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IN-DEPTH FEATURES He performedyichudim in the Swiss mountains. He
refined his body in the pure, white snow. He was a
nistar, whose greatness was hidden from view.
"Remove my soul from confinement," he secretly pleaded when
he was still a youth. During those years, in which he
diligently pored over the study of Torah and mussar,
he also began to study the inner recesses of the Torah. He
was imbued with only one purpose, as he himself said: "I long
to be a loyal servant to Hashem and His Torah
hakedosha. In the depths of my soul, there exists a
thirst and a longing to draw close to Hashem, and to be a
tzaddik, a chassid and an upright person,
beloved and genial, and in this manner to cause nachas
ruach to the Creator."
In the shop in which he toiled for his livelihood he jotted
down his chidushei Torah on the back of bills. When he
cut cloth, he whispered the prayer, "Ono bekoach. . ."
He determined the prices of his merchandise to correspond to
gematrios of the sacred Names of Hakodosh Boruch
Hu, in order to fulfill the verse, "Shivisi Hashem
lenegdi tomid."
In Lugano, Switzerland, far from the world's main Torah
centers, a man advanced from rung to rung along the ladder of
Rebbi Pinchas ben Yair. There he sanctified himself and
refined his soul. He clung to his Creator, toiled in the
study of revealed Torah, and composed many in-depth
kabbalistic books, until he was snatched away from this world
in a horrifying accident.
"Since the day of his petirah I have had no peace of
mind," cried out R' Shlomo Wolbe at the shloshim. "I
have no peace of mind! A person who lived amidst us under
hardship, in a small town in Switzerland, yet rose to such
lofty heights. This is a wonder. He was a wonder, who
obligates all of us to follow his example without limits."
There, in the Swiss town of Lugano, far from
the prestigious Torah centers -- there, in a materialistic
and alien atmosphere, lived a Jew who broke through the Swiss
iciness with a fire of kedusha.
"A simple Jew," a tradesman who assumed no rabbinical
demeanors, toiled in Torah, reaching lofty heights of
kedusha, probing Torah's inner depths, and composing
kabbalistic works, solely for Hashem's sake.
He resided in Lugano, until one bitter day, eleven years ago,
he was snatched away from us in a tragic accident.
He was remarkable during his life and during his death.
After his death, the members of his family compiled the
hespedim recited about him. They appear in a two
booklets called Tzeror Hachaim.
Like many others, we weren't privileged to know him. However,
when we leafed through the pages of the booklets, and read
the personal testimonies of his way of life, we were startled
and amazed.
We began to sense, and to actually discern the image of a
hidden tzaddik, an image known to us until then only
from stories of days gone by, stories of yore.
Following are highlights of the life of the gaon, the
tzaddik, the mekubal, R' Chaim Aryeh Erlanger,
on his eleventh yahrzeit.
When he was young, he studied in the yeshiva in Montreux.
While there, he maintained a taanis dibbur for many
months, devoting himself only to Torah and yiras
Shomayim. For a long time, he would fast from one Shabbos
to the next, eating nothing during the day, and breaking his
fast only at night. Sometimes, he would fast for three
consecutive days and nights, without pausing to eat in the
evenings.
During the World War, he became known as the only student in
the yeshiva who didn't pick up a newspaper the entire period
in order to read the news. He immersed himself totally in the
four cubits of the halocho. He jotted down the letters
"G.R." -- the initials of the expression "gachalei
resomim" (burning coals) on the cover of his gemora,
in order to remind himself of Chazal's statement that one
who pauses from his Torah studies is, in the World of Truth,
fed burning coals.
Years later, he told his son that as a yeshiva student, when
he recited the words `ki heim chayeinu' of the
maariv service, he was filled with an all consuming
feeling that if he left the yeshiva for even one day, he
would die immediately.
When he would understand the Torah he was studying in a new
light, he would cry out in excitement: "Do you hear? It is
worthwhile for a soul to come down to this world only to make
such a chiddush."
Already then, he had acquired bekius in all of the
mussar works, according to whose light he behaved.
With his yirah, which proceeded his wisdom, he slowly
began to enter the world of chochmas ha'emmes, the
hidden Torah and the kaboloh.
