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LETTERS, EITZA

Cool It!

Here's a cool tip that's going to put air conditioner companies out of business.

Heard from our Ohr Somayach Shabbos guest who lives on a hot, fourth floor, under-the-roof apartment.

He has a cold air humidifier which he fills with blocks of ice made in plastic containers in his freezer. One two quart block is enough to keep the humidifier going all night, and cooling the bedroom incredibly well!

Dear Editor:

Re: Response to a previous letter discouraging trips outside of Eretz Yisroel.

When people make aliya, they can usually bring products and appliances to help ease them into their new milieu. Their biggest sacrifice, however, is leaving behind family and friends. Parents, married children, grandchildren, aunts and uncles, cousins are all part of our life blood and culture. I think that in order to keep the connection alive, photos, letters, even phone calls and email are not enough. Trips abroad in both directions help us maintain loving and vital relationships.

Certainly, we may need Daas Torah in difficult cases. And financing is another consideration, but we all have our priorities, and visits give a tremendous booster shot of affection and appreciation to all concerned, ages 0-120.

I think it is crucial for children to have an open line of communication with family, to be aware of where they come from and not to alienate themselves and burn their bridges with themselves and their past. Even those who have become more religious need the connection, backup and the contribution made by family contact. Besides, they can be goodwill emissaries through darchei noam for the Torah way of life!

It may take extra effort and planning, but children gain a lot of understanding, self knowledge and self confidence from such visits.

Thank you for the interesting reading matter in the FAMILY section.

A reader in Israel

 

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