Jewish children in Kelm
After Perfecting Oneself—The Avodah
Once a person's kochos hanefesh are fully developed and fortified, one can attack the real challenge of improving those areas bein Adam laMokom, bein Adam lechavero and between man and himself.
In Kelm, they regarded improving those attributes relating to man and his fellow man as the key to improving things between man and his Maker. The root of all evil traits and inclinations was a person's self-love, which was diametrically opposed to love of his Creator. That self-love created a barrier between him and Hashem; it distanced him from all spiritual aspirations.
On the other hand, love for one's fellow man led to love for Hashem and was the only way to approach Him. Love for one's fellow man was a basis for all the worthy attributes and advantages that existed, both between man and his fellow man and man and Hashem. It was the antithesis of sinas chinom, which was equated to the three cardinal sins of murder and idolatry, if not worse.
The world was created for man to interact with one another, to need one another. A person must do for others in order to sustain his own soul. A farmer grows wheat for people and earns a livelihood in the process; a factory worker produces goods for the farmer—for his own living, and so on. Everyone does something towards the public good and therefore benefits himself, too. This symbiosis teaches us that man's purpose in life is to do for others, both in the material and the spiritual sense.
In order to train the students in ahavas habriyos, the Beis HaTalmud initiated special resolutions in deed and in thought: to concentrate upon the commandment of loving one's neighbor during prayer, to study Tomer Devorah each day and so on.
They were obligated to meditate upon the commandment of "ve'ahavta lerei'acha komocha" at least once a week and to always look for the good in the next person. On Shabbos, everyone should be particularly careful about loving their neighbors.
For the period before and during Rosh Hashanah, they were expected to "greet everyone with smile" in order to counterbalance the austerity and severity of expression that usually accompanies these Days of Judgment.
This unique atmosphere reigned in the Kelmer Beis HaTalmud throughout the year. "When I first entered the hallway," says R' Moshe Rosenstein, who was to become the Mussar administrator of the Lomza yeshiva, "a young man came towards me, stretched out his hand with a beaming smile and asked me how I was, if I had arranged a place to eat and sleep and so on. I was certain from his warm, familiar greeting, that this young man was an old friend of mine who must have grown or changed so that I couldn't recognize him. But when another young man came a moment later to greet me in the same fashion, and then another and another, I realized that this friendly attitude was the hallmark of this place."
R' Simcha Zissel mobilized all of his prodigious kochos hanefesh and his marvelous insight into the soul of man to bring light and joy to people. He would chat with his innkeepers about their health and about the running of their establishment, about their cows and chickens and so on, to make them feel as if he really cared, while his brilliant brain was busy thinking about profound topics in Torah. He used to accompany part-way every Jewish-owned wagon he met along the way.
And despite his extensive physical suffering, he never sighed in the presence of another person so as not to cause them anguish. On Thursday evenings, he would stand by the doorway, watching the members of his household prepare for Shabbos, thereby showing his appreciation of all the work that went into this.
Once, during the heat of a halachic discussion, the rabbi of Kelm came to visit. R' Simcha Zissel immediately interrupted himself and would not utter another word, trying to create the impression that he was not a ben Torah at all, so as not to put the rabbi into the shade, so to speak, and insult his scholarship.
A few days before his death, he ordered his family to wash all of his clothing so that they could be distributed, fresh and clean, to the poor after he passed on.
Humility
Kelmer Mussar has a death battle against arrogance and pride, since this is the root of "My power and the strength of my hand" and borders on heresy. "Anyone who is not humble and submissive is proud at the expense of the greatness of Hashem, as it were."
He always warned against this despicable trait, which was ever so removed from him. Despite his greatness and wealth of talent, he considered himself puny and worthless, full of faults and shortcomings, which troubled him no end. He used to bemoan the fact that his deeds were not on par with his knowledge and that he was, therefore, guilty of hypocrisy.
When harsh things were once published against him, he wrote to a friend, "Praised be that this newspaper article revealed at least one thousandth of my shame in public, for I know I am bad and have an evil heart."
When asked once to pray for the recovery of a sick person, and a sum of money was enclosed in the letter, he wrote back, "How did it dawn upon you that I would hold myself as a man of effective prayer and, no less, one who accept money for praying, G-d forbid? I am not a man of prayer..."
He shied away from all titles and honor and would beg, "Please do not use any terms of greatness beyond my own puny worth... I must admit my paucity in Torah, G-d-fear and in deed..."
Even in his Beis HaTalmud, he would not allow his disciples to refer to him with honorary titles, and when called up to the Torah, he forbade the use of the word `rav' and would go up without their calling him by name.
He would sometimes go off to neighboring villages where he was not known, wearing unusual clothing or dressed as a wandering beggar, a handicapped or deformed person, in order to suppress any feelings of pride and haughtiness that might have accumulated in the yeshiva.
