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Only on Israeli Buses Of Coffee and Grocery Bags
two true stories by Tzvia Ehrlich-Klein

My friend Sara got on a fairly empty bus the other day in Jerusalem. The driver was wearing a knitted kipa, which means he was modern-rightist-religious.

Two Chassidic men were sitting behind the driver, one on either side of the aisle. My friend Sara sat down in the row behind.

She was somewhat amazed, yet delighted, to overhear their three-way conversation, which went on for some time.

At a red light, the bus driver asked the chossid on the right, "Can I drink coffee in the home of a friend who is not observant?"

The man addressed replied "Yes," but the one of the left said "No." A lively discussion ensued between the three of them regarding the halachic pros and cons of the question, while the bus continued on its route.

A few moments later, Sara turned in her seat as she heard a male voice behind her. A religious man, also hearing the bus driver's question, added still another point that they had neglected to bring up: "Granted that he kept meat and milk separate, how can you possibly assume that he toiveled the cup?"

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"There's No One Left"

Nechama had just had a baby a few weeks previously, but she decided that she "just had to get out" and do some major food shopping.

Strapping her baby into a front-baby-carrier so that she could always look at his face, she boarded a bus from Ramat Shlomo that stopped right in front of her favorite supermarket in town.

Shopping finished, Nechama gingerly made her way down the hill to the bus stop which would take her home. Carrying four huge shopping bags of groceries (with her baby in front) wasn't impossibly difficult, until she saw that her bus to Ramat Shlomo was already at the bus stop.

Knowing that she would have to wait at least 20 minutes for the next bus if she missed this one, she started running towards the stop as it slowly pulled out.

Much to her delight, the bus driver saw her hurrying and stopped to wait for her, even though it is illegal for a bus driver to halt anywhere but at a designated stop. In fact, not only was he taking a chance of getting a steep fine, but he also risked the ire of the other passengers who, quite rightly, wanted to get moving.

Thanking the driver, Nechama boarded the bus and settled in.

Within the quarter hour, they were in Ramat Shlomo. Meandering through the residential streets, it was a while till all the other passengers had gotten off, leaving only Nechama and her baby and her four huge grocery bags.

At this point, the bare-headed driver turned to Nechama and asked her which bus stop she needed and where she lived. She told him.

As he continued driving along his route, he commented, "There is no one left on the bus to help you." Then, instead of going to the bus stop, he stopped the bus directly in front of her apartment building. He then stood up, picked up her heavy packages and descended the steps of his bus.

He proceeded to carry those four heavy grocery bags to the very door of her apartment building, followed her all the way up the 1 1/2 flights of stairs (no elevator) to her apartment and carried the packages right into her kitchen.

He dismissed her thanks as unnecessary because, as he said, "After all, there was no one left on the bus to help you."

 

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