When his brother, R' Avrohom Erlanger, a ram in Kol
Torah, asked him if he hadn't involved himself too much with
the inner aspects of the Torah, at the expense of the study
of the revealed parts, he replied: "I had a chavrusa
for the study of the nigleh 18 hours a day."
On another occasion, he told his brother: "I don't understand
the concept of `going to sleep.' When one can't continue any
longer, he falls on his bed without a choice. But a set
pattern of `going to sleep?' I'm astonished."
A Chariot for the Shechina
There was one topic about which R' Chaim constantly spoke
with longing and tremendous emotion: the aspiration to attain
the level of merkova laShechina -- a chariot for the
Shechina.
As a young man, he asked his great mentor, HaRav Aharon Leib
Steinman, shlita, to what level and purpose one should
aspire. HaRav Steinman replied that our sacred seforim
say that the highest level is that of being a chariot for the
Shechina.
From that time on, he decided to realize that aim in these
ways: by instilling Torah and kedusha into the
practical world, by sanctifying Creation and by helping it
achieve its purpose and desired level.
He once told his son, "There is no need to study hidden
meanings. One must be an `acting nistar.' "
On another occasion, his son asked him why he didn't wear
glasses on Yom Tov. "Meila," his son said, "on Shabbos
there is a basis for being strict on this matter due to the
prohibition against carrying, and the poskim discuss
the possibility that the glasses might fall. But on Yom Tov,
all this isn't pertinent."
R' Chaim replied to this question in a lengthy letter which
dealt with the clarification of the various approaches to the
chashashos on Shabbos. In the end he wrote that there
is no prohibition to wear glasses on Yom Tov. However when
one doesn't look outside, he has a better view of the inner
recesses of his soul. Yomim tovim are sacred and
exalted days. Thus, even though there is no problem about
carrying, there is a mitzvas asei she'hazman gromo to
rise spiritually. When a person isn't immersed in what is
occurring outside him, he can immerse himself in his inner
essence.
His dveikus was evident in all of his conduct and
deportment. Even when he went to his place of work, all saw
that he was immersed in lofty thoughts, clinging to his Maker
and mediating on Torah and avodas Hashem. He would
pause a number of times, remove a piece of paper from his
pocket, and mark down a dvar Torah which he had
thought of at that moment.
His prayers were saturated with longing, and when he stood
before the teiva in shul he would bring the
congregation to tears -- and not only on the Yomim
Nora'im or on special times. Every one of his prayers was
the result of tremendous efforts, and those standing near him
noticed that he would perspire due to the immense
concentration and effort he invested in his avodas
Hashem.
Such was also the case with every brocho he
pronounced. When he uttered Hashem's Name, he linked himself
to his Maker by means of hidden intentions and kabbalistic
meanings. On Friday nights, when he reached the words,
"vayichal Elokim" of the kiddush, he was unable
to continue, and tears would flow from his eyes, as a result
of the intensity of his longings. When he recited bircas
hamozon, and reached the blessing, "rachem no,"
where we request that the Beis Hamikdash be rebuilt,
he would also weep.
One of the members of his family explained his conduct
saying: "In his daily recitation of the bircas
hamozon, he reached the level that a true yirei
Shomayim reaches on Tisha B'Av while reciting the
Kinos."
R' Shmuel Wozner discussed this point in the hesped he
delivered at R' Chaim's levaya: "Who could have looked
into his four cubits when he secluded himself with his Maker?
Who could have looked into his four cubits when he conducted
a tikun chatzos? Who could have observed the
righteousness of this Jew, when he fulfilled `kumi roni
balayla lerosh ashmuros,' when he was alone with
Hashem Yisborach?"
When he visited Eretz Yisroel, he wanted to kiss its earth
before being greeted by his children. "Ima comes
before me, as far as the children are concerned," he said.
When he traveled from the airport to Yerushalyim, he
retreated into himself, and throughout the trip, he softly
hummed the melodies of Nirtza from the Seder.
He continued this way until reaching Har Hazeism. However,
when he reached Har Hazeisim, and looked out at the site of
the Mikdash, he could no longer contain himself and
burst out into heartrending weeping.
