Modern commentators have stressed that Torah education is not
just giving over information. Education is not just filling
students with the facts of Torah, but also building their
character and developing their potential in all areas of
life. Every Torah teacher is not just charged with giving
over information, but also with making his charges into
mentschen.
Though Rabbi Naftoli Herman Neuberger spent most of his time
at the Ner Israel Yeshiva running the office and developing
the physical plant and not in the beis medrash,
generations of students who passed through can testify that
he played an important role in educating the talmidim
in that difficult-to-pin-down area of being mentschen.
In truth this was a theme struck even by many of those who
came in contact with him in any of his myriad activities. His
role as a model of dedication to Torah and yashrus and
the advice he provided to so many in need in how to get
things done and how to do them properly, are remembered and
treasured by all those who came in contact with him.
Many people said that Rabbi Neuberger was like a father to
them, but we think that more importantly it can be said that
he served — from the unlikely position of executive
director — also as a rebbe. As the gemora (Bovo
Metzia 33:1) explains, a father brings his child to This
World, but the rebbe "who teaches him wisdom
(chochmoh)," brings him to Olom Habo. Though his
official responsibilities were only the Olom Hazeh part of
the yeshiva, there is no doubt that Rabbi Neuberger's
influence was important in bringing the talmidei
yeshiva to Olom Habo as well.
Always Ready to Help
There was a feeling about Rabbi Neuberger that everyone who
came in contact with him — parents, students, faculty,
politicians — felt: he was always ready to help.
Despite his responsibilities, he always had time for another
problem.
It could be said of him that his activities were motivated by
a sense of duty in the highest sense: a deep orientation
towards helping others. His work in the yeshiva, his
assistance and counsel of students and faculty, even his
relationship with politicians and the movers and shakers of
the world — were all driven by a deep desire to help
others, and a duty to the Ribono Shel Olom to improve
His world in any and every manner possible. Nothing was too
small for his attention and, it seemed, nothing was too great
for his abilities.
Rabbi Neuberger once said, "I do what I can do. When the
telephone stops ringing, I go to sleep at night."
On another occasion he said, "I try to help people whenever
and wherever I can. I try never to refuse anyone."
"The legacy that our father left us was to maintain this
preeminent yeshiva for the benefit of the Jewish people, and
to always understand that we're part of a greater community,"
said Rav Sheftel Neuberger, who now runs the office of Ner
Israel. "We look to continue his legacy of involvement for
the benefit of the Jewish community and mankind."
"He was on a different level than most people," Rabbi Leonard
Oberstein, director of Ner Israel's Teacher's Institute,
said. "He cared very much about people. His heart encompassed
everybody. I remember once a lady called him up who was in a
hospital on the other side of town with no kosher food. He
had never heard of this lady. Rabbi Neuberger arranged for
Ner Israel to take her food. That for him was just
normal."
Biography
He was born June 16, 1918 (6 Tammuz, 5678), in Hassfurt, a
small Bavarian town along the Main River. Rabbi Neuberger was
the youngest of R' Meir and Bertha Neuberger's three
children. His father, a businessman, moved the family to the
larger city of Wurzburg where he could hire a rebbe to teach
his children, when Naftoli was eight. Four weeks after Rabbi
Neuberger's bar mitzvah, his father was niftar.
In 1935, when he was 17, Rabbi Neuberger left home to study
at the Mirrer yeshiva in Poland. "I told them I want to learn
in Mir," he told the Baltimore Jewish Times. "It was
very essential. It gave me a background."
It was well after the rise of Hitler ym"sh and German
Jews knew they had to get out. His elder brother, Albert, had
left for London in 1934 to study medicine and he became a
prominent chemical pathologist. His sister, Gretel, had
immigrated in 1933 to Palestine, settling on a moshav in the
Galil where she directed a children's school.
In February of 1938, Rabbi Neuberger's relatives in New York
sent him papers to immigrate to the United States. He left as
soon as he could. His mother settled in London.
