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He Did Not Recognize His Brothers

by HaRav Chaim Pass

Three Major Difficulties

The Meshech Chochmoh (on Shemos 13:13, beginning vechol), asks a powerful question. The seforim explain that the sum that has to be paid for pidyon haben -- five shekolim -- is the equivalent of the twenty silver pieces that changed hands when Yosef was sold, there being four selo'im in each shekel. If this money represents the sum which the brothers received for selling Yosef however, why does the child's father, who is a Yisroel, give the money to the Cohen, who is a member of the tribe of Levi? Levi was one of the brothers who conducted the sale and we would expect the money to be handed in the opposite direction in atonement: from a Levi to one of the descendants of Yosef.

We find another seeming contradiction regarding the tribe of Levi in the Chumash itself. In parshas Vayechi (Bereishis 49:5), Yaakov Ovinu says, "Shimon and Levi are brothers; their weapons [with which they murdered the inhabitants of Shechem] were obtained unjustly" [for Eisov, not Yaakov, was told to live by the sword]. Shimon and Levi are apparently equated here. Yaakov's words imply dissatisfaction with both of them in exactly the same degree for having taken action without consulting him. Indeed, he continues by cursing their anger that led them to behave as they did.

In parshas Vezos Habrochoh (Devorim 33: 8-11) however, the tribe of Levi is praised highly by Moshe Rabbeinu. "And to [regarding] Levi he said, `Your urim vetumim [deserve to go] to Your man of piety, whom You tested at Masoh and assessed by Mei Merivoh. He [is the one who] says about his father and mother, "I did not see them," neither did he recognize his brothers, nor did he know his sons, for they guarded Your utterances and preserve Your covenant. They are fit to teach Your law to Yaakov and Your Torah to Yisroel; they shall offer incense before You and burnt offerings on Your altar. Hashem, bless their valor, and desire the deeds of their hands; deal a crushing blow to their enemies and to those who rise against them, so that they do not rise again.' "

Here, sheivet Levi is singled out by Moshe for exceptional praise, as none of the other tribes are. How did their standing among the tribes change so drastically between the blessings of Yaakov and those of Moshe?

Yaakov Ovinu told Yosef (Bereishis 48:22), "And I have given you shechem echod, a portion, more than [that received by] your brothers, which I took from the Emori with my sword and my bow." The simple meaning of this statement seems to be that Yaakov gave Yosef the city of Shechem over and above the portion in Eretz Yisroel that he would receive together with his brothers. Yaakov was able to make the city of Shechem an immediate gift, not merely promise it at a later time when the land would be divided, because the city already belonged to him, since he had won it with his "sword and bow."

There are several major problems with such an explanation however. The Torah tells us explicitly (Bereishis 34:25), that Shimon and Levi armed themselves and entered the city securely, killing every male. They were the ones who conquered Shechem, not Yaakov. Rashi points out that although they were Yaakov's sons, they behaved like strangers and did not even consult him. Later (posuk 30), Yaakov rebukes Shimon and Levi and makes his displeasure at their actions quite clear. Again, before dying he cursed the anger that led them to act in this way. How could he therefore say to Yosef that he himself had taken Shechem by force?

I was also asked the meaning of Rashi's comment, that the word "becharbi, with my sword," means "bechochmosi, with my wisdom." What wisdom was involved in the capture of Shechem? It seems to have been an example of physical prowess.

Brotherhood and Common Purpose

In order to begin answering these questions, we must examine the Torah's lengthy account of the sale of Yosef and the subsequent exchange between Yosef and his brothers, in Egypt. What lesson are we supposed to extract from these parshiyos?

The Torah tells us (Bereishis 42:9-14), that when Yosef's brothers stood before him in Egypt, he accused them of having come to the country with the intention of spying. The brothers denied this, claiming that they had come purely to buy food and they added that they were all sons of the same father. Yosef did not accept this and repeated his charge, to which they replied that they were twelve brothers, sons of one father in Canaan, the youngest of whom had remained with his father and another of whom was missing. To this Yosef said, "It is as I have said. You are spies."

How was the brothers' insistence on their being family supposed to allay Yosef's suspicions of their being spies? Couldn't they have been both spies as well as brothers?

The key to understanding their response is Rashi on posuk 12. Yosef told them, "No, you have come to see the weakness of the land" and Rashi comments, "because you entered through the ten [different] city gates. Why didn't you come in through the same gate?"

