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PREPARING FOR THE FUTURE
The Gifted Child in the Classroom

by R' Zvi Zobin

We all hope that our child or pupil will be blessed with many talents. However, talents can also cause negative effects in the classroom, especially if a gifted child is forced to comply with conditions customized for regular children.

For example, if a child understands quickly, he might get bored if the teacher has to repeat explanations. If he has a great thirst for knowledge, he might get bored if the teacher does not deliver sufficient new information to keep him satisfied.

Some children are careful not to make mistakes, but then they will probably be slower than other students. If the child is sensitive, he might be easily hurt by a careless comment from teacher or peer.

A child who is full of energy cannot sit still. He needs to be kept occupied -- and this can be challenging for any teacher who has to deal with a large class.

If the child has been reading books and is already knowledgeable about many topics, he might already know about the subject being taught. If he is really bright, he might even know more than the teacher. A child who has an inquiring mind will need a teacher who knows all the answers. If the child is full of questions, he can easily disrupt a class and be difficult to handle during the lesson.

A child with a sharp wit can destroy a class or a teacher and if he has a keen sense of humor, he might make jokes during class which can turn a lesson into a comedy show.

Tangential thinkers can `see' alternative options which might not occur to the teacher or which the teacher cannot deal with because he has to continue along the conventional line. This can be frustrating for the child and for the teacher.

It is not good to be tense and nervous, but if a child seems to be too relaxed, he might give the impression of being laid- back and unmotivated.

A polite child will probably feel it wrong to be assertive in class and so, might recede into the background and be ignored.

The deep thinker needs time to think things through and so, might get left behind by the lesson and miss parts of it because he cannot simultaneously listen to the lesson and think things through.

A conceptual thinker needs to see the whole picture and so, he might ask apparently irrelevant questions which might irritate the teacher. Also, he might not understand even simple units of information because, for him, they are isolated and he cannot relate to them without seeing the big picture.

A child with a vivid imagination can easily become excited. This can make him seem to be unruly in class. An emotional child will tend to become emotionally involved in whatever is being taught, and might become caught up with the material. A child with a highly developed imagination might tend to dream and invent stories.

Of course, it is good to be kind-hearted, but in the class setting, a kind child can be manipulated by his peers to `help' others during the lesson.

An intuitive child can easily jump to the wrong conclusion or give a snap answer which is completely incorrect. Within the class setting, it is difficult for a teacher to spend time to track down the source of the mistake.

Some adults attend courses to learn meditation, but a child who is naturally meditative can give the impression of being lost in thought and dreaming out during class.

There are children who are scrupulously honest, but in class, they can seem to be goody-goody. In tests, they might give honest, but incorrect answers when others might cheat and seem to do better.

Some practically minded children cannot deal with pure theory but need to relate to concrete ideas.

Of course, any parent would be happy to have a child who understands quickly, has a thirst for knoweldge, cares not to make mistakes, is sensitive, full of energy, knowledgeable, has an inquiring mind, is full of questions, has a sharp wit and keen sense of humor, is a tangential thinker, relaxed and polite, is a deep, conceptual thinker, has a vivid and highly developed imagination, is kind-hearted, emotional, intuitive, meditative, honest and practical.

Such a child might be a delight to have at home but at school, he might get bored if the teacher has to repeat explanations. He might get bored if the teacher does not deliver sufficient new information to keep him satisfied; be slower than other students; be easily hurt by a careless comment from the teacher or a peer; be unable to sit still; need to be kept occupied -- and this can be challenging for any teacher who has to deal with a large class.

He might already know about the subject being taught, or might even know more than the teacher; need a teacher who knows all the answers; disrupt a class and be difficult to handle during the lesson; destroy a class or a teacher; make jokes during class which can turn a lesson into a comedy show; see alternative options which might not occur to the teacher or which he cannot deal with because he has to continue along the conventional line, which can be frustrating for the child and for the teacher.

He may seem to be too relaxed; he might give the impression of being laid-back and unmotivated; he may recede into the background and be ignored; get left behind by the lesson and miss parts of the lesson because he cannot simultaneously listen to the lesson and think things through; ask apparently irrelevent questions which might irritate the teacher and he might not understand even simple units of information because, for him, they are isolated and he cannot relate to them without seeing the big picture.

He may easily become excited; seem unruly in class; become emotionally involved in whatever is being taught, and so might become caught up with the material; be manipulated by his peers to help others during the lesson; jump to the wrong conclusion or give a snap answer which is completely incorrect; become lost in thought and dream out during class; be goody- goody; in tests, he might give honest but incorrect answers when others might cheat and seem to do better; be unable to deal with pure theory but need to relate to concrete ideas and may day-dream and invent stories.

So, if you child DOES have any of these problems, it might be because he is a gifted child who has been blessed with one or more of those talents.

 

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