The day after he arrived in the United States, he traveled to
Baltimore to visit cousins. Rabbi Neuberger visited Ner
Israel, then at Tifereth Israel Congregation on Garrison
Boulevard. He decided to stay there to learn. "I liked the
spirit of the yeshiva," he said. "I was fascinated by Rabbi
[Yaakov Yitzchok] Ruderman," the renowned Rosh Yeshiva, one
of the close talmidim of the Alter of Slobodka.
Rabbi Ruderman was brought to the United States from Slobodka
yeshiva in Lithuania by his father-in-law, HaRav Sheftel
Kramer. Rabbi Kramer was spiritual guide of a New Haven
yeshiva that was relocating to Cleveland and he wanted Rabbi
Ruderman to serve as rosh yeshiva there.
But while fundraising in Baltimore, Rabbi Ruderman was asked
to serve as Tifereth Israel's spiritual leader. He agreed, if
he could establish a yeshiva in the shul. Despite initial
hostility from residents opposed to a yeshiva, Ner Israel,
named after R' Yisroel Salanter, opened in 1933 with five
students.
In 1940, Rabbi Neuberger began working in the yeshiva office.
In 1942 he married Judith Kramer, the youngest of Rebbetzin
Ruderman's four sisters. Rebbetzin Neuberger was a
personality in her own right, and she often contributed to
her husband's chesed work.
Six weeks before their wedding, HaRav Kramer was
niftar following an emergency appendectomy. The widow
soon moved in with the newlyweds — as did a sister
until she wed — and lived with them for 24 years. In
1968, Rabbi and Mrs. Neuberger brought his ailing mother from
London to their apartment to live with them until her passing
in 1974.
During and after World War II, Rabbi Neuberger worked to
obtain visas to help Jewish refugees flee Europe. New
facilities for the yeshiva were completed in 1943, along
Garrison Boulevard.
Rabbi Herman Neuberger, who was ordained by Rabbi Ruderman,
took on more administrative duties, becoming executive
director and later vice president. By the mid-1950s, he was
responsible for fundraising and the yeshiva's physical
operation. He built an impressive campus at 4411 Garrison
Boulevard, including a main building with a large beis
hamedrash and a large dining room that could serve the
whole yeshiva at once — by then it numbered some 400
talmidim from high school through yeshiva
gedoloh. There were also several outlying dormitory
buildings.
As the Orthodox community moved north towards the suburbs,
Rabbi Neuberger undertook to relocate Ner Israel to
Pikesville, where there would be more space and isolation
from the anti-educational influences of the city. In 1964 the
yeshiva purchased a 50-acre site on Mount Wilson Lane for
$250,000. In those days it was well beyond the urban
development around Baltimore. To reach it one had to drive
beyond the Beltway and through the quiet, two-lane Mount
Wilson Lane.
Rabbi Neuberger borrowed $5,000 for the down payment; his
connections with bankers helped him raise the $850,000
mortgage to build the first stage. Development and building
ultimately exceeded $10 million. The first stage was
completed in 1968 with the assistance of associate director
Rabbi Jerome Kadden. Three more tracts were purchased and
construction continued throughout the 1970s on what became
the 90-acre Beren campus.
Ner Israel's founder, HaRav Yaakov Yitzchok Ruderman, was
niftar in 1987. His son-in-law and successor, HaRav
Yaakov S. Weinberg, was niftar in 1999. HaRav Yaakov
Moshe Kulefsky was niftar in 2000.
The current rosh yeshiva is HaRav Aharon Feldman
shlita, originally from Baltimore and who lived many
years in Jerusalem.
Saving Iranian Jewry
"Rabbi Neuberger rescued Iranian Jewry," said Rabbi Eliyahu
Hakakian, director of Iranian students at Ner Israel, who
escaped Iran in 1985.
Rabbi Neuberger first became involved in 1975, when the Shah
of Iran, put into power in 1953 with British and American
assistance that overthrew the democratically elected
government of Prime Minister Dr. Mohammed Mossadeq, sought to
modernize his country and ban religious schools. At the time,
nearly 100,000 Jews lived in Iran. Most have since fled.
