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IN-DEPTH FEATURES
Sheloshim - 14 Adar
When Chava Pincus passed away suddenly on January 26 (13
Shvat) this year, the life of a spirited, unflagging servant
of Hashem, whose career spanned four continents and the
vicissitudes of the religious community of the past century,
came to a glorious close. She left behind her a large,
distinguished family of bnei Torah and Jewish
educators, and thousands of teachers she had trained who
revolutionized the Jewish world and made it into the vibrant
religious community we know today.
Early Years in the Galil
Chava Leah Pincus was born in December around 1914, to HaRav
Yitzchok Mattisyohu Weinberg in Tiveria. R' Mattis was the
son of Rav Noach Weinberg, the grandson of the Slonimer
Rebbe, who had been sent to establish a chassidic enclave in
the Holy Land in the mid 1800s with other Slonimer
chassidim.
Chava's maternal grandfather, HaRav Avner Lorberbaum, was a
great talmid chochom in Tzfas descended from the
author of the Chavos Daas and the Nesivos Mishpot, whose
family had already been in the Holy Land for many
generations. Chava's earliest days were thus infused with the
flavor and purity of her chassidic, Eretz Hakodesh
roots.
This story has been told in greater detail in Yated
Ne'eman of parshas Re'ei, 5759 (1999) in Part One
of the feature articles about Rebbetzin Pincus's brother,
HaRav Shmuel Yaakov Weinberg, zt"l, of Baltimore.
During World War I, HaRav Yitzchok Mattisyohu Weinberg had to
flee to America, at the advice of the Slonimer Rebbe. He
eventually opened a store of notions in Bleecker Street. His
wife and two children resided in the grandparents' home in
Tzfas for the duration of the war. Many years later, aware of
the deprivation and want which Palestine residents suffered
at the time, Rebbetzin Pincus nonetheless said that she only
had positive memories of the period.
America
In 1921, with the cannons of World War I behind them, R'
Mattis's family traveled to the U.S. to join him. The
reunited family set about building Yiddishkeit in America,
both on a personal level and in the community. R' Mattis was
a kodosh and a tohor whose entire day was
centered on his Torah study and avodas Hashem. Members
of the unassuming but high- spirited Weinberg family were to
become innovators in Jewish education who made immense
contributions to the Jewish world.
In later years, R' Mattis's wife Hinda founded the first Bais
Yaakov-style school on the Lower East Side: the Esther
Schoenfeld School. His son HaRav Yaakov Weinberg, became rosh
yeshiva of Ner Israel Yeshiva in Baltimore. His youngest son
HaRav Noach Weinberg is founder and rosh yeshiva of Aish
Hatorah Yeshiva in Yerushalayim and allied institutions
around the world.
Chava's life too was a series of innovations and "firsts" in
drawing the Jewish people back to their roots. R' Mattis sent
his sons to the best Jewish schools he could find and learned
with all his children as much as possible. Chava also wanted
more Jewish learning and if it had been up to her, she would
have gone with them to learn in a yeshiva.
Her father wouldn't let her attend the local schools for
girls because they were Zionist-oriented and run by people
lacking yiras Shomayim. But he encouraged her to study
on her own. Rebbetzin Pincus remembered that her father used
to pay her a dollar for each perek of Pirkei Ovos
that she learned -- and that was in the days that a
dollar was a dollar.
Chava's great desire to learn remained for her entire life.
She always told her daughters and students to keep learning.
She would tell them that wealth and joy lie in learning. "You
have fulfilled your role as wife and mother by encouraging
your husband and sons in learning," she said. "But to
personally enrich your own lives, you to must develop and
retain your interest in learning."
The Cracow Seminary
One day R' Mattis read in the Polish Agudas Yisroel journal
about a woman called Sara Schenirer who had opened a seminary
in Poland to teach high-level Jewish studies to Jewish women,
with the backing of most of the leading Torah sages. Right
then R' Mattis wanted to send his oldest daughter to study
there, but his practical-minded wife refused since Chava was
too young.
