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Never Give Up

by Sara Gutfreund

Nechama had always been a dreamer. She used to sit in the back of the class staring out the window at the branches of the trees arching towards the sky. Due to her frequent daydreaming, she had a hard time following her schoolwork. Nevertheless, she brought home average grades, and she was blessed with parents who never pushed her to snap out of her reveries.

When Nechama discovered painting, she was thrilled to finally have an outlet for her vivid imagination. However, her early art teachers were unfortunately intolerant of her uneven lines and frequent pauses. They told her to hurry up and to paint more realistically. When Nechama shyly confessed to one of her art teachers that she wanted to be an artist, the teacher frowned down at the little girl with dreamy, gray eyes and told her that she didn't have enough talent to ever be an artist. "Be practical," the teacher said as she drew lines across Nechama's latest painting. "You still can't even draw a straight line."

But Nechama refused to listen. Painting was her haven from a fast-paced, confusing world, and she held on to it tenaciously. When Nechama was ready to get married, her parents found her a soft-spoken, undemanding young man who encouraged her to continue painting in their new home. And though they were soon blessed with a quick succession of children, Nechama found time to paint.

Sometimes she painted in the middle of the night after nursing the baby. Sometimes she painted in the morning while the baby slept, and the water boiled. She hung some of her paintings in their living room, and others she stacked in the spare bedroom. Nechama's laid-back nature proved to be a tremendous asset to her mothering, and she loved making up creative games for her children and weaving fantastical stories with them.

One Shabbos, many years later, when Nechama was forty-five years old, one of the kiruv yeshivos nearby asked them to have a couple of guests for Shabbos. They gladly welcomed the guests into their home, and Nechama noticed that one of their guests was staring intently at her paintings. It turned out that he was a world-renowned art dealer, and he knew talent when he saw it.

Nechama went on to paint and sell many more beautiful paintings after that. She had never needed the fame or the praise of the outside world, but she was glad that she hadn't put down her brushes when her teachers told her she would never be an artist. She listened to the song of her own soul, and Hashem helped her turn her quiet, colorful dreams into reality.

 

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