The late Rabbi Zoldan Sassoon, an English businessman who
directed the international Sephardic religious school system
Otzar HaTorah, asked Rabbi Neuberger to accompany him to Iran
to negotiate on behalf of his Jewish schools there.
In Teheran, Rabbi Neuberger saw that students attended
religious school only part-time and there was no secondary
Jewish education. He began a pilot program to bring young
Iranian students to study at Ner Israel, planning for them to
return to Iran to teach.
Rabbi Reuven Khaver, a Park Heights businessman, was one of
six high school students from Shiraz who went to the US on a
student visa in 1978. Five months later, the Shah was
overthrown and they all remained at Ner Israel. There was no
going back.
When young Iranian Jews could no longer obtain passports or
student visas, they escaped to Istanbul to get refugee status
from the United Nations so they could enter the United
States.
In 1983, Rabbi Neuberger — with his close friend, the
late Rabbi Moshe Sherer, a Ner Israel alumnus and president
of Agudath Israel of America — successfully initiated
political pressure on the U.S. State Department to recognize
Iranian Jews as political refugees and allow them entry.
In 1984 Turkey, which shares a border with Iran, became an
escape route for Iranian Jews, who risked being shot, jailed
or returned to Iran as they fled through the Turkish
mountains.
Despite the Turkish government's deal with Iran to close its
borders, Rabbis Neuberger and Khaver — along with
former New York congressman Stephen J. Solarz, then chairman
of the House Foreign Affairs Subcommittee for Asian and
Pacific Affairs, and attorney David Zwiebel, executive vice
president for government and public affairs for Agudath
Israel — met with the Turkish ambassador to obtain
assurances that Turkish authorities would look the other way
when Iranian Jews came through.
The ambassador also agreed to allow Iranian Jews to stay in
Turkey as refugees until they obtained tourist visas to
Vienna before immigrating to the United States. The
clandestine operation continued until 1994, when Iran issued
passports.
When there was no more room at Ner Israel for more Iranian
students, Rabbi Neuberger convinced yeshivas in New York and
Los Angeles to accept immigrants. He also helped bring out
teenage girls, arranging for Baltimore families to take them
in.
Over the past 23 years, more than 800 Iranian immigrants
attended Ner Israel — on full scholarship. Two years
ago, 75 Iranian students were enrolled.
When the Iranians first arrived at Ner Israel, Rabbi Ruderman
was adamant that they maintain their religious identity and
customs, encouraging them to conduct their own minyanim
on Shabbos.
"From day one, the yeshiva's policy was to bring out the best
in us," says Rabbi Khaver. "They said, `Let us give them the
tools and education to be leaders tomorrow.' Preserving
Iranian Jewry was their goal. Today, when a boy in Iran has a
dream of coming to Baltimore, it is of a yeshiva life
here."
Students who maintained their traditions have become more
effective leaders than those who were Americanized, says
Rabbi Hakakian. "Anywhere there is a flourishing Iranian
Jewish community in the U.S., the majority of the leaders are
from Ner Israel."
Rabbi David Zargari is an Iranian Jew who now lives in Los
Angeles. He was one of the first Iranians brought to Ner
Israel by Rabbi Neuberger. Rabbi Zargari graduated from Ner
Israel and left for Los Angeles in 1986, where he founded
Torat Hayim of Los Angeles, which includes a 500-family
congregation, a Hebrew academy with 220 students and a
graduate program.
"Rabbi Neuberger should be credited more than any other
individual for what is happening in [Iranian] communities in
Atlanta, Los Angeles, New York, all over. Everywhere there is
a Persian Jewish community, the rabbis are graduates of Ner
Israel. It is all his foresight," said Rabbi Zargari.
"What did he know about the Persian Jews? Nothing. He just
had tremendous ahavat Yisrael. Every individual really
mattered to him. He cared and he showed to what extent every
individual mattered."
A Friend and Advisor to Non-Jewish
Leaders
Rabbi Neuberger was one person in Baltimore who commanded the
respect and devotion of community leaders of all kinds. High-
ranking Maryland politicians, communal officials, local
Jewish clergy of every stripe, the archbishop of Baltimore
— all called and came to consult with him.