When Chava graduated high school, R' Mattis again proposed
that she go study in the Cracow Seminary. Chava was willing.
Her father promised to buy her a return ticket which she
could use whenever she wanted, and all the arrangements were
quickly made.
As it turned out, she was the only American student ever to
study under Sara Schenirer. Her father sent a letter to Frau
Schenirer that in retrospect seems prophetic. "Elisha Hanovi
asked for a double portion of the prophecy which Eliyahu
Hanovi had. Why did he need more than his teacher Eliyahu?
Because his generation's level was much lower than Eliyahu
Hanovi's generation, Elisha Hanovi understood that he needed
more than his teacher to properly lead his generation.
"Frau Schenirer," R' Mattis concluded, "Poland is under your
influence. My daughter has to come back to the United States
to lead the generation here. So give her double of your
yiras Shomayim, tzniyus, and knowledge, so she can
lead the generation in America."
Chava received a warm send-off from her friends in Bnos and
Zeirei Agudas Yisroel, and in Tammuz embarked on a ship for
Europe. The six-day trip passed quickly, and she traveled by
train from Bremen to Cracow. She received her first jolt
concerning European antisemitism already on the train to
Poland: a train conductor began beating a chassidic Jew who
he assumed had made a mess in the third-class cabin. She
fearlessly stood up and told the conductor in English, "Get
your hands off that man! I was here all this time and the man
did not make the mess!"
She was alone in a new country and didn't even know the
language, but that didn't stop her from standing up to
protect the innocent.
Chava's dismay was great when she arrived in Cracow on
Thursday and there was no one to meet her. Taking the
initiative, she hired a porter to take her belongings and
found a Jew in the street who could direct her to the
seminary.
Another disappointment awaited her there. The students had
gone on a trip and the school was empty, besides the kitchen
help and a few girls who weren't able to go. She anxiously
clutched her return ticket, and made plans to return. But
then the seminary students returned on Friday, and Chava
found herself a small sensation. The girl who had traveled
halfway around the world from America aroused wonder and
admiration from the other girls. Soon she was busy with
Shabbos preparations like the other girls and finally,
Shabbos arrived.
Electrified by Sara Schenirer
It was a Shabbos like none other she had experienced. She
joined all the girls in the school's large hall and met Sara
Schenirer, the famous principal of the school. Chava
immediately felt that she was in the presence of a great
woman. Frau Schenirer's face shone with a fiery light and her
eyes were mild and loving. Chava was not even offended when
the great principal fixed her neckline which was considered
kosher in America, but didn't hold up to Sara Schenirer's
halachic standards. Years later, when describing the incident
to her daughter, she added, "I felt she pinned a medal on
me."
Her children always interpreted this incident as indicative
of their mother's gadlus as much as testimony to Sarah
Schenirer's shleimus.
Chava found Shabbos inspiring. The students davened
all three prayers and ate together. By the time Shabbos
was over, Chava was sold on her new school.
She had to go through a set of adaptation difficulties. The
classes were in German and Galician Yiddish, which was very
different from the Lithuanian Yiddish that she knew. With
time she mastered the German and picked up the Polish
Yiddish.
The students spent the summer in the Carpathian mountains.
Here she met Dr. Shmuel (Leo) Deutschlander, who headed the
Bais Yaakov movement from Vienna. She was impressed with this
G-d-fearing, educated Jew, who combined Western culture with
a burning love for Torah and Klal Yisroel. He spent
most of the year getting support and funds for Keren Hatorah
which supported talmudei Torah, chadorim and Bais
Yaakov schools.
Chava had arrived at the beginning of the summer. During Elul
and Tishrei, she traveled with Fraulein Esther Hamburger, one
of the school's instructors, throughout Jewish communities in
Poland. They went to Lublin, where they saw Yeshivas Chachmei
Lublin and met HaRav Meir Shapira. Then they went to Warsaw
and Gur.
