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PREPARING FOR PURIM
The Chaval-Al-Hazman Cheder

by Mordechai Avshilli

Interviewer: Rabbi Yenerkliger, thank you for agreeing to share your views with our readers.

Rabbi Y.: It is an honor and a pleasure.

I: Your cheder is now in its twelfth year. In a few words, can you explain how it is different from other chadorim?

RY: Our cheder is based on the main pieces of advice which Chazal have scattered all over Shas. We take that advice and unify it into a complete system.

I: Can you give us an example?

RY: Yes. Chazal say that a child should begin to learn to read when he is 5 years old. In other places, Chazal tell us that the letters really have deep kabbalistic meanings. Therefore, when a child first comes to our cheder when he is 3 years old, we first start to teach him Kabbala so that by the time he is 5, he is ready to learn the alef- bais.

I: But I always heard that one may not teach someone Kabbala until he is ready.

RY: Correct. So we teach it to him in Aramaic so that he will not understand it. Don't forget that a 3-year- old child knew Kabbala three and a half years ago, before he was born. Even though he does not understand what he is now being taught, his soul does.

I: At what age do you start teaching mishnayos?

RY: Everyone knows that in order to understand a mishna really well, you must go through the gemora, so we teach gemora before starting to teach mishna.

I: How do you have time to teach such young children all the gemora?

RY: Children waste most of their time playing, anyway, so we have a very full day. We start lessons at 7 o'clock in the morning and learn straight through to 10 o'clock at night.

I: Why don't you start earlier and finish later?

RY: I would like to, but the parents complain that they themselves cannot take the strain of getting up so early and going to sleep so late.

I: It is a very long day. Don't you find the children get tired and fall asleep?

RY: There are many stories of great Sages who kept themselves awake by putting their feet in basins of cold water. So we have installed troughs of refrigerated water by each chair and if a child starts to fall asleep, we put his feet in the water.

I: That is a brilliant idea. What do you do with children who cannot sit still?

RY: We do not relate to all these modern so-called ailments such as ADD and ADHD. If a child can't sit still, we have special pants and chairs covered with Velcro. We dress them in the pants and stick them on the chairs. We also have Velcro on the desks and patches for the arms so that we can stick their arms to their desks.

I: Even with such a long day, how do you manage to teach so much gemora in such a short time?

RY: Well, first we teach them the Acharonim. The Acharonim help us to understand the gemora, so after they have learned the Acharonim, the gemora is easy.

I: Do you ever find that a child does not understand the gemora?

RY: We do not go along with that nonsense. Everyone knows that the human brain is infinitely powerful and if someone really wants to do something, he can do it. We go to the true root of the problem and we make sure that he wants to understand the gemora.

I: How do you do that?

RY: We make him say, "I really want to understand," over and over until he understands it, and we also have the cheder papered with special wallpaper which has "I really want to understand," printed very lightly on it so that the talmidim pick up the message subliminally.

I: When do you teach them chumash?

RY: They will learn chumash when they go to shul and hear the weekly parsha during kriyas haTorah, so we don't bother.

I: I have heard that you have some unusual minhogim.

RY: We do not have any unusual minhogim but we aim for the very highest spiritual level, so we try to fulfill all the chumros possible.

I: Can you please give us an example?

RY: Yes. For tefilla, we have a separate sholiach tzibbur for each of the different nuscho'os so that our students can be yotze all of them.

I: Doesn't that cause prayers to take a very long time?

RY: No. We have them all praying concurrently.

I: I have heard rumors that some of your students have nervous breakdowns. Is that true?

RY: It is true that out of the 20 boys in the top class, 15 suffered nervous breakdowns.

I: Don't you feel that this indicates that there might be something wrong with your system?

RY: The fact that 5 did not, shows that the system itself is Okay.

I: So how do you explain the nervous breakdowns of the 15 children?