There are two different considerations that lead people to band together and follow a single path. They can share a common goal, in which case they are held together by the hope of achieving their ends, or they might be united by genuine brotherhood. Sons of the same father who grew up together, naturally form a single unit. It is natural for them to act together in a coordinated manner, and even to think along the same lines.

As the king's deputy, Yosef bore responsibility for the country's security. His argument was that the ten of them had entered the city each using a different gate -- yet as they now stood before him, their unity and commonalty of purpose were obvious. Therefore it was reasonable to assume that they were spies, who only shared a common goal.

The relevance of the brothers' reply is now clear. They indeed formed a united group but they asserted that this was because they were brothers and were united at their core, not because they had come together to work towards the single end.

The Distinguishing Sign

This helps to explain the next stage in the discussion. Yosef proposed testing the veracity of their story by imprisoning one of them and sending the others to bring the youngest brother whom they claimed was at home. Based on our earlier question, this too seems to make no sense. How would the appearance of another brother prove that they were not spies? Perhaps he too was a spy?

The difference between unity that stems from the pursuit of a common goal and unity that stems from natural bonds can be readily seen when a conflict of interests arises among the members of the group. In the first kind of group, unity, cooperation and shared purpose vanish as soon as there is a conflict of interests. Each member goes his own way.

When unity is based upon brotherhood however, the common bonds become even more apparent when interests differ. The brotherly feeling that has been instilled into the family members stands out even more where interests diverge. In fact, their brotherhood dictates that the level of cooperation between them and their devotion to one another be even greater than usual.

This was the test which Yosef, in his tremendous wisdom, was now proposing. If they were spies, who had only been brought together by their common goal, now that they had been discovered and could no longer continue their mission, in addition to which one of them had been imprisoned, their interests were no longer the same. One would expect each of them to go his own way, even though it would mean leaving one of the group behind in prison.

If they were united by genuine brotherhood though, that would dictate that they return home and bring their younger brother -- for how could they leave one of their brothers in prison? Even their aged father would have to agree to this, for true brotherhood demands that one brother sacrifice himself for another. If they really were brothers, their elderly and wise father would understand that there was no choice but to agree to send the youngest, despite the risk involved.

The pesukim themselves (Bereishis 42:29 and 43:6) seem to bear out this understanding. When they returned home and told their father what had happened to them, he said, "Why have you harmed me by telling the man that you had another brother?"

Yaakov fully grasped the reasoning behind Yosef's demand. True brotherhood would demand that he send Binyomin. It was a reasonable and a fair way of testing the truth of their claim.

The Sublime Levels of Brotherhood

Clearly, the Torah's purpose in telling us all this is to demonstrate the extent of the loyalty which true brotherhood demands, as we see from the brothers' realization (in posuk 42:21), "But we are guilty for [our treatment of] our brother." Yosef's accusation that Binyomin had stolen his goblet was also intended to demonstrate the importance of brotherhood, both to his brothers and to us.

I have heard from my father-in-law (HaRav Meir Tzvi Bergman) on many occasions that Yosef the tzaddik is the paramount example of brotherliness. The posuk (Bereishis 42:8) tells us, "Yosef recognized his brothers but they did not recognize him," on which Rashi comments, "And the medrash aggodoh says, `And Yosef recognized his brothers,' when they were in his power whereas, `They did not recognize him,' to treat him like a brother when he was in their power."

The entire episode shows us how Yosef treated his brothers with mercy and gentleness. Despite the dreadful wrong that they had done to him, he provided for them and their families until the end of his life and he even tried to pacify them and to make them feel easier. This is brotherliness par excellence.

In parshas Vayishlach (34:25), the Torah stresses that Shimon and Levi were moved to do what they did by their brotherly feelings towards Dinoh: "Yaakov's sons, Shimon and Levi, Dinoh's brothers, each took their sword . . . " The same thing is apparent later (posuk 35), in their response to Yaakov Ovinu's rebuke: "Shall they treat our sister like a harlot?" It was brotherliness that had dictated that they do what they did.

In and of itself, such a level of devotion among siblings is a good thing and is evidence of a good upbringing. Like all similar traits, this too stems from the father. The gemora says that brothers inherit from each other by virtue of their sharing the same father and the same is true of all inbred feelings of brotherly affection and dedication. These feelings are learned from the father, whether by his express instruction or from his personal example.

