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IN-DEPTH FEATURES
A strong tree has healthy roots. So too were the roots of R' Moshe Feinstein, strong
and special from the start. His father, R' Dovid Feinstein, zt"l, was a
grandchild of the Be'er Hagolah and of the brother of the Gra, R' Avrohom. His mother
was Feige Gittel, daughter of the Gaon, R' Yechiel zt"l, rov of Kopolia.
He was born on 7th Adar, 5655 (1895), a date which in his own words gave him the
feeling that he was obligated to follow in the ways of Moshe Rabbeinu in Torah and in
middos.
R' Dovid invested much time, money and effort into the education of his son Moshe,
asking the melamed who usually learned with a group of ten talmidim to
make Moshe's a group of five and he, R' Dovid, would subsidize the rest of the money
from his own pocket. Even before he started to learn in the local cheder, R'
Moshe learned the entire Chumash with his father and by the time he was bar
mitzvah he was fluent in more than two sedorim of Shas.
He joined the yeshiva of R' Isser Zalman Meltzer in Slutzk at the age of twelve,
where he also learned under the tutelage of HaRav Pesach Pruskin, zt"l. When
the latter opened his own yeshiva in Shklov, R' Moshe went with him and recounted
that at the grand opening ceremony of the new yeshiva, R' Isser Zalman himself was
present.
At the age of sixteen, R' Moshe completed Shas and Shulchan Oruch. During
this period he was called to serve in the army. R' Moshe traveled with his father to
the Chofetz Chaim in Homil to request his blessing. "Heaven had originally decreed
that you join the army," said the Chofetz Chaim. "But since you took upon yourself
wholeheartedly the ol Torah, the ol Malchus has been removed from you."
R' Moshe was never conscripted.
In the year 5676 (1916) he was appointed rov in Uzdah in order to avoid army service
and, after two years when the laws were changed he returned to his father in Strobin.
From 5681 (1921) to 5696 (1936) he was rov in Lyuban, after which he decided that
this was not the right place to bring up his children and educate them in the Torah's
ways. He traveled to Riga and there he obtained visas to go to America.
An impressive delegation met R' Moshe as the ship docked at the port at Ellis Island.
He was immediately offered numerous positions as maggid shiur in various
existing yeshivos, but refused all the offers until, in 5697 (1937), he became a
lecturer in Yeshivas Tiferes Yerushalayim, where after a year he became head of the
yeshiva. From this position he disseminated Torah for the rest of his life and his
shiurim are printed in his sefer Dibros Moshe.
Aside from the yeshiva, R' Moshe did not take on any official rabbinical position.
Nevertheless, he became a center point, a point to which people turned from all
directions from all parts of the world to hear the word of Hashem. Thousands of
teshuvos in halochos were issued by him, many of these being printed in
the eight volumes of Igros Moshe. There wasn't one matter in the world of Torah
and halocho that wasn't brought to him for his opinion.
The gedolei haTorah were all in awe of him, as seen in an example: HaRav
Yonoson Shteif of Budapest used to put on his hat out of respect for R' Moshe
whenever he spoke to him on the telephone!
Towards the end of his life, when the doctors wanted to insert a pacemaker in his
heart, R' Moshe only agreed after he had made sure there was no halachic
problem involved, that the insertion does not inflict the type of blemish in his body
that would render him unfit to be a member of Sanhedrin should Moshiach come.
On the night of Taanis Esther, 5746, R' Moshe was niftar. The levaya on
Taanis Esther morning in New York City was like none that New York had never seen;
about one hundred and fifty thousand people accompanied R' Moshe on this step of his
final journey. Even the American flag on the East Side was flown at half-mast as the
non-Jews' sign of mourning that the leader of the Jews had died.
His oron was brought to Eretz Yisroel and on Shushan Purim in Yerushalayim,
hundreds of thousands of Israeli Jews from all walks of life accompanied the
levaya to Har Hamenuchos where he is buried close to the Gaon of Tchebin, the
Belzer Rov, in the portion near his Rebbe, R' Isser Zalman Meltzer, zt"l.
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"R' Moshe." Just that -- without any extra titles or descriptions. So was R' Moshe
known by all Jews: Ashkenazim and Sephardim, Chassidim, and Misnagdim,
Rabbonim, Roshei Yeshivos, and Admorim, Rabbis and laymen; all knew R' Moshe
and all saw in him their rabbi and leader -- whether in a complicated halachic
query such as permitting an agunoh to remarry, or a private instruction for a
yeshiva bochur or an avreich -- to all the address on the East Side was
the place to which to turn.
It is impossible on a single page to describe even a fraction of his greatness in
Torah and halocho. However, we cannot with this dismiss the whole subject. Let
us at least take a glimpse into the sparks of his greatness in middos and try
to emulate his wonderful and refined ways.