"One Must Act in Secret"
Everything in the world must be utilized for the service of
Hashem, and every situation must be maximized for spiritual
growth and for the intensifying of one's devotion to the
Creator. R' Chaim, conducted himself in that way in his daily
life, and his motto was: "One must act in secret."
One vacation, he and his sons took a trip to the Alps. When
they reached a spot from which a particularly breathtaking
view was visible, he began to sing the melodies of the
Yomim Nora'im with dveikus and with the
outpouring of the soul. "In such places, the air is purer.
One feels the closeness of Hashem," he told his sons.
Throughout the hike, he stopped many times and said, "Who
knows if words of kedusha were ever uttered here.
Let's say a dvar Torah." (In the writings he left
behind, chiddushim written atop the Swiss mountains or
while waiting at the station for the mountain train, were
found.)
His sons relate that on one occasion, when they stood at the
peak of a Swiss mountain, and gazed in awe and amazement at
the breathtaking view, he told them to close their eyes and
picture a bonfire whose flames reached the Heavens. Then he
told them to imagine that they had decided to throw
themselves into it, in order to sacrifice themselves al
kiddush Hashem.
"He imbued his home with the sanctity of the beis
medrash," said one of the maspidim. In his home,
the walls weren't decorated with drawings and paintings, but
with sayings and verses which aroused one to serve Hashem and
to observe the mitzvos.
A Special Room for Shabbos Kodesh
He had a special room in his home in honor of Shabbos
kodesh. On each vessel and dish in that room, there was
an inscription, designating it for use on Shabbos
kodesh. All of the bottles, and even the vessel for
netilas yodayim were set aside especially for
Shabbos kodesh. This room remained closed nearly all
week, because all knew that it had been earmarked for
Shabbos kodesh. When his wife removed the special
dishes and set them on the table along with the seven white
flowers she placed there every Shabbos, an aura of
kedusha enveloped the house -- mei'ein Olom
Habo.
When he was only a young man of twenty, he composed a prayer
in the form of a poem, based on the kabbalistic ten
sefiros, and on the verse in Tehillim, "Remove
my soul from confinement." This prayer was the guiding light
of his life, and he would recite it on erev Yom Kippur
after mincha. During the final year of his life, he
sent a copy of that prayer to all his sons.
From a very young age, he would cry out and plead, "Remove my
soul from confinement," and would constantly toil to reach
the level of a chariot for the Shechina. R' Chaim Brim
relates: "People who knew R' Chaim Aryeh as a child, testify
that in his early youth he began to concentrate on the
structured avoda cited in the Beraisa of Rabi
Pinchas ben Yair, and that from that time on, he climbed the
mesilas yeshorim, rung after rung, on the way to
Beis Elokim.
A Tzaddik in Switzerland
When R' Chaim was still young, the Imrei Emmes of Gur
recognized the youth's great spiritual stature. The Imrei
Emmes' attitude toward him became known, when some noticed
that he particularly admired and respected the young Chaim.
(When Chaim would enter the Admor's study, the Admor would
rise to his full height in his honor.)
When asked to explain the reason for the behavior of the
Imrei Emmes, the Beis Yisroel said: "There are a few
tzaddikim whom Hakodosh Boruch Hu planted in
each generation. One of them is in Switzerland."
Nonetheless, why?
In his youth, R' Chaim had written a letter to the Imrei
Emmes, who read it and immediately showed it to his son, the
Beis Yisroel, saying with wonder: "See what some young men
ask for, even in our times?"
The Beis Yisroel related that his father had instructed him
to save this letter, so that ensuing generations would know
what one should request in a kvittel "And this was no
insignificant thing," the Beis Yisroel once told his
follower, R' Refoel Horowitz, "because out of the tens of
thousands of letters which my father received, he instructed
me to save only two letters, one from his eldest son
Hy'd, and the other written in 5705 by a bochur
from Switzerland, Chaim Erlanger."
R' Chaim's son once asked his father, in a casual manner,
what he had written in that letter, and he replied that he
had asked for these things: to attain various levels; to
rectify the four letters of Hashem's Name which pertain to
the root of his soul, and to be a chair and chariot for the
Shechina.