A Father's Wisdom

In parshas VaYeitze (Bereishis 31:46), the Torah tells us, "And Yaakov said to his brothers, `Gather stones.' " Rashi comments, "His brothers: these were his sons, who were [like] brothers [to him], coming to assist him in trouble and war." The special trait which Yaakov instilled into his sons was brotherliness and this inspired Shimon and Levi to save Dinoh from Shechem and Chamor. Yaakov only rebuked them for not having consulted him beforehand, for he felt that such action was inappropriate at that time. However, their undertaking and its success stemmed from their powerful [and positive] brotherly feelings.

It was to this that Yaakov referred when he spoke to Yosef of having taken the city of Shechem "with my sword" -- i.e. wisdom -- "and my bow." His wisdom in raising his children and the example that he set for them led to the positive aspect and to the success of Shimon and Levi's deed. This was the very reason that he gave Shechem -- that had become his as the result of an act of brotherly loyalty -- to Yosef the tzaddik, who excelled in this particular trait which he had taken from his father to a greater extent than any of the other brothers. He was especially deserving of this extra portion, that had come to them in the merit of their brotherhood.

Why does the Torah go to such length to impress the far- reaching consequences of the brotherly relationship upon us? The Rambam (Hilchos Matnos Aniyim 10:2) writes, "All Yisroel and those who accompany them, are like brothers, as it is said (Devorim 14:1), `You are sons to Hashem.' And if one brother does not have mercy on another, who [else] will?"

In these parshiyos, the Torah shows us what brotherhood demands and what the consequences of failing to feel these bonds properly and live up to the relationship are. This is especially true of bnei Torah, who are truly bound together and to whom the posuk, "You are sons to Hashem" certainly refers.

From Fault to Virtue

This lesson goes deeper still. The very same expression is used by the Torah both in censure and in praise of Levi. Earlier, we quoted Rashi on the posuk, "Yosef recognized his brothers and they did not recognize him," who tells us that this refers to the brothers' failure to treat Yosef like a brother when he was in their power. Levi's shortcoming -- he and Shimon were the ones who sold Yosef -- therefore lay in his failure to acknowledge Yosef as his brother.

In Moshe's blessing to Levi in parshas Vezos Habrochoh however, this very same feature is cited as the highest praise: "and he did not recognize his brothers." How can the very same trait, which Levi was once blamed for, now be cited as his crowning glory and the cause of his success?

In parshas Shemos, we find Moshe Rabbeinu arguing with Hashem for seven days, with the purpose of avoiding jealousy on the part of his older brother Aharon. Hashem said to Moshe (Shemos 4:14), " . . . Aharon your brother, the Levi . . . also . . . he will come out towards you and he will see you and rejoice in his heart." This entire episode was an expression of unparalleled brotherliness on the part of these two prominent members of the tribe of Levi. Moshe was prepared to forgo a tremendous opportunity in favor of Aharon because Aharon was his older brother. Aharon, for his part, was forgoing towards Moshe to the extent that Hashem testified, "and he will see you and rejoice in his heart." Unbelievable!

The Torah stresses: "Aharon, your brother, the Levi," in order to tell us that here, Levi's earlier fault was rectified by Aharon. Prior to the sale of Yosef, the Torah tells us, "his brothers were jealous of him" (Bereishis 37:11). This reached the point where they did not recognize him as a brother and were capable of selling him. And now, Moshe Rabbeinu was ready to give up his future and his entire purpose in case it would lead Aharon to envy him. But instead of envying him, Aharon rejoiced for him. Here, their tribe's fault was corrected.

Destructive and Constructive Jealousy

In his commentary on the Aseres Hadibros, Rabbeinu Bechaye writes that every kind of jealousy leads to the world's ruination -- with the exception of jealousy among scholars, of which it says, "Envy among scholars increases wisdom." How can this desirable type of jealousy be discerned from other types? How can we tell when Levi's estrangement from his brothers is due to jealousy or not?

The answer lies in the words, "and he will see you and rejoice in his heart." When joy for a brother's good fortune governs one's feelings, one is in a position to distinguish between that failure to recognize a brother which is a mitzvoh and the sort that is simple cruelty, stemming from the jealousy that ruins the world.

Here, Moshe and Aharon made this degree of brotherliness into one of the characteristics of their tribe, as the posuk tells us, "Aharon your brother, the Levi." As a result, they rose to extremely high levels of genuine zeal on Hashem's behalf and became the closest of all to Hashem's House and to His service.