"He was truly one of the great thinkers in our community,"
said Congressman Benjamin L. Cardin.
US Senator Barbara A. Mikulski from Maryland first met Rabbi
Neuberger in 1982 when she was a congresswoman representing
an area that included the Jewish community. "We hit it off
immediately," she said.
"I try to go to the banquet every year," she told the
Baltimore Jewish Times. "One year, when Al Gore was
vice president, he asked me to his residence for dinner. I
said, `Presidents come and go. I've got to go with Rabbi
Neuberger.'"
Ms. Mikulski, who is Catholic, still gets teary recalling
that after her mother died, both Rabbi Neuberger and Rabbi
Sheftel Neuberger attended the funeral. "For them to be in
this funeral home in East Baltimore in the Polish
neighborhood . . . it was really very moving."
Senator Mikulski described Rabbi Neuberger as "a man of great
wisdom, but also of great kindness and humor. He helped me to
know the vibrant Orthodox community in Baltimore."
Baltimore's Cardinal William H. Keeler said that he found a
lobbying partner in Rabbi Neuberger on moral issues involving
protection of family and married life in Maryland. He
recalled, "He came to me and said that we should be able to
work together on aid to students in our religious schools and
on some moral issues, and I agreed with him. I found him a
marvelous collaborator in these areas."
If asked, Rabbi Neuberger would say who he was voting for.
But he did not publicly endorse candidates, to avoid
alienating the opposition. "I'd like to talk to people after
the elections — even if they are not elected," he
said.
Approach to Askonus
Whatever the issue, Rabbi Neuberger's approach was to first
get it out of the public eye. When problems go public, he
maintained, opposing sides dig in their heels and refuse to
compromise. He then worked with the parties and tried to
pinpoint the essence of the disagreement.
"I try to be positive, not negative," Rabbi Neuberger
explained. "It lessens the sharpness of differences. I'm not
out to get every issue [fully] resolved, but [just] resolved
as best I can. There are misunderstandings, misstatements and
stubbornness, all kinds of motivation. You try to address
them one by one. I have a will and obligation to help people
do that."
He is effective, he insists, simply because he is a good
listener. "There's a whole art to listening," he says. "I try
to listen for where there's an opening to solve a problem.
You can understand them only if you let them talk freely."
Some issues need public action. One controversy was a
proposal by the JCC board in 1997 to open its Owings Mills
facility on Shabbos. Rabbi Neuberger orchestrated a massive
telephone and letter-writing campaign by the Orthodox that
culminated in a "Pro-Shabbos Rally" drawing nearly 4,000
people. Two days later, the Associated board voted to reject
the proposal.
Levaya
Almost 3,000 people who loved and admired Rabbi Herman
Naftoli Neuberger attended his levaya on Sunday
afternoon, chol hamoed Succos, October 23. Rabbi
Neuberger was niftar two days earlier on leil
Shabbos, of cardiac arrest after a period of declining
health. On the evening of his death, Rabbi Neuberger lit
Shabbos candles at his Yeshiva Lane home. Before taking a
nap, he told a family member to wake him up in time for
evening prayers. He died a misas neshikah during that
nap.
Dr. Yoel Jakobovits observed, "When he died on Friday night,
I felt this is typical of Rabbi Neuberger to die when yeshiva
is not in session [because of the holiday], so it was least
disruptive. He never ran after kovod. He regarded
himself as a person to serve, not to get privileges."
Rabbi Neuberger was buried at United Hebrew Cemetery in
Baltimore.
Rabbi Neuberger is survived by his five sons and their
families: Rav Sheftel, who now guides Ner Israel's office;
Rav Shraga, a Ner Israel rebbe; Rav Ezra, a Ner Israel rebbe
and dean of its kollel; R' Isaac, a Pikesville attorney; R'
Yaakov, a Greenspring attorney.
We would like to acknowledge the cover story of the
Baltimore Jewish Times September 13, 2002, entitled
"Leader Among Us" and written by Rona S. Hirsch, which served
as a source of much of the information in this
article.