RY: I continually warn the parents against feeding their children healthy food. In the cheder we give the children only junk food of the lowest nutritional value. We know that many of our greatest sages suffered greatly from ill health. It is obvious that a healthy body strengthens the yetzer hora and so we must do our maximum to ensure that the student's body is as physically weak as possible. However, some parents undermine our efforts and give their children healthy food, and that is what causes the nervous breakdowns.

I: I had noticed when I came into the cheder that most of the children do look pale and thin and have bent backs with hunched shoulders.

RY: Thank you for your encouraging comments. Some of our great talmidei chachomim were pale and thin and had bent backs, and we are preparing our students for their future, to grow into great Torah scholars.

I: I also noticed that some of the children are so weak that they have to use walking sticks.

RY: I am glad you noticed that. We are quite proud of those children. If you look at old photos and paintings of the great Sages of the past, you see that many of them had to go with canes. That is one of the signs that we really are on the true path.

I: How do you deal with discipline problems?

RY: Basically, we do not have any -- and that is another indicator of the superiority of our system. Chazal state that one may only give corporal punishment with a shoelace, so when we first established the cheder, I ordered special shoelaces from a manufacturer. Look! I still have one in my desk.

I: It is a very unusual shoelace. It must be about one and a half meters long and one centimeter thick and made of very hard cord.

RY: Yes. As I said, I had them especially custom-made by a shoelace manufacturer. However, we do not need to use them. We now find that our students are so physically retarded and emaciated that they do not have the strength to be unruly. This reinforcs our premise that a physically healthy upbringing strengthens the yetzer hora. Occasionally, we do get a child who tries to be naughty and then we reduce his calorie intake until his yetzer hora becomes too weak to cause any trouble.

I: You explained before that the nervous breakdowns of your talmidim comes from the parents feeding them healthy food. However, parents of children from other chadorim do feed their children healthy food, yet they do not have nervous breakdowns. How do you explain that?

RY: This proves that our system is correct, because it develops the yetzer hatov more than others and it is the conflict of the two which leads to the nervous breakdowns.

I: But the other chadorim are only following the way chadorim have been run for hundreds of generations. In Europe, children attended cheder until 12 or 1 o'clock and they spent the afternoons playing. In cheder, they spent most of their time learning to read and then learning chumash. They only started learning gemora when they were 12 -- and then they went through shas. And they did not have nervous breakdowns.

RY: Don't you agree that we need to try and improve? They were happy to have only a few geonim scattered here and there, and many of the rest became simple baalei batim. But we are working to ensure that every child becomes a gaon.

I: But how can they all become geonim if 15 out of 20 get nervous breakdowns?

RY: I told you that the nervous breakdowns are due to the parents feeding their children too well and strengthening their yetzer hora.

I: But Chazal tell us that we have to be healthy and eat well and the Rambam has whole chapters on the topic. Incidentally, he also says that a child should only start cheder when he is 5 or 6 years old and you are starting your program when they are only 3.

RY: Look, a lot has changed since the days of the Rambam and you cannot necessarily take everything at face value.

I: But you yourself are basing your system on quotes from Chazal. How do you decide what to take at face value and what not to take at face value?

RY: My dear young man! You have to understand that I have been in chinuch for many years.

I: But many of the great gedolim in Europe had also been in chinuch for many years and while I appreciate that you are a great talmid chochom, many of them were even greater and they knew all your sources. Still, they did not promote a system like yours.

RY: I do not make a secret of my shitos. The parents who send their children to me have to take the final responsibility for their children's education. I am only their representative.

I: True. I suppose your talmidim come out unusually talented talmidei chachomim.

RY: Most do know a few chapters of mishnayos by heart and they can work their way through an easy page of gemora with the help of a translation.

I: But in Europe, many bochurim that age were already real talmidei chachomim, knowing hundreds of pages of gemora and some were thoroughly versed in all of shas.

RY: You have no idea how terrible is the yeridas hadoros since those days.

I: Rabbi Yenerkliger, thank you for your time and patience.

 

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