A man from Lugano who would occasionally visit the Steipler
Rav, would always be greeted by the question: "How is the
mekubal?"
That is how he was identified. That is how he was known by
the gedolei hador.
Certain people once told the Admor of Satmar, the author of
Va'yoel Moshe, that they didn't understand how so
young a person could involve himself in kaboloh.
"Leave him alone. He is worthy of it," the Admor replied.
Indeed, when he was still a young man, he made
chidushim in the secrets of the Torah, even though
very few books of kabboloh were in his possession.
Scores of years later, many of his explanations were found to
be explicitly stated in the writings of the Arizal and in
other works of the greatest kabbalsits.
Throughout his life, he immersed himself in the penetrating
study of the inner recesses of the Torah, and left behind
many writings on kabbalistic subjects. He published two books
during his life: Meiras Einayim LeRabbenu Yitzchok Demin
Acco, on the secrets of the Rambam on the Torah with the
commentary of Yefeh Einayim (in gematria: Chaim
Aryeh) and the book, Shaar Horozin LeRabbenu
Todros (also Chaim Aryeh in gematria).
He approached his studies of the Torah's inner secrets with
the same seriousness with which he delved into the
halacho and the analysis of the topics of the
gemora. He studied the kabboloh with an added
sense of responsibility, and with awe and trepidation. He
told his brother that before preparing his Yefeh
Einayim on the Meiras Einayim, he had studied more
than 30 kabbalistic works of our rishonim, so that his
ideas would coincide with the thought trends of the
rishonim.
Despite all this, he warned others not to engage in the study
of kabboloh before being ripe for such a pursuit, as
far as one's level of faith and lifestyle are concerned. As
we have said, he explained to his son that "one needn't study
the hidden meanings of the Torah, but must rather be an
`acting nistar.'
Learning and Doing
A talmid chochom once asked him whether it was fitting
to join shiurim where the intentions of the prayers
(kavonos) are studied. R' Chaim replied: "I feel that
it is permitted to make kavonos and yichudim
only if at the time one makes them, he actually feels that a
shechita knife has been placed on his heart and that
he is prepared to sacrifice his life for the honor of
Hashem Yisborach. Only then can he grasp the genuine
kabbalistic intentions and intend to the yichudim of
Hashem's sacred Names."
He also disapproved of the transforming of the inner aspects
of the Torah to a popular type of study in which all could
engage. He often expressed his fears that the popular study
of kabboloh causes supernal concepts to become
tangible and mundane. He felt that if a person doesn't
succeed in ascending to the level of a kabbalistic concept,
he lowers it to the level of his limited understanding and
misconstrues it in a serious manner. In particular, he warned
against those who feign to be masters of the kabboloh,
when they really lack the foundations of pure faith, and
violate the Torah prohibition against flattering the wicked.
"Our main purpose is to cull the good from the bad, and all
of the avoda of one whose viewpoints are faulty or who
collaborates with the wicked, is doubtful." (His insistence
on purity of hashkofo and his zeal for sheim
Shamayim, were well known, and were the sources of his
great admiration of the Brisker dynasty and the Admor of
Satmar.)
He said that one cannot grasp exalted conceptions if they are
unaccompanied by actual deeds. In his introduction to
Shaar Horozin, he cites the explanation of the
practice of the Divrei Chaim of Sanz, who would distribute
all of his money to tzedoko, until there was barely a
penny in his home. The Divrei Chaim, who was blessed with an
exceptionally brilliant mind and grasped new concepts on a
daily basis, feared that his wisdom might exceed his good
deeds, he explained. He felt that the only way he could
prevent such a situation and ensure that his deeds hopefully
exceeded his wisdom, was by distributing charity all day.
R' Chaim perceived this basic matter on his own. He once told
his close acquaintances that after he had become well- versed
in kabboloh, he felt that the secret of the 12
challos on Shabbos (from the writings of the Arizal)
was difficult for him to grasp. Nonetheless, he relied on the
words of the Shaarei Teshuva that one who isn't
acquainted with the kavonos, yet wants to rectify his
deeds and direct his heart toward Shomayim, may adopt
these kavonos nonetheless.
