes with the sounds of goyish music. And why? because we have allowed non-Torah influences to creep into our lives and distort our vision.

Let's get back to the words of Dovid Hamelech. After he tells us that what he desires is to sit in Hashem's house, he goes on to say that he wants to visit His Sanctuary. Dovid Hamelech is not content to dwell in Hashem's Presence, as lofty a goal as that is. He goes further. He wants to get glimpses, however brief, of the deepest Holiness of Hashem.

Dovid Hamelech's aspirations are truly noble and that is why Chazal instituted that we recite these words during this important time of the year, when we are busy putting our spiritual houses in order. Each of us has to make every effort to counteract our outside influences. We have to realize that we have developed a mindset that runs counter to the verse in Tehillim, and we have to uproot that way of thinking.

Instead of yearning to sit in Hashem's House etc., our generation has over time developed a version that goes more like this: We have a desire; to sit in Hashem's House, and also to visit the `sanctuaries' of the goyim, be they Paris, Rome or Beijing.

There is an old American Jewish joke that goes like this: How do you know you are in a Jewish neighborhood? Answer: When you see a pizza shop and a Chinese restaurant on the same block.

When we take a sip of water and it has a chemical taste, or we turn on the air conditioner and very little air comes out, or we pull into a gas station to check the level of our motor oil and a sticky mess appears on the dipstick, we know it is time to change the filter.

Awareness of the infiltration of all of the gentile influences that I have mentioned, and others that you can easily think of yourselves, should surely be an indication that it is time to use the rest of Elul and the Asseres Yemei Tshuva to pull out our ineffective clogged spiritual filters and replace them with new ones.

We know that we were redeemed from Egypt in the merit of our ancestors' refusal to adopt gentile names, speech and clothing. Yes, I know, we do part of that. We name our children Chanale and Yossi. Great. But we have fallen short in the other departments.

We have role models from just a few decades ago of people whose filters worked particularly well. Rebbetzin Ruchoma Shain wrote about her father, R' Yaakov Yosef Herman zt'l, whose self-imposed filter against twentieth- century America where assimilation was running rampant, was, "What does the Boss want from me?"

When we fill a glass with properly filtered water, we can truly appreciate its sparkling beauty. Just think. By filtering out all of our non-Torah influences, we can daven during the approaching Days of Awe with far greater clarity and look forward to a bright and beautiful new year.

 

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