They spent Rosh Hashonoh in Gur, where they saw thousands of
chassidim converging on the Rebbe's court. She received a
personal invitation from the Rebbetzin to hear the Rebbe's
kiddush.
In Warsaw, she davened on Yom Kippur in the beis
midrash of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, HaRav Yosef Yitzchok
Schneerson.
After Yom Kippur, she visited the famous Mirrer Yeshiva where
she was received by the rosh yeshiva, HaRav Eliezer Yudel
Finkel, and the mashgiach, HaRav Yeruchom Levovitz.
This journey through Jewish Poland finally ended in
Baranowitz, where she spent Succos with the Slonimer Rebbe's
family who were her relatives. Baranowitz gave her the
opportunity to become better acquainted with Vichna, Sara
Schenirer's star disciple who then lived with her uncle,
HaRav Yisroel Yaakov Lubchansky, the mashgiach of the
Baranowitz yeshiva. She also met the rosh yeshiva of the
Baranowitz yeshiva HaRav Elchonon Wasserman, who later spent
two years in the U.S. collecting for his yeshiva and guiding
her friends in Zeirei Agudas Yisroel.
Vichna later married an American who had come to study in the
Mirrer yeshiva, HaRav Boruch Kaplan, and when they went back
she transported the Bais Yaakov movement to American soil.
Chava Weinberg was to become her faithful partner in building
Torah education in New York City.
Another brave and unusual step Chava took while in Cracow was
to travel to Palestine to join her mother and brothers who
were visiting her family there, for the month of Nisan. She
went with the Frankfurt Agudas Yisroel delegation which was
traveling in 1933 to Israel through Switzerland and Italy,
and embarked at Messina for the trip by boat to Eretz
Yisroel.
Though she originally had planned to stay only a year, Chava
remained in the Cracow Seminary for close to two years. Sara
Schenirer was unusually welcoming to her and she became one
of her close students. In addition to her studies in the
seminary, Chava was also involved in Sara Schenirer's charity
projects and helped collect funds for them.
Chava was with Frau Schenirer during her last days.
Throughout 1934, the great teacher suffered from a
debilitating disease. Although she never said a word of
complaint, her heartbroken students saw her wasting away. The
day before her passing, Chava broke down next to her bedside
in tears, but her mentor just caressed and comforted her and
told her not to cry. The next day, after lighting Shabbos
candles, Frau Sara Schenirer returned her pure soul to her
Maker.
Teaching Opportunities
Soon after Chava returned to New York, imbued with a desire
to bring Bais Yaakov to American shores. Her youngest brother
Noach was so excited by her vision and single-mindedness that
he told her that if he had a million dollars, he would build
a building for her school.
Chava got to work convincing families of kindergarten
children of the importance of a Bais Yaakov. Although she
mustered a class of 12 children, the initiative didn't
continue until the following year.
Her first teaching position was as a teacher in the West Side
Institutional Synagogue Talmud Torah. She wrote many years
later about that experience: "I was there only a short time
and my advice to the rabbi was that if he wanted his boys to
grow into knowledgeable and religious Jews, he should get
them to go to a yeshiva. He knew as well as I that the future
of Jewish education is only through yeshivos, but his
congregants were already preoccupied with thoughts of their
children's future careers. They considered the Talmud Torah's
instruction in Yiddishkeit sufficient."
Chava searched for a school where she could put into practice
more of her idealism for a Bais Yaakov school. An elementary
school called Bais Sara had opened in Williamsburg and it
hired her to teach Jewish studies in the afternoon.
She later assumed the position of head teacher/principal of
the new Shulamis school in Boro Park. The latter had a more
modern slant, but the principal reassured her that there was
room there to implement a "Bais Yaakov" agenda. Privately,
the young Chava organized a group of 15-16 year old girls to
teach them hashkofoh. It was incredibly bold for the
young seminary graduate to try to inculcate these
Americanized but well-meaning Jewish girls with genuine,
timeless Jewish values, but the young Chava was up to the
challenge.