He began to behave that way in 5728, and from that time on,
allusions to the matter were revealed to him every year,
until he finally understood 17 different ways of explaining
the matter in its deepest aspects
Na'aseh venishma.
R' Michel Yehuda Lefkowitz, who came to console the mourners,
listened for a long time to the accounts of the remarkable
life of R' Chaim, and then read through his written
seforim. He then explained: "The deeds aren't the
result of the seforim. The opposite is true. The
seforim are the results of the deeds."
For this reason, R' Chaim remonstrated against those people
who donned false Chassidic mantles, of which they were
unworthy. Precisely because he was a staunch adherent of the
writings of the students of the Besht, he was not
accommodating to those who, under the guise of supposed
"Chassidus," wanted to justify behavior which did not conform
to the clear-cut halocho and the pure truth. In his
opinion, this factor caused a decrease in the virtue of
genuine piety in the world (as the Mesilas Yeshorim
says in its introduction).
Along with his great mastery of the Toras hanistar, he
devoted many hours to the in-depth study of the revealed
Torah. In Lugano, he delivered gemoro discourses on
very complex sugyos, as well as halachic
shiurim in works of the Chofetz Chaim, the Mishne
Brurah and Shmiras Haloshon.
When he was asked who were his mentors, he replied: "The
works of the Chofetz Chaim." The reason for this reply was
that each time he had a doubt regarding a certain manner of
conduct, he would study the works of the Chofetz Chaim, with
which he was thoroughly familiar from the time he was young,
and would find in them the answer to his question.
In addition, he had a special study session at ten at night,
of the chidushim of Rabbenu Chaim Halevi, which he
studied in-depth and with sharp penetration, even though he
had spent a long and arduous day involved in various forms of
toil.
A certain talmid chochom once asked him how he
succeeded in clarifying difficult sugyos when he lived
so far away from Torah centers, and had no one with whom to
speak in learning.
R' Chaim's answer startled the questioner: "In such a case,"
R' Chaim said, "I weep and plead with the Creator of the
universe to guide me along the true path. After this, I
approach the bookshelf, take out a book, open it, and see the
explanation of the issue before my eyes."
Working and Serving Hashem
R' Chaim was immersed in Torah study every moment of his
life. Even when he stood in his shop, when he earned his
livelihood, he continued to pursue his Torah studies and
thoughts. He did this not only between serving customers, but
also while calculating their bills.
Glancing through a packet of his father's chidushei Torah,
his son noticed that some of them had been jotted down on
the back of these bills. When his son asked why he didn't
write them down on a neat piece of paper, he replied that
sometimes, while beginning to add up a customer's debt, a
chidush would cross his mind, and he would jot it down
on the back of the bill so that he wouldn't forget it.
Thus we see that he not only transformed his home into a
beis medrash -- as testified to by its walls and its
content -- but also his place of business.
While standing in his shop, he continued to meditate in
Torah, and to keep all of his special hanhagos,
without forgoing even one. He maintained maximal shemiras
ho'einayim even in his shop. When he sold merchandise to
women, he didn't raise his eyes. A steady worker in his store
testified that during the scores of years in which she had
been employed by him, he had never looked at her, even though
he had to turn to her on business matters many times a
day.
R' Chaim devised may ways which enabled him to maintain his
shemiras einayim. In his store, he would wear very
thick framed glasses, which he would perch on the edge of his
nose. He explained the reason for this practice, saying:
"Sometimes women come in to buy merchandise. Despite my
efforts not to raise my eyes, there are times when I have no
choice. These glasses have a very thick frame, and lie on my
nose, in a manner in which the frame obstructs my view, so
that I can't see the person standing in front of me."
That wasn't all . . .
His grandson once stood beside him in the store, and noticed
that while measuring the cloth, R' Chaim was murmuring
something. The grandson drew closer and heard him whispering:
"Ono beko'ach gedulas yemincho . . ."
"Chanoch sewed shoes and with every stitch performed
yichudim which linked him to his Creator," say Chazal.
R' Chaim Erlanger was a cloth merchant, and with every piece
of cloth he measured, he would concentrate on the prayer,
Ono beko'ach (which contains allusions to one of the
sacred Names of Hashem.)