He also would speak out against the greed for money, which, in his opinion, was a universal fault and the underlying cause of deception and theft. "We are all in danger of succumbing to love of money."
He warned—but was forewarned, himself, as well. His extreme caution with other people's money was precise and thought out to an extreme degree. He would study the laws pertaining to this and carefully review each situation to see if he was taking a penny that did not belong to him.
Upon returning from a fundraising trip one time, he gave the treasurer a detailed expense account plus half a cigarette. "I smoked the first half while on duty for the institution," he explained, "but I hadn't finished it, and didn't feel it was right to smoke the other half at its expense."
Kelm also put special emphasis on acts between man and his Creator, like prayer and emunah, between man and himself, like the study of Mussar and honesty to oneself without succumbing to considerations of personal interests.
Emunah
Emunah played a central part in Kelmer philosophy, both in the talks given and in the practical exercises required in acquiring it. It was the basis of all the other commandments, many of which, he would say, are divine exercises to strengthen man's emunah.
Lack of emunah can partially be attributed to a person's becoming too familiar, from his childhood, to the wonders of the world, both natural and miraculous. A child's limited and distorted version accompanies him into adulthood and robs him of the power to view things with fascination and marvel, which could lead him to such a powerful measure of faith.
In order to recapture that essential wonder, a person is advised to study natural phenomena [snow, lightning, the sea etc.] as if seeing them for the first time in his life. Then his eyes will open to see every tiny marvel in the world and the magnificence and beauty of its intricacy will be revealed in greater and finer detail, the more he seeks to discover it. Extrospection will lead him to a much greater awe of the Creator.
If a person studies the miracles that are described in the Torah with freshness, as if for the first time, they will be revealed to him with much greater impact, depth and breadth. A new world of wisdom, faith and outlook on life will unfold before him, writes R' Simcha Zissel.
He created entire new systems of thinking in the area of emunah, in which he excelled to such a degree that it became a central aspect of his personality, the axis upon which all of his activities and habits revolved.
In the circles of the baalei Mussar, they used to say, "If you seek to learn yir'a, go to R' Itzele Blazer. If you seek to learn emunah, go to R' Simcha Zissel."
Men of stature would flock to him during the Yomim Noraim in order to seep in the atmosphere which permeated his Beis HaTalmud.
It was his deep emunah which prevented R' Simcha Zissel from consulting doctors and seeking, instead, the services of a mere paramedic. Most people are boors with regard to medicine, he would say, and they, therefore, regard a doctor as if he were omniscient, which leads them to a lack of faith. No one has such implicit faith in a mere paramedic [felshers were common in those times].
He looked for and saw the hand of Providence in everything that happened. He searched for the particular "measure for measure" divine conduct in his personal life.
"If a person receives a blow anywhere on his body," he used to say, "he should not search for the reason below [through physical cause and effect], but should direct his search above."
He lectured to his students in Grubin on prayer for two consecutive years, which shows how centrally important it was to him. He would innovate many interpretations in the words of the prayers and would often expound upon explanations which had occurred to him in the midst of his own prayers.
He prayed with devout concentration, deliberately and at great length. His Shemoneh esrei alone took over an hour. Even in his last years, when he was already sick and feeble, he would not forego a lengthy prayer. Upon conclusion, he often as not would collapse upon a chair or bed from total exhaustion.
His prayer was a true "avoda shebalev," a labor, which was a slow but steady stream, uttered with surety and composure while suffused with deep feeling, fervor and suppressed passion.
R' Simcha Zissel instituted special exercises for the attainment of perfection in prayer. Anyone present in the Beis HaTalmud during services would never forget the moving experience.
He felt it very important for a person to maintain and refresh his sense of wonder. By being intellectually alert to everything around oneself, one could arouse the senses and emotions to feel deeply about things that one was accustomed to. He considered this one of the most important aspects of the study of Mussar. For years on end he would review the third chapter of Sha'arei Teshuva. A student of his once marked how he actually sang and danced for half an hour to the words, "I rejoice over Your teachings like one who finds much booty..."
"He used to say..."
R' Simcha Zissel can be quoted for books full of insights into human nature that encompassed every facet and minute of a person's life. When he "went public," that is, when he undertook to produce his own students, the world saw that he embodied everything that he preached and demanded from them, to a much greater degree. This is why he earned everyone's admiration and respect. Everyone knew that there was no distinction between R' Simcha Zissel and his teachings; they were inseparable. He incorporated and exemplified everything that was good, admirable and noble.
"There will be much to tell the coming generations," his oldest son, R' Nachum Zeev, used to say, "about what we had the great privilege to see, with our own eyes, of the level of `Adam.'"
(Based on Tnuas HaMussar by R' Dov Katz)