She wrote about these classes many years later: "I had a
difficult time getting them to see that a godol
beTorah can be a world Jewish leader, able to lead,
advise, and represent us before governments with credit and
honor. They could not understand why, for example, Stephen S.
Wise and others like him were not acceptable to us. They
argued that they have the language, polish and knowledge of
diplomacy and other assets needed for leadership in our
times. They could not see how a godol in learning
could handle and resolve the many modern problems.
"We attempted to point out to them that `Hashem looked into
the Torah and created the world,' and consequently, there
cannot be a question or problem that may arise, whether
political, social, or economical, whose answer and solution
cannot be found in the Torah."
These girls became the nucleus of the first class of the new
Bais Yaakov school which met in Rebbetzin Vichna Kaplan's
house. Chava was also the first teacher that Rebbetzin Kaplan
hired to teach in her new school.
Marriage
Rabbi Avrohom Pincus was among the few American boys who had
gone to Europe to study in the Mirrer Yeshiva in the 30s.
Shortly before World War II he returned to the U.S. and took
a position as rabbi of the Five Corners Congregation in
Jersey City. Chava was introduced to him by mutual friends
and they wed on Rosh Chodesh Tammuz, 1940.
The couple was imbued with dreams of bringing authentic
Judaism to America. They were part of the select group of
idealistic young Jews affiliated with Zeirei Agudas Yisroel
that was composed of individuals such as HaRav Pam, Mike
Tress, Rav Anshel Fink and Rabbi Moshe Sherer. Although these
individuals are famous today, at the time they were just
inspired youths and friends who dreamed of accomplishing
their ideals. HaRav Yitzchok Hutner was the rav who guided
them. The young rabbi and rebbetzin were busy leading their
congregation and building their home.
Rabbi Pincus accepted a new position as rabbi in Englewood,
New Jersey. Their life took a turn one December day in 1945,
when their 4-year old daughter returned home and cried that a
non-Jewish friend said she wasn't American because she
doesn't have a holly branch on the door. The final blow came
when their daughter returned on Shabbos from a friend's house
-- a prominent Jewish family known to be religious -- and
said she had been offered a fried egg.
Despite their congregants' energetic protests, the Pincuses
packed up and left for Williamsburg where their children
would have a better religious education and friends. HaRav
Pincus became rabbi of the South 5th Street shul in
Williamsburg at less than half of his former salary. Instead
of a lavish suburban home, the family lived in a typical
Williamsburg dwelling.
A Key Position in the Bais Yaakov
Seminary
Rebbetzin Pincus was snapped up by her close friend and
Seminary colleague Reb. Vichna Kaplan to teach in the
Williamsburg Bais Yaakov. She was one of a handful of
teachers -- that included the Rebbetzins Vichna, Basya
Bender, Chava Wachtfogel, Rivka Springer, Chana Rottenberg,
Rochel Cizner, Shifra Yudasin, Batsheva Hutner and Leah
Goldstein -- who built up the Bais Yaakov movement in
America.
She taught thousands of students, many of whom went on to
become teachers themselves. Her students were eagerly sought
by the new Bais Yaakovs opening up all over New York.
Even as a young girl, Rebbetzin Pincus's spunk, spirit, charm
and articulate speech commanded everyone's attention when she
joined a group. As a teacher, her students were in awe of her
because of her vivacity, bright delivery of ideas, and her
wonderful personality. Each student felt that Rebbetzin
Pincus was focusing particularly on her.
She taught Novi and Hebrew. Her lectures on
Mishlei, the sefer which she particularly
loved, were famous.
After several years, Rebbetzin Kaplan felt that the school
needed a more intensive and organized course in methodology.
She asked Rebbetzin Pincus to create the curriculum and to
supervise the teaching of methods. Rebbetzin Pincus was busy
enough with her regular teaching, her husband's rabbinical
position, his new position as principal of Torah Vodaas, and
raising their family of nine children. She at first tried to
turn down the request -- but there was no refusing Reb.
Kaplan. She became heavily involved in supervising student
teaching in various schools and observing model lessons.
On the first day of a methodology class, Rebbetzin Pincus
challenged her students: "What's the most important part of
your first lesson?"
The students were quick to suggest different aspects of
educational theory, but she replied, "Wear bright clothes and
lipstick, and come in with a big smile."
Home and Community
Rebbetzin Pincus knew how to successfully integrate the
intellect with the emotional. When her children were babies,
she sang to them. She had special songs for different things.
She would sit and tell the children stories. She taught the
children numerous things, fostering in them the wonder of
learning. She played piano and her Succah was full of her
artistic decorations. At the same time, she read voluminous
amounts. She saw everything as an opportunity for
learning.
People remember walking into the house and virtually always
seeing a sefer in her hands. She studied Mishlei
and Tehillim, the latter of which she knew by
heart. She knew many chapters of nevi'im by heart and
studied the parsha every week. She treasured her
solitude, and utilized it to gain more knowledge and enrich
herself.
One of her favorite seforim was the Chochmas Hamatzpun
commentary on Chumash which is an anthology of
deep comments by mussar leaders from Rav Yisroel
Salanter and on. She often read it on Shabbos. She once told
her oldest granddaughter, "One of the most precious times in
my life was when the children were small. After I put them to
sleep, I went through the whole Nevi'im Rishonim."
Learning was her excitement, passion, pastime, and way to
relax all rolled into one.
Despite her heavy schedule, she still found time to help
others. The Pincuses adopted 10-12 families over the years,
treating them as if they were family. They were always
available to help solve their problems, provide funds, even
to give marriage counselling.
One of Rebbetzin Pincus's classmates from the Cracow Seminary
who had survived the Holocaust, arrived penniless in the U.S.
When Rebbetzin Pincus discovered her, she treated her like
family. The financial support she gave her "families" was
substantial. When one of them became a kallah, Rebbetzin
Pincus had her own children go through their clothes closets
to search for quality clothes for her.
Struggling With Pain and Illness
Health problems beset Rebbetzin Pincus throughout her life.
Shortly after marriage, she began to suffer from arthritis in
her extremities, which became crippling after the age of 35.
Although the condition left her in constant pain, she rarely
talked about it nor did she project the "mentality" of an
invalid.
She would talk so calmly to her doctors about how to tackle
the disease that they couldn't believe the vibrant woman
before them was in such pain.
In her later years, when she was confined to a wheelchair,
she would apologize lightly -- "Just today my foot is acting
up" -- for not standing up and accompanying her guests to the
door.
She rejoiced with the physical capabilities she possessed,
and carefully guarded her health. Rebbetzin Pincus sought
natural ways of healing her condition well before alternative
medicine became popular. She kept a strict vegetarian diet
that required tremendous willpower. She kept up a strict diet
regimen for decades, to the end of her life.
Although she was strict with herself, she had treats ready
for her grandchildren who came to visit, and would tell them,
laughing, "I'm enjoying it vicariously."
Educational Innovators
The Pincuses were also among the first families in New York
to forego English studies for their sons so they could spend
more time on their Jewish studies. They put their sons in a
special intensive Talmudic Studies class run by HaRav Yosef
Liss so they would develop into first-rate Torah scholars.
Once when they were taken to court for their sons' truancy,
the Pincuses told the judge, "Do these boys look like
juvenile delinquents?" The judge acquitted them.
They also sent their sons to study in the Bais HaTalmud
yeshiva where a small group of select students studied in a
challenging European-style yeshiva atmosphere, led by Rav
Pincus's friend from the European Mirrer yeshiva, HaRav Leib
Malin. Their sons then went to study in the Brisk yeshiva in
Jerusalem in the 1960s, long before study in Israeli yeshivos
became so popular for Americans.
Move to Israel
In 1971, when six of the Pincus's children were married and
living in Israel, they decided to move to Bnei Brak. Their
stunning decision caused an uproar in their circle of
friends, but as usual, the Pincuses went about doing things
their own way, which often ended up setting a trend for
others.