The prices which he displayed in the store's window were
calculated in manners which represented the gematrios
of the sacred Names of Hashem ( such as multiples of 26). He
explained this practice saying that the prices caused him to
recall Hashem's sacred Names, and in that manner he fulfilled
the verse, "Shivisi Hashem lenegdi tomid."
"We saw hashgocho protis in the store with every step
we took," he said. His wife added that she had seen Hashem's
hand in the concentration camp in Auschwitz, but had
experienced overt miracles in the store.
R' Chaim compiled the facts in a special kuntress, on
whose front cover he wrote, "Ki Le'olom Chasdo "(
which is Chaim Aryeh in gematria).
During the early years of his shop, there were sometimes days
in which no one visited it, and there was no parnossa.
At such times, he would take his sefer Tehillim, go
alone to the river, and pour out his heart to his Maker. When
he returned to the store, he would be told that while he was
away, many people had suddenly come into the store to buy
merchandise.
During his very first year in business, he didn't earn a
thing, and for a number of months was unable to pay his rent.
One day the landlord warned him that if the rent was not paid
by evening, he and all of his merchandise would be thrown out
of the shop. R' Chaim began to recite Tehillim very
tearfully for a number of hours. Toward evening, a person
whom R' Chaim didn't even know, came into the store and said
that he wanted to leave him a deposit for an unlimited amount
of time, on the condition that R' Chaim would use it for his
needs. The sum of the deposit was precisely equal to the
amount R' Chaim needed for his rent. The man, though, never
returned for the deposit.
On another occasion when he needed money, he prayed to
Hashem, reciting the kapitel in which the words,
"mei'ayin yovo ezri" appear. Suddenly a drunkard
arrived in the store and, swaying back and forth, marched
through the display of furniture, claiming that he wanted to
buy a sofa at a good price. R' Chaim asked for his address,
but the drunkard could not specify the name of his street nor
the number of his home. He told R' Chaim to follow him to his
"house" and to take the sofa with him. After a long trek by
foot, they reached a barn. R' Chaim put down the sofa, and
the drunkard took out a packet of cash, and paid for the sofa
in full.
Hashem has many ways. There were instances in which
merchandise stood in the store for a long time, without being
sold. But when R' Chaim would pour out his heart to Hashem in
prayer, the merchandise would be damaged by natural causes
(floods etc.), and the cost of the damaged merchandise, which
he had not been able to sell, would be paid by the insurance
company.
Immediately after the petirah of his wife, he had to
use a certain machine in the store. However his wife was the
only one who had known how to operate it. That day, he
received a telephone call from a former worker who had left
her place of employment ten years beforehand, and wanted to
return to work immediately.
The woman excitedly related that for three consecutive days
she had dreamt that R' Chaim's wife was grabbing her by the
hand and telling her: "Come with me immediately." On the
third day, the woman and her family were involved in a
serious car accident. By a miracle, they weren't hurt. The
car, though, was totally smashed. After this event, she felt
certain that the merit of the Erlanger family had saved her,
and she decided to return to work. The day she returned was
the day on which R' Chaim needed her help.
Such stories, and many more like them, fill the pages of the
kuntress in which R' Chaim recorded many amazing facts
about the hasghocho protis he saw in every step he
took in his shop.
On motzei Shabbos, the 15th of Kislev, 5748, he was
killed in a tragic accident, With his very body, he fulfilled
kabolas daled misos, a matter over which he had toiled
throughout his life and had spoken about many times.
When his sons entered his study, whose table was still
covered by a white Shabbos cloth, they found thirty books of
kabboloh on it, each with a note in it, which served
as a bookmark. The Zohar Hakodosh lay near his chair.
The bookmark had been placed in parshas Achrei Mos.
When the will he had written in 5725 was opened, his family
particularly noted these words:
"Try and impart as many divrei Torah or words of
mussar which I innovated or said during my life, and
try to relate how meticulous I was, in line with the verse,
"Ogura be'oholecho" (which is Chaim Aryeh in
gematria). However do not ascribe any title to me,
which might embarrass or disgrace me Above. Only say that I
longed to be a loyal servant to Hashem and to the Torah
hakedosha, and that in the very depths of my soul,
there exists a longing and a thirst to draw closer to Hashem
and to be a tzaddik, a chassid and an upright
person, beloved and genial, and by this to cause nachas
ruach to the Creator."
