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Back to Basics
by Bayla Gimmel

In America, the period that followed World War II was a time of great economic growth. Salaried workers took home more pay than they had ever dreamed of earning. They spent their newly acquired riches on houses, cars and various consumer goods -- things which had previously been available only to the upper classes.

By the early 1960's, intelligent well-educated young Americans began to feel dissatisfied with the materialism that surrounded them, and with the lifestyle which was given the name "conspicuous consumption."

These idealists -- many of them Jewish -- joined communes in places like the Rocky Mountains, where they grew their own organic vegetables, wove fabrics and sewed their own clothing, baked their own bread and in general, returned to nature and the basics that had been the norm a century or more before.

Materialism and rampant consumerism took a while to get from the shores of the Western Hemisphere to Eretz Yisroel, but by the late 1980's, Israelis not only had caught on but were busy playing catch- up. Here we are, a decade and a half later, at the same point that America had reached in the sixties!

This summer, I overheard a financially successful young secular Israeli woman telling her friend that their neighbors were taking the children and going off to spend the summer in rural India. "It's so quiet and peaceful there," she said, "you can just sit there in the country and enjoy the air."

Shades of the Rocky Mountain commune generation!

For us in the Torah observant world, we have a beautiful opportunity once a year to get in touch with the simplicity that most thinking people really crave. [As for the quiet -- we have that every Shabbos: no phones!] We can sit in our wooden booths with nothing but a few branches or some bamboo poles between us and the stars, and fulfill what we are commanded to do at this wonderful time of year: to rejoice!

I don't know about your succa, but mine does not have a breakfront, a leather sofa, a chandelier, a ceramic tile floor or any of the other `must-haves' that the furniture ads keep telling us to go out and buy for our homes (of course, my apartment doesn't have them either, but that's another story). What my succa does contain is the happiness that somehow eludes the people who do run out all year and buy more and more fancy `things' -- read: creature comforts.

For all the money in the world, you can't buy the pride my young grandsons feel when they help put the succa together, or the smile on my granddaughter's face when she hangs up the decorations she made in gan.

By comparison, give a child one of today's super fancy toys and watch what they will do with it. Yes, it is fun to take off the wrapping paper and rip open the package, but that is where the involvement of the child ends. The toy `works' by dint of the batteries that you insert and the little on/off button somewhere on the side [of whose operation they are more expert than we are]. The child puts the thing down, turns it on -- more sophisticated toys are equipped with remote control -- watches it for a very brief time, becomes bored and runs off. [Another scenario is that he will run it down to the end of the batteries and no one will bother to replace them for he has already lost interest.]

The people who design these things must think that children expect to be amused non-stop, with very little effort on their part. Even the storybooks for young children have pages that pop up, holes and windows to highlight pictures printed on later pages, and places one presses to activate a squeaker or even tiny recorded noise. It can tire out the average parent just trying to figure out what the `reader' is supposed to do next to entertain the `listener.'

The basics that filled the toy boxes of yesteryear -- wooden building blocks, cars, rag dolls, board games [did one ever finish a Monopoly game?] -- taught children creativity, problem solving and logic, and playing with these toys increased, rather than diminished, one's attention span.

Children enjoyed every moment of their creative playtime. It was genuine simcha. They put together roads, bridges, towns full of buildings and everything else that they imagined the blocks to be. A doll that just sat there and didn't talk, cry, wet or come with a miniature beauty parlor was the `baby' and the favorite game was `playing house.' Time flew by and two hours later, when they had to put the toys away and get ready for bed, the children did so reluctantly.

When we put together our succas and dwell in them for a full week, we are children again. We get back to the basics. We relish the creativity of the construction and the simplicity of the structure.

However, we have not retained the innocence of childhood.

We are adults, and realists, and we know full well that what we have constructed with our framed panels and simple hardware is barely more substantial or permanent than the wooden block houses we played with in childhood.

All year, we may realize intellectually that we are dependent on the One Above, Who is our only protection, but emotionally, we still somehow delude ourselves into thinking that the metal door with its multi-cylinder lock, the iron bars over the windows and the alarm system are what stand between us and the world outside.

The fact that for one week we sit, eat and even sleep in the succa shows our willingness to put our complete trust in Hashem. But we don't only dwell in it: we rejoice in the succa. We pray our joy, sing it and live it.

True joy cannot be bought. It isn't found in a fifty foot yacht, a luxury motorcar, a vacation at a five-star hotel or a chest of jewelry.

Joy comes from knowing that what you are doing is right. And our Divine Guidebook tells us to live in booths for a week's duration. What could be more basic or simple than that?

 

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