This ability to make correct evaluations came into play at the time of the eigel hazohov, when Moshe Rabbeinu called, "Whoever is for Hashem, come to me!" Their brotherly awareness and the selflessness that was exemplified by Aharon's joy over his own brother's elevation led them to develop a fine sensitivity of judgement which led them to understand that this was not a time for recognizing brothers. They were thus capable of killing even their own relatives, as the situation demanded.

The Dictates of Mercy

We can use this idea to deepen our understanding of the Rambam, quoted earlier, who brought the posuk, "You are sons to Hashem" as the source for the brotherly relationship that should exist between all Jews. This should lead us to behave mercifully to one another for, as the Rambam says, "if one brother does not have mercy on another, who [else] will?"

This posuk however, appears in parshas Re'ei, directly following the parshiyos of the false novi and the city whose inhabitants were swayed to become idolatrous (ir hanidachas) where the Torah directs us "to destroy the evil from our midst." Moreover, directly following the words, "You are sons to Hashem," comes the command, "Do not cut-up yourselves." Where did the Rambam see any allusion to brotherly mercy here?

The Rambam's understanding must have been the same as that of Rabbeinu Bechaye, who comments (on posuk 13:10), "For you shall surely kill him:" the idea behind this vengeance is mercy, to have pity on those who remain." On posuk 14:1, Rabbeinu Bechaye writes, "This parshoh was placed after [that of] ir hanidachas to teach [us] that it is forbidden to mourn family members who were killed there."

We see here, that there are situations in which mercy dictates taking the path of ignoring brotherhood, as explained above. This is why the Rambam took this as the source for the brotherhood existing between Jews. It is precisely the trait of mercy that decrees when a brother should not be recognized as such.

I heard from someone who is close to HaRav Aharon Leib Steinman, that that gaon praised HaRav Shach zt'l effusively and said that one of the areas in which his greatness was apparent was in his success in overcoming his superlative character traits and launching campaigns when it was a matter of fortifying our faith.

In the light of the above, this would seem to mean that through his selfless and brotherly love, HaRav Shach attained a correct perspective and a genuine understanding of Torah, enabling him to know when it was a time for closeness and when it was correct to distance. The very same trait that directed him to be merciful and recognize his brethren, sometimes told him that one had to declare, "Whoever is for Hashem, come to me!" and not recognize them.

The Torah desires that we reach this level, that is attained by gedolei Yisroel, at which judgment is governed by the selfless brotherly love of "and he will see you and rejoice in his heart." The Torah itself tells us that Moshe Rabbeinu, "attained maturity and he went out to his brothers . . . and he saw an Egyptian man hitting one of his Hebrew brethren" (Shemos 2:11). The beginning of Moshe Rabbeinu's greatness was his acknowledgment of brotherhood and his taking action as a result.

Exemplifying Brotherhood

This is why the Torah commands us to give the five shekolim of pidyon haben -- representing the sum for which Yosef was sold -- to a Cohen, one of Aharon's descendants, in particular. Aharon was the one who rectified Levi's failure to recognize his brother, and transformed it into something desirable which found expression in the actions of the entire tribe during the episode of the eigel.

This explains the sequence of the pesukim in Moshe Rabbeinu's blessing to the tribe of Levi:

"And to [regarding] Levi he said:" this refers to Aharon's virtue, as the commentaries explain. Aharon symbolized the special characteristic of the entire tribe.

" `Your urim vetumim [deserve to go] to Your man of piety'": This special virtue was to wear the urim vetumim, which Chazal tell us he deserved for the joy that he felt in his heart on Moshe's behalf -- with which he corrected the fault at the root of the traits of the tribe of Levi.

" `whom You tested at Masoh and assessed by Mei Merivoh'." After this had been corrected, the leviim withstood every test, until they reached the difficult test of, " `He [is the one who] says about his father and mother, "I did not see them," neither did he recognize his brothers . . . ' "

By withstanding the test of the eigel, they attained the level that would remain theirs forever. They did not recognize their brethren, because they realized that this was the correct and just path to follow. This power and discernment arose from receiving the urim vetumim, which came to them as a consequence of "and he will see you and rejoice in his heart." With this, they were transformed from being the recipients of Yaakov's rebuke into the chosen tribe.


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