His Life
The gaon, the tzaddik, the mekubal, R' Chaim
Aryeh Erlanger was born in Lucerne Switzerland on shevi'i
shel Pesach, 5694. His father was R' Shimshon Refoel
Erlanger, and his grandfather R' Avrohom Erlanger, who raised
an illustrious family in the spiritual desert which prevailed
in Switzerland at that time, was a very respected figure in
his place of residence. The head of the government in the
Lucerne canton publicized an article in which he wrote that
when Mr. Avrohom Erlanger comes to the government offices
with a request, it is totally impossible to turn him away,
because of the esteem in which he is held.
R' Shimshon Refoel, R' Avrohom's son, continued in his
father's footsteps, and raised a large Torah family. R'
Refoel's wife was also known as an extraordinary person and a
yiras Elokim. R' Chaim Ozer told her husband during
the Knessia Hagedola: "If you are that woman's husband, then
one must rise in your presence. She is a secret. She is not
known."
R' Chaim grew up in this illustrious home. Throughout his
life, he said that he felt deeply attached to the root of his
mother's soul, and stressed that she had bequeathed parts of
her lofty soul to him, in order to enable him to perceive
deep matters. In his notebook, he specified that certain
chidushim and spiritual hasagos had been
revealed to him in a dream by his mother, o"h.
As a youth, he studied in the yeshiva in Montreux. Even then,
it was obvious that he was destined for greatness, due to his
remarkable diligence and lofty aspirations. In 5706, he
became a counselor for the survivors of the Holocaust,
strengthening and encouraging them and instilling them with
the will to live.
In 5707, he married Yehudis, the daughter of R' Avrohom
Yehoshua Ratek, Hy'd (av beis din of Nadi-Halas
of Hungary). Even as a youth, Yehudis was known for her
righteousness, which was especially evident in the
concentration camps where she observed all of the mitzvos
meticulously, under impossible conditions, and strengthened
her companions in emunah. She stood by her husband's
side her entire life, and helped him raise their children
bederech Hashem. As a result, she merited sons and
chassonim who are well known talmidei
chachomim. She passed away on the 25th of Sivan, 5734,
after having suffered greatly.
R' Chaim settled in Lugano, where he continued in his
avodas Hashem. Although he earned his livelihood from
selling cloth, he spent most of the day studying Toras
hanigleh and Toras hanistar with great diligence.
He wrote a commentary on the sacred sefer, Me'iras
Einayim, of Rabbenu Yitzchok Demin Acco, called Pesach
Einayim-Yefeh Einayim, as well as a commentary, Chaim
Lemotz'eihem on Shaar Horozin of Rabbenu Todros
Halevi Abulafia. R' Chaim's piety and tefilla were
renowned, and many turned to him, asking that he pray for
them and bless him.
The gedolei hador who knew him, held him in high
esteem, especially the Admor of Satmar, author of Vayo'el
Moshe, who knew R' Chaim when the latter was a child. The
Admor even gave him the outer coat the Admor wore when he
visited the sacred sites and the graves of tzaddikim.
R' Chaim would wear this coat only on special occasions: on
the Yomim Nora'im, at the Seder, and while writing the
kesuvos of his sons.
On motzei Shabbos, parshas Vayishlach, 15 Kislev 5748,
he emerged from the beis medrash after ma'ariv,
and headed home in order to recite havdolo. However he
was struck by a car, which hit him in a fatal and terrible
manner. Soon afterward he returned his pure soul to its
Maker.
He is buried on Har Hamenuchos. His levaya was
attended by a large throng. The gedolei haTorah who
delivered hespedim in his memory, bemoaned the great
loss.
He is survived by his second wife, and by his sons, R'
Avrohom Yehoshua, R' Yisroel Meir, R' Sender Yitzchok, and a
daughter, who is married to R' Moshe Uri Shlesinger of
London.
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