The following fact once slipped out when R' Moshe was trying to impress on his family
the right approach to Torah.
As a child of eight he was playing chess with a friend, when he suddenly realized
that he was concentrating deeply, so engrossed in his game that it was no longer a
form of relaxation but an effort. If it requires effort, isn't it better to use these
powers of concentration for Torah learning? From then on, he never played chess
again.
He once added that since he was of short build, he was afraid to play with friends
his age for they were taller and stronger than he was. "I saw this as Hashgocho
protis for due to this, I spent more time delving into Torah."
It is no wonder, therefore, that he had finished Noshim and Nezikim by
the time he was eleven years old.
Once, his uncle HaRav Eliyohu Pruzhiner, zt"l, came to visit their house and
when the eleven year old Moshe entered the room, his uncle arose to his full height,
saying, "For a boy who knows two sedorim, one must stand up."
His father, R' Dovid immediately sent the boy to bring something for the guest to
eat. "When I left the room," R' Moshe would recount, "I caught my father admonishing
my uncle: Do you want to ruin my son? To turn him into a baal gaavah, chas
vesholom?"
His words had a profound effect on the young boy who internalized their lesson of
humility forever.
In his later years too, when his name was mentioned with awe and respect by all, he
remained as unassuming as Moshe Rabbeinu himself, his humility even preventing him
from visiting Eretz Yisroel. When he came to the Holy Land in 5724 (1964), thousands
flocked to his door, individuals with private sheilos, rabbonim with
halachic queries that were rocking the rabbinic world, the brokenhearted to
pour our their problems and ask for practical advice -- twenty-four hours a day they
came in a steady stream.
Upon returning to New York, R' Moshe was heard to say, "To receive all the people who
wanted to see me was impossible, yet who am I to turn away a Jew? I can no longer go
on a short-term visit to Eretz Yisroel!" He was even absent at the wedding of his
grandchild that took place in Yerushalayim for this reason.
His family related a remarkable incident that took place after R' Moshe
paskened a famous sheilo as permitted. There were rabbonim who disagreed
with his psak as is often since we are in golus. "We have no novi .
. ."
A follower of one of these, a man of bad middos stood up publicly against R'
Moshe's psak and even degraded R' Moshe himself. R' Moshe, true to the Torah's
command, "You shall not fear any man," did not sway from his daas Torah, and
held his own.
Not long after, this man was caught by the American authorities for a minor crime. His
court case was imminent and he knew that he could receive
a very harsh sentence if the court was against him. He turned to R'
Moshe, not to apologize and beg forgiveness, for perhaps this happened because he had
humiliated a godol hador, but to request that the rabbi write a letter in his
favor to the judge, as even the non-Jews respected the rabbi's word.
Immediately, Reb Moshe took out a paper and pen and wrote a warm letter which, after
reading it, one would think was written about a close friend, and handed it to his
adversary saving him from a harsh verdict.
His astonished family explained their wonder: how could he so wholeheartedly help
someone who had besmirched his name only a short while earlier? The wonder of wonders
was that Reb Moshe was not working on his middos in writing this letter; he did
it naturally and in total innocence did not understand his family's amazement. "If I
am in a position to help this man, how can I refuse to extend a helping hand to a
fellow Jew in need?
His wonderful middos did not allow him to even slightly harm the feelings of
another, even at his personal cost. His sister, the Rebbetzin Chanah, related that
when Reb Moshe was rov in Lyuban, before he was married, a woman was appointed to
cook for him. The food she cooked was literally inedible, but to Reb Moshe,
embarrassing a Jewish woman was even more inconceivable and he always finished his
meals to the last crumb.
Thinking that the rov enjoyed her food so much, the cook served him even larger
portions and these too were finished each time. "One day I went to visit my brother
and joined him for lunch. I just about tasted the food and almost threw up the bit
that I had swallowed, so nauseating was the taste. `How could you eat such disgusting
food?' I asked my brother. His answer was simple. `I force myself in order to avoid
embarrassing the cook.' "
Reb Moshe once told his sister that she did him a great favor that day by stuffing
all the food into her bag so at least one day he didn't have to eat it.
On another occasion a talmid of Reb Moshe took him home in his car. He opened
the door of the passenger seat and Reb Moshe got out, whereupon the talmid
slammed the door on his hand. The pain was unbearable, but Reb Moshe contained
himself with superhuman control in order not to alert the talmid, who would
surely be mortified by his mistake.
Indeed, how appropriate are the words uttered by Reb Moshe himself, not long before
he was niftar: "As far as I know, to the furthest extent of my memory, I never
harmed anyone, nor did I ever hurt a person's feelings."
This short, concise admission coming from the holy mouth of Reb Moshe himself is
sufficient testimony and the greatest mussar book for us.
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