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by Rav Osher Bergman - Reviewed by Yated Ne'eman Staff

A book of four hundred fifty stories that are not bubby maases, these are stories chosen to illustrate a point, to learn from the words and deeds of gedolei Yisroel.

It is well known that a well chosen story is often a better vehicle for conveying lessons about life than abstract discussion. However, that certainly does not mean that every story is instructive. Often, the tale is filtered by the teller, and it reflects more the outlook of the one saying over the story than the truths of the subject of the story.

This collection was assembled by a young talmid chochom, working under the guidance of rabbonim and senior talmidei chachomim, who are the leaders of our generation. In his introduction,the author notes that a number of great talmidei chachomim, including HaRav Chaim Kanievsky, HaRav Boruch Shmuel Deutsch and his father HaRav Meir Tzvi Bergman were involved in the project at various stages and reviewed the material. This should certainly ensure that the stories are worth learning from.

The author took great pains to verify the accuracy of the stories, wherever possible speaking with witnesses who actually saw the events. The list of gedolim who appear in the sefer is stellar, and includes HaRav Yitzchok Elchonon Spector, HaRav Yisroel Salanter, the Beis Halevi, HaRav Chaim of Brisk, the Chofetz Chaim, HaRav Chaim Ozer Grodzinsky, the Chazon Ish, the Brisker Rov, HaRav Aharon Kotler, HaRav Moshe Feinstein, zichronom livrocho as well as the author's grandfather, ylct'a Maran HaRav Shach.

An important enhancement of the sefer is the detailed contents at the end, which cites the source of each story.

We will cite two stories to give the reader a taste.

HaRav Yaakov Ruderman, zt'l, the rosh yeshiva of Ner Israel in Baltimore, told that one time the chachomim of Warsaw had a difficulty in the gemora that they could not resolve. They agreed to send one of their rabbonim to the Gra in Vilna for his answer.

On the way, the shaliach passed through Brisk, and he stayed with a certain baal habayis. During the meal, he explained to his host what his journey was about, and his host asked to hear the question. To the surprise of the shaliach, the host gave 14 answers to the question.

The rav from Warsaw considered returning home, but in the end he decided to continue to the Gaon in Vilna.

He went to the Gaon and told him the question of his colleagues. He was quite surprised when the Gaon replied with the same 14 answers that his Brisker host had offered.

The Warsaw rov told the Gra that he had already heard those same 14 answers from a baal habayis with whom he stayed in Brisk.

"If so," said the Gra, "I want to meet that baal habayis. On your way home when you pass through Brisk, please go to him and tell him that I want to see him. It is up to him: either I will go to Brisk to see him or he should come to Vilna to see me."

The rav did as the Gra requested and conveyed that astounding proposal of the Gaon. However unexpectedly, instead of dancing with happiness at the zechus he had of meeting the Gaon under such circumstances, the Brisker baal habayis began to wail, "Oy vavoy! The Gra wants to see me! I have to quickly review Shas, or how can I see him?"

When Maran HaRav Shach, shlita, was a yeshiva bochur, he used to say chaburos. He noticed that some of his talmidim smoked, and he tried to convince them to stop smoking. Even when some of them refused to stop, he continued his efforts, asking them again and again to stop. In the end, some of them stopped.

One must remember that in those days there was no awareness of any danger attached to smoking. When he was asked why he tries to hard to get other bochurim to stop smoking, HaRav Shach shlita answered: "I see that the haskalah is spreading, and who knows what will eventually come out of the bochurim. Chas vesholom, maybe the will go off the path and transgress serious aveiros. I at least want to save them from the serious aveiros of smoking on Shabbos."

Even many years later, in 5732 (1972), HaRav Shach shlita was hospitalized in the Tel Hashomer Hospital. When he was getting ready to leave, the staff asked for a brocho from the Rosh Yeshiva. One in particular, who was a smoker, approached the Rosh Yeshiva and asked for a brocho. The Rosh Yeshiva said to him, "First of all, you have to stop smoking."

Later on, the Rosh Yeshiva explained that he knew that the man was not a shomer mitzvos, and therefore he took the opportunity to save him at least from the aveiros of smoking on Shabbos.


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