Shortly after arriving in Israel, Rebbetzin Pincus was
offered a position with Chinuch Atzmai, supervising teachers.
She supervised three schools in Bnei Brak, three in Tiveria
and three in Haifa.
With much excitement she traveled to her beloved Tiveria for
the first time in almost 40 years, and found that it had
changed tremendously. Although the Chinuch Atzmai school in
Tiveria had hundreds of students, it was not easy to convince
parents to send their children there because of the secular
brainwashing. Rebbetzin Pincus supervised the school's
curriculum, dealt with problematic kids, taught the teachers
how to correct the children's wrong hashkofos, and
weighed the pros and cons of new teaching methods being
considered.
In one class, she heard a kid snickering that she has "metal
teeth." Rather than take offense, she decided to utilize the
opportunity to give the class a lesson in proper nutrition.
"Do you know why I have metal teeth? Because when I was a
young child, I didn't know that too much sugar and junk food
is no good for you." She then taught the class the importance
of a healthy diet.
The Pincuses moved to Jerusalem in 1976, when HaRav Pincus
became principal of Kamenetz Yeshiva. From that point on,
Rebbetzin Pincus stopped working for Chinuch Atzmai, although
she continued to give shiurim in her home and taught
small groups.
Heading the Kollel in Santiago, Chile
Most people of their age and health would have been satisfied
with a graceful retirement. But even though they were in
their 70s, the Pincuses were still young in spirit. So when
their son R' Shimshon asked them if they would go to
Santiago, Chile to become rosh kollel, they decided to
accept.
When Reb Shimshon spoke to the five kollel members
about his parents joining them in Chile, he assured them:
"I'm giving you my mother and she'll be a mother to you."
Those few words pithily summed up the Pincuses' four-and-a-
half year stay in Santiago. HaRav Pincus was the rosh
kollel and Rebbetzin Pincus engaged in kiruv
work.
Above all, they were father and mother to everyone. At the
time, the only Jewish spiritual leaders in Santiago were
three Reform rabbis who were doing their worst. Temples with
choirs and organs, "dialogue" with Christian priests, and non-
halachic conversions and divorces were the norm.
When the Pincuses arrived in Chile in December, 1983, the
kollel had five avreichim learning two full
sedorim in the day. Night seder was devoted to
studying with local Jews.
There were no cheering crowds to greet the Pincuses when they
arrived. People told them frankly, "You're 30- 40 years too
late! You can go back to where you came from!" Intermarriage
was a tragic 80 percent.
But Rebbetzin Pincus had already seen spiritual revolutions
happen before her eyes, with her taking no small part in
them. Undaunted, she wrote letters, made calls and personally
contacted people to come to classes and events. She started
studying Spanish and within a few months, she was able to
communicate in that language and, she even gave a few
shiurim in it.
When Adar approached, Rebbetzin Pincus decided to celebrate
Sara Schenirer's yahrtzeit with a grand event for
women, hoping to use it as a springboard to attract them to
classes. The other kollel women baked goodies and set
beautiful tables.
Only five people showed up. Among them were two young girls
whom the other kollel wives were already trying to be
mekarev, their mother, and two new faces: the Israeli
consul's wife and Janine Levi.
Rebbetzin Pincus was not disheartened. "This is a good
beginning," she said.
Janine became a close student, eventually helped her publish
the El Kollel quarterly bulletins with interesting
stories, information and important holiday halachos
for the Jewish community. Janine eventually married and
settled in New York.
To reach the widest number of Jewish women, Rebbetzin Pincus
attended a local meeting of WIZO women, the largest Jewish
women's organization in Chile. She told the women about the
kollel and the classes being offered. Some women
approached her after the meeting and asked if they could
attend.
She formed a group and they began to study Pirkei Ovos.
She began to explain the uniqueness of Judaism and Jewry,
starting from the basics. The Pincuses made some inroads in
teaching individuals of the importance of halacha,
especially in those subjects which frequently beset
assimilated communities.
In her lectures, Rebbetzin Pincus spoke about the problem of
nonhalachic conversions. Many women now became aware that the
phony conversions performed by the Reform rabbis had
accomplished nothing. A doctor whose wife had "converted" and
bore him two daughters, approached the Pincuses in misery and
asked what he could do about their Jewishness. The family
eventually moved to Israel where the wife and daughters
converted properly.
They also emphasized the importance of kosher gittin
and kiddushin. The day finally came when a couple
getting divorced insisted on having the kollel arrange
it. The case was sent to the beis din in Buenos Aires,
which performed it according to halacha. Some people
insisted on having their wedding performed by the kollel.
When it was discovered that the two "kosher" butchers were
selling treif meat, a kollel member and local
baal habayis opened a new butcher store under the
supervision of the kollel. The number of people
keeping kosher began to grow.
The young women in the community were more interested in
Judaism than their husbands. They were devoted to Rebbetzin
Pincus, but after four years intense activity in Santiago,
illness forced their return to Israel.
In the four years that the Pincuses were in Santiago they
influenced a number of people to become religious, and were
instrumental in sending several boys to study in yeshivos in
Israel and the U.S.
Enriching Personal Relationships
Rebbetzin Pincus's life of accomplishment was far from over.
Now she was able to devote herself to her dozens of
grandchildren and great-grandchildren, with all of whom she
had an extraordinary relationship. In fact, each child was
convinced that his or her relationship was more special than
the others. She was the loving grandmother and wise matriarch
who endowed her winning smile and full attention on each
one.
In earlier years, her American grandchildren were filled with
excitement when Savta and Zeidi came to visit. She took each
grandchild aside and showed a keen interest about what was
going on in his or her life. She knew how to talk with such
concern and love that they felt thrilled to speak with
her.
One of the happiest moments in Rabbi and Rebbetzin Pincus's
life was their surprise 50th anniversary celebration 12 years
ago which all nine children planned together. The five
children then living abroad surreptitiously traveled in from
Los Angeles and New York to join their siblings in Israel.
It is impossible to adequately describe the scene when Rabbi
and Rebbetzen Pincus looked up to see all of their children
suddenly appear together in their living room.
That Shabbos night, their son, HaRav Shimshon (zt"l),
said, "This is how I picture kibbutz goluyos and
greeting the Shechina. This is the ecstasy that Jews
will feel."
On this moving occasion, Rebbetzin Pincus spoke feelingly to
her children, telling them how much she had revered their
father. She had always made sure her husband was learning and
that nothing disturbed him. Also she reiterated her strong
belief in the enriching power of learning for women. "Even 15
or 20 minutes a day set aside for learning will enhance your
life immeasurably."
Last Days
Rebbetzin Pincus devoted herself to her family and her large
extended family. People came to the Pincus home throughout
the day. Her days were spent talking and advising people,
learning with chavrusas or learning alone in mussar
seforim and Tanach.
On Shabbos, January 26, close to Sholosh Seudos, her
daughter was helping her mother into a wheelchair when
Rebbetzin Pincus suddenly lost consciousness. Her
petirah was described as a misas neshikoh.
Her levaya was held next to Yeshivas Torah Or on
motzei Shabbos. Although the family only had a few
hours to notify people, many hundreds attended. The
Aron passed by her home, which is an eidus to
her tznius, yiras Shomayim, love of Torah and her
success as a true ezer kenegdo. She was eulogized by
her sons HaRav Avner and HaRav Yosef Binyomin, by her son-in-
law Rav Yosef Savitzky, by her nephew Rav Zelig Weinberg, and
by Rav Yisroel Yaakov Pincus, the oldest son of her son HaRav
Shimshon.
She was buried in Har Hamenuchos next to her illustrious son
HaRav Shimshon and his wife and their daughter, who were
tragically killed in a car accident less that a year ago.
She is survived by over a hundred descendants in Israel and
the U.S., first-class bnei Torah, Jewish educators,
and exemplary Torah Jews, who have all enriched the Torah
world while following in their parents' and